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she/they • 19 • cancer • fem lesbian

[sapphling]

i have to get jerked off to and a little obsessed over or i'll die

[omegaversereloaded]

Divorce seems to radicalize american men in a way that needs to be studied

[omegaversereloaded]

A divorced american man will join a right wing terror group because he didnt get custody of the kids he didnt take care of at all

[omegaversereloaded]

An american man will have an affair with a colleague, get caught, get divorced, and join isis

[ficklefeatherflaunter]

Intelligent words from @junequeer

[lordcryosrealmoftrash]

God, I love tumblr, its the only place where we can get a philosophical analysis of why divorcees crumble and it was in the tags. Like if not for the screenshot, 90% of people would miss this wisdom

[cometconmain]

Can someone on PC type all that out for people with screen readers? I don't have the spoons, access to PC or the time atm, but it would be great if more people knew what those screenshots said because hell yes that makes eo much sense honestly.

[scribeofpnakotis]

I got you

"It's the removal of identity and rejection of their place in the world btw. American men are groomed (yes I'm using that word on purpose) to believe that it is their Duty and their Right at have a nuclear family and to not achieve the American Nuclear Family is to not be a man. It is to be only a career man at best and a fag at worst and once they achieve that goal they aren't taught and don't realise that they actually have to try to keep that shit. They think they've Achieved The Goal. Why would they have to maintain that? The box has been checked. So they don't parent and they neglect their wife and they cheat and they don't care bc they didn't particularly care about the family anyway. But divorce is the removal of their identity and stakes and pride in being the American Family Patriarch. Suddenly the box they took for granted has been unchecked. And they no longer know who they are anymore or what their purpose is or how to proceed. Bc the american dream doesn't have room for them. And that's why this mostly happens with men who haven't really reckoned with the fact that the american dream doesn't actually have room for anyone at all. So they get radicalised by groups who know they're going through an identity death and they take advantage of the patriotism they have and become even worse people. Bc the bad people are telling them they don't have to reckon with or process the emotions of the divorce. They tell them they're justified in their anger and that they ARE still the American Family Patriarch. They ARE still everything they thought. They just have to beat those (insert group here) in order to get everything back. And these men will fall for it bc bigotry is easier than having to build their own identity from scratch bc the last one was borrowed from their father and refined by shame. Esp since these men were never taught any kind of emotional intelligence or how to handle complex emotions and never cared to learn. Anyway."

-@junequeer

[wildflowerwildfire01]

she sent me biceps pics and I damn near came in my pants

[wildflowerwildfire01]

can we just skip to the part where I get us matching carabiners with the engravings mine and yours?

[wildflowerwildfire01]

im not made for this lesbian shit WE HELD HANDS LOVINGLY AND KISSED AND HUGGED AND SHARED SO MANY VULNERABLE THINGS ON THE FIRST DATE WHILE SITTING AT THE PIERS LOOKING AT THE SUNSET TOGETHER

[rollerfemme-deactivated20260106]

“Sleep well, beautiful” Butch x “dream of me, handsome” femme

[fruitforfemme]

desperate femme this.. desperate femme that.. give me a desperate butch. give me a butch who’s begging to touch me. give me a butch who’s so far gone the only thing they can do is stare and look like they’re about to jump on me.

[vampiredaze]

i'm so attracted to emotional intelligence like damn the way you actually listen and communicate turns me on

[chattyyfemme-deactivated2025060]

femme who are in charge everywhere but the bedroom. (my dream job)

[heyybeach]

Growing up is actually just enjoying the exact same things you enjoyed at 14 years old, but in a more gay way

[crimson-femme]

Dagger On Butch Women, 1994

[wildflowerwildfire01]

theres nothing worse than knowing how to flirt, being able to attract all kinds of people including your type but just not finding any in your area SAVE MEEEEEE

[starrrcane-deactivated20260114]

me when I finished act 3 of arcane and sevika didn’t speak one word

[strbutch]

"he" as in he/him butch lesbian ofc

[wildflowerwildfire01]

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[stuckinapril]

kitten I’ll be honest the finality of everything in this world haunts daddy like a second shadow

[wildflowerwildfire01]

love embracing my naturally wavy hair not in a beach wave way but in a 17th century baroque french painting way

[sillygirl-lol]

Fuck it, everybody get naked lets see whos pussy is the best

[xervn]

squirting contest!