whyeverr

30-something ⌇ vanilla-ish ⌇ ts4 gameplay + builds ⌇ usually trying to be funny, occasionally succeeds!

[whyeverr]

Hi, I’m whyeverr. I’m a sagittarius and my pronouns are she/her. I’ve been playing The Sims since 2001. I’m into elaborate builds, complex characters, and vanilla gameplay.

Current project: Patina Save, an Appalachian gothic re-imagining of Copperdale

On hiatus: Rotten Berry Challenge [rules] | Rebuild A City [masterpost]

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I block bot accounts and empty accounts that look like bot accounts. (Pssst — if you still have a default profile picture, you look like a bot!)

My builds and story posts sometimes contain adult themes. I use content warning tags (e.g. #cw: nudity) for anything I anticipate anyone may want to avoid. Please message me if there’s a content warning tag I’m not using that you’d like me to include.

Racism, sexism, heterosexism/homophobia, transphobia, ableism, anti-fat bias, and other hateful views are not welcome here. I block people who don’t openly share my values. 

La Boca Cerrada | Rebuild A City

[biffybobs]

Ghosted 💔

[ashubii]

Need more poly relationship poses, just saying

[elderwisp]

if i had a nickel for every time an early access creator accused a free creator of copying them well i’d have quite a bit but isn’t it strange how greed eventually makes a person so incredibly paranoid

and while i'm at it, what i've come to realize with early acces and paywalling is that has become so normalized in ts4 community is this model was never meant to be sustainable. yet some creators seem to put all of the pressure on the consumer to pay compensation when this is a hobby we are all doing for free. i will never give my money for someone who has clearly never given a damn about the people who are apart of this community. i'm glad we're realizing how harmful and incredibly greedy some creators are but i also want people to realize that the consumer will always hold the power. don't let anyone guilt trip you into thinking that recolored assets from game, broken meshes, repetitive sets, broken mods, ai-gen cc that looks like absolute garbage- need i continue? anyways don't let anyone guilt you into believing you are responsible for their livelihoods when in reality it has been show time and time again, they do not value the labor you’ve put into earning that dollar. please understand this before you find the need to defend an adult who is very much capable of that.

and for the creators who have chimed in with their excuses just know we hear you loud and clear. what you have told us is that “as a creative” you feel entitled to making money off of a game that you didn’t even make from a small studio that prides themselves off of free dlcs and content. get a grip. have some integrity or what’s left of it but we will not tolerate it.

[whyeverr]

Parablr: We Don’t Do That Shit Here 💫

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[sixamese-simblr]

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Happy pride!

[whyeverr]

Flipping burgers, kicking shiitakes, making pretty girls blush.

Everybody's favorite they/them lesbian has arrived 🍒

[arro-now]

Addressing a few concerns

So, I assume most of you don't know, but there is a bit of drama inside the Paralives community. It's funny because this whole thing is revolving around The Sims 3.

TwistedMexi made his first paywalled "early access" mod called Sims 3 Camera, and I've been working on the same thing as he was. 1. Let's get the "clone" allegation out of the way first.

(Source: TwistedMexi's discord server)

TwistedMexi is accusing me of cloning his mod, but let’s look at the facts. Thankfully, I always use GitHub, so the commit dates are there to prove it.

(2026-05-26 22:27:02 +0200) is a timestamp of the first commit with hash d82ddd909e06833b0f8d5d439ad602d04a4f3e08

(2026-05-27T19:57:44.000+00:00) is a timestamp of the publication date of his Patreon post.

Honestly, I didn't know I could see the future, but ok.

2. The second thing I want to address is that currently there are a lot of awful comments directed at Tmex. PLEASE do not harass other creators.

3. Regarding early access and paywalls: My mods are developed in my spare time as a passion project. I believe in keeping my work accessible to everyone, which is why all of my content will remain completely free, forever. I believe the community should play a role in maintaining projects if the original creator steps away, which is why I always share the source code for my projects Free mods are a pillar of a healthy community, whereas paywalls only lead to gatekeeping and unnecessary drama. My hope is that more creators choose to release their mods in a way that prioritizes community growth and shared resources.

