this is lowkey out of my comfort zone and pretty vulnerable for a first post, but i don't really have anywhere else to go for advice.
i'm a trans man, and i'm bisexual. i don't have any guy friends, let alone any guy friends who are also into guys. i've never had a serious boyfriend, only girlfriends, and every time i talk to a guy, it doesn't end well. the only guy that i've seriously liked and saw myself with was when i was 15 (i'm almost 20 now), but he passed away a few years ago.
recently, i started a new job, and there's a guy that i work with who i'm kind of into. he's nice, and we get along well, and he talks to me every day, even though our jobs are super busy.
what i'm wondering is, how can yall tell if a guy is into you, as another guy? i can't tell if he's into men like that. he does go out of his way to talk to me during the day, and my friends think he likes me, but i really can't tell.
i don't wanna get too into it if he isn't even a real option. i'm talking to a different guy right now (i'm lowkey not super into him anymore, he's kind of an asshole) and idk if i should just keep going with him and let it happen, or if i should stop putting my energy into someone i don't see anything with. also, i don't think he sees anything serious with me, which contributes to me wanting to pull away from what i have going on with him.
please, if you have any advice, it'd be appreciated. this is stressing me out, and i'm tired of being lonely, lol.
(i can give some more details if yall want/need. nobody in my life knows about this account so i'm pretty much an open book here) (i also posted this on reddit but i don't trust those mfs to give me good advice)