Ok, I was talking to a friend and thought I should just clear something up. It's about the "friend zone". I just saw a post calling guys whiney when the get put in the friend zone and we do it "just because we didn't get what we want". That's not the case at all. Men, like women, have non sexual fantasies. I know, it's weird to think about but we do. And if we ask you out we've probably been fantasizing about a relationship with you for months, maybe more than a year. It's downright terrifying to ask a woman out especially if we've been thinking about you for so long. And when we get told no, we don't want to hang out with because it hurts. A lot. I'm not saying go out with everyone who asks. Just please keep this in mind when you get ready to say no and do it softly.