A reblog would be greatly appreciated to help spread this message.

Thanks for reading,

xoxo, Arro

[whyeverr]

"Free mods are a pillar of a healthy community, whereas paywalls only lead to gatekeeping and unnecessary drama. My hope is that more creators choose to release their mods in a way that prioritizes community growth and shared resources."

[simpishly]

Magnet Memories

A Sims 4 Gameplay Challenge

Here's a super chill Sims 4 gameplay challenge themed around the 12 magnets we earned across two login events!

Guidelines

Complete a task to "earn" its corresponding magnet. Collect all 12:

Discover Sylvan Glade

Complete the Fossil collection

Get abducted by aliens (Alternatively, just find an alien collectable!)

Try all 4 Brindleton Bay recipes

Have a snowball fight

Build 3 different Snowpals

Experience a volcano eruption

Pet a dolphin

Visit the Magic Realm

Take a selfie with Yamachan

Meet the Peculiar Plumbird

Have twins or triplets (The "On a Ley Line" lot trait really helps!)

I also recommend you display your hard-earned magnets using my Magnet Boards Slot Fix overrides.

Packs Required

Base Game

Get to Work

Cats & Dogs

Seasons

Island Living

Realm of Magic

Snowy Escape

Adventure Awaits

Have fun!

(Missed a login event? Unlock all Live Event rewards with this mod.)

[qwokkasims]

Welcome to Melino. 🥰

[silentgrim]

I'm not one to witch hunt. never will and i wont condone doing it. However i really don't like sims cc creater bringing their paywalling bullshit to Paralives. I think we need to activate our brains cells for a minute and rethink our actions here. its a fucking indie game.

if you see someone locking para cc, a nice fuck you in the comments is truly deserved

[thebramblewood]

Making Parafolk is super addicting!

[whyeverr]

...The townies are doing what now?! 👀

finally had the chance to have a proper poke around Paralives and naturally that meant making two of my favorite Sims (I miss them so much 😭)

lowkey obsessed with how they came out? what a gift to wake up from post-apocalyptic Evergreen Harbor to a charming city like Melino 💗

btw if we're all starting from 0 on this whole food skill thing... I'm thinking we need Cherry here stat! 😉

[thebramblewood]

Tell you my name F-U-C-K Fifty-foot Queenie Force 10 hurricane Biggest woman I could have ten sons Ten gods, ten queens Ten foot and rising

Thank you @acidheaddd and @omgkayplays for tagging me in the OC Song Challenge!

Instructions: Pick an OC, write down a line/lines from a song your OC identifies with/feels describe them, and if you want you can also link to the song, but it is not a must.

My song for Lilith is "50ft Queenie" by PJ Harvey. A lot of Polly Jean's songs from this era are about giving the middle finger to gender norms, being larger than life, having an outsized level of confidence and swagger and being generally aggressive in ways women are often judged for! I feel like Lilith would relate to that a lot, even if her idea of empowerment is a little skewed. 😅 And, I mean, the women Polly Jean portrays in her lyrics aren't always sparkling examples either. "Rid of Me" really gets to the root of the possessiveness and toxicity in the way Lilith treats her relationships. This is another reason why I like PJ, because her version of feminine liberation leaves room for messiness and ugliness. And we support women's rights and wrongs in this house! 😉

[kashisun]

What pisses me off the most about there being early access content for paralives is the fact that it’s an INDIE GAME. it’s not a multi million dollar company like EA. It’s an early access indie game and some of you are so fucking greedy for cash that you wanna profit off of it? We already have to deal with this shit in the sims like the community is fucking infested with it and now you wanna do this to paralives when they literally told us that we’d always be getting updates for free???? Loser behaviour. You’re a loser

[j3llyflesh]

I'm sorry, run that by me again?

We're doing early access mods/cc for an INDIE game that has been out for no more than 3 DAYS?

If you're gonna be a bunch of greed driven motherfuckers, keep it in the sims 4 and leave that newly started community of players alone... holy FUCK, dude.