
blake kathryn
"I'm Dorothy Gale from Kansas"
Jules of Nature
Peter Solarz

if i look back, i am lost
PUT YOUR BEARD IN MY MOUTH

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titsay
One Nice Bug Per Day
he wasn't even looking at me and he found me
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Keni
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I'd rather be in outer space 🛸

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@wildgooseace
It is SO important to me that there are separate characters in Heartbreak High that are openly celibate alongside an openly asexual character. Because being asexual does not mean you are celibate. It is a sexual orientation, not a choice.
Cash Piggott was already the best asexual representation I've ever seen, but season two has really solidified that.
Thank you Netflix. It's such a minor detail but it meant the world.
Sometimes I just want to sit down and say, like… Gay men, lesbian women, and straight people. You could wake up tomorrow and discover you’re actually bi.
Tomorrow you could meet someone of the sex you do not think you are attracted to and go “oh fuck”. There is no rule— nothing—that says that could not happen to you at any moment.
“I’ve lived forty years without—” so?
“I can just tell I’m—” how?
Now, we can get into the conversation of how these labels aren’t actually law, and that you can be a lesbian even if there was that one guy and you can be a straight guy if there were those two guys in college and etc.
And that’s totally true and valid and we should normalize that. But that’s another post.
My point for this post is that, yes, you are one strange meeting away from being bisexual. It will probably never happen. But you can never say with 100% certainty that it won’t happen.
But that doesn’t mean every gay, lesbian, and straight person should start calling themselves bisexual just in case. That would be a completely absurd thing to expect.
Can you imagine if we go around to gay men and were like “but how do you know you’ll never be attracted to a woman?” Imagine if we did it to straight people? The idea you have to call yourself Bi just in case?
This is easy to understand. So why is it so hard for people to understand when it comes to asexual and aromantic people?
Like… I suppose I could wake up tomorrow and catch some feels for someone. I… doubt it. But it could happen.
But I’ve been alive 22 years and it hasn’t happened yet. So why should I expect it? Why should I spend time thinking about it? Why should I label myself based on that slim possibility?
The number of straight people who have said to me “well you never know” or “maybe you just haven’t met the right person” or whatever. Can you all IMAGINE what they would say to me if I threw it back?
“Oh, sally, you don’t like any women yet but you never know. Maybe you just haven’t met the right woman.” Their heads would explode I think.
I am an adult. I have been through college and it’s social life. My brain is (basically) done developing and I finished puberty quite a while ago. How late do you have to be before people concede that you’re not a “late bloomer” you’re just not gonna bloom at all?
Maybe tomorrow I will wake up and be attracted to someone. I still would consider myself on the aroace spectrum. But to be honest I think I know myself enough to trust it’s not going to happen. And I don’t think I should have to plan for it or expect it.
MARVIN WINTER ‘23
do yall think i have enough
ur killing me !
Shout-out to my fellow aros and aces who experienced homophobia because allos think that not showing noticeable signs of interest towards the opposite gender automatically means you're into the same gender
Shout-out to my fellow aros and aces who got excluded by queer community because queer allos think that not being attracted to the same gender automatically makes you cishet
Shout-out to my fellow aros and aces who faced discrimination from both allocishet and allo queers yet simultaneously dismissed as 'not being oppressed'
May we persist in the face of arbitrary dichotomy
All the Sloths (Asexual Flag) - Pride Sloths
Here's the next batch of Pride Sloths: the Ace Flag!
Yes I am still making a dang point.
Also, before anyone makes a comment about it, the black on these guys isn't always a perfect true black, just because I needed to be able to see my line art to make sure I wasn't totally colouring outside the lines - I think it still reads pretty well, though! [Image description: Four cartoon sloths standing bipedally in a line, each with a Asexual Pride flag in some way or another. The first one wears the flag as a cape; the second one is holding the flag on a stick; the third one is waving it in the air; the fourth one is holding the flag up in front of itself. The sloths are all slightly different shades of brown.]
Triplets.
winner is out now.
produced by the incredible @gregkurstin. artwork by my absolute favorite @elizavetaporodina. written by me half asleep around two am.
i’ve spent my whole life running from any memory of anything that ever hurt me. but i’ve begun to see that there is a certain freedom in recognizing that you’ve been hurt. i hope this song helps you find a little bit of that freedom. love you.
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