Literally the guy was doing an interview, and the topic was "'cancel culture,"' and Graham was kinda not really engaging in the topic as much as possible, and then the interviewer was like "well what about JKR? People are cancelling HER, what's your take on that?" And he was like "look I'm not actually sure why people want the opinion of celebrities on things like this -- I'm not involved in that whole topic, and I don't have any authority to speak to it, and what I think we SHOULD do is listen to those who DO have authority on the issue, such as trans people and the parents of trans kids and doctors who are experts in that field. I'm just a bloke in a pink suit and I have no business weighing in on the topic, and idk why anyone would want me to."
He was literally like "yo don't drag me into this, but if youre gonna insist on it, then I'm gonna direct you to the experts on the topic, since I'm decidedly not an expert." He didn't even say her name. It was the most polite "this isn't my wheelhouse" I've ever heard.
And JKR lashed out at him and accused him of siding with rapists and abusers who hate women, like??????? Lady what the fuck. He literally never even said your name.
And then of course her troll army descended upon Graham's every online presence, and then next thing you know, the gay man who said "let's talk to experts about issues rather than celebrities like me," is being driven off social media.