Pretty flowers and witty words

She/Her | ISFJ | Sunlight

[prettiestpear]

[winis-days]

28th Feb 2025,

An ethnic vibe and day! Right before exams too...🙂

Things have been hectic, this whole week has been hectic but it is calmer now, a more busy and stress filled week lies in my future I hope I can make it through 🥹

Hope you have a good luck 🍀

Take care!

[winis-days]

26 Feb, 2025

Long time no see 👋

Still a student 😁, I just have one more year till I graduate, I am worrying about my future, but still there is time and there are lot of things I do not know yet so...

Let's see what my future looks like.

Wish you luck! 🍀 🤞

[winis-days]

Source: from Pinterest

[roentgeniuum]

falling back into routine

it’s been a long while since i actually posted something academic in this account, or posted anything at all for that matter. i made this account before 11th grade and now i’m in my second year of college. so many things have changed since then and i’ve moved to different places twice to study. i admit that i still have a long way to make myself home in my program but it’s also nice to improve through little things even if slowly.

[liones-s]

a big lesson for me was learning that most things are not as fragile as I’d believed. missing a class, or turning in a bad assignment, won’t instantly destroy your professor’s opinion of you. accidentally saying something harsh won’t make your friend want to end the friendship. it takes work to repair these things - it takes effort and research and sometimes a sincere apology - but you can do that because they’re not irreparably broken. what you’ve worked to build, in academia and in relationships and in life, is stronger and more enduring that your mind may teach you to believe. don’t let imagined fragility lead you to giving up

[studyblr]

reblog for good things to happen to you

the universe will listen

[strokeofserenity]

Margaret Atwood, “The Blind Assassin.”

[winis-days]

When I had one I yearned for the other

[unleashed-imagination]

But how could you live and have no story to tell?

— Fyodor Dostoevsky

[shakespearesdaughters]

Virginia Woolf, A Writer’s Diary, August 1921

[macgyvermedical]

Took me until about halfway through college before I realized “study” means “play with the material in a variety of ways until you understand it” and not just “read the assigned chapters and do the homework” and I think that probably should have been discussed at some point prior to that.

[palepeachnut]

"Embrace the little moments, for they make up the fabric of life. 🌱

Find joy in the ordinary, for it holds extraordinary beauty. ✨

Live each day with intention, and watch your life bloom. 💗"

[shakespearesdaughters]

[caffeineecold]

nothing has been more important to my being queer than when i went to my first pride parade, got seperated from my group, had a panic attack about it and was sitting on the side of the road holding a tiny genderfluid flag and freaking out. then this six foot five drag queen in four inch heels appeared from literally nowhere and sat down next to me. i, this scared-shitless trans bi kid at pride for the first time, very nervously told her she looked pretty and i told her my name and that i got lost and didn't feel like i should be at pride and she held my hand and said "oh, honey, everybody deserves to be here, especially you. pride is for everybody who's ever gotten lost, who's been scared of who they are or where they are. you think we never been scared before? pride's for you, honey, because you're scared. you don't have to be proud right now, but you're gonna be one day, honey, i'm sure of it."

i found my group soon after that and i never saw that queen again but to this day i am convinced i met an angel.

so yeah. pride is for you. pride is for all of us.

[shakespearesdaughters]

[fieldofdahlias]

As beautiful as brown eyes

[winis-days]

Coffee and chocolate

[manincaffeine]

We all are told that people change, friendships change, and that's life. But nothing prepares your tender soul for that shock. When a really close friend changes, it changes your world, ever so bitterly and ever so silently. You can't even mourn it properly because "Who cries over broken friendships? Lol, it's not like you were lovers." But you know in your heart how much it means to you. You know how helpless you feel, how cheated, and how absolutely broken. So you cry in dry tears, all alone, burning in that anger of "How can you ever change who we were? Who gave you that right? Don't you feel ashamed?" Yes, you feel that angry. But you don't fight. Why? Because it was SO naked. Even a blind person could see that you were being ignored, that you were being replaced, and that no one gave a damn about how it affected you. You felt insulted. We knew it. We talked about it how important we were to each other. We promised each other that we are family. And family stays family, remember? Family stays family. But was I your family? No. You just walked out on me as if it was a normal hi-hello. You broke my heart. And it's not that I did not try to keep it as normal as I could. I tried talking to you with the same laughter and smile. But I just could not. I could not just fake that emotion with you. It was like my soul was crying inside while I was trying to laugh with you. So I failed. And I started walking away from you. I wanted to share all those things with you as soon as they happened, like always. I almost picked the phone. But I did not tell you.

I knew we were not the same anymore. And you did not deserve to know my daily smile and tears. And hey, I did not find someone else to tell those things. I did not replace you. I just buried that friend, just dead. So in all those moments of utter joy and sheer pain, I was all alone. And my soul is so angry at you for leaving me alone like this. I will never forgive you. But I will still pray for you. You know why? Because I can still die for you. And you, you did not even care when we were going dead. How can you? How??

[winis-days]

I felt this with many people at many stages and honestly it doesn't hurt any less you just deal with a little better