Ah.

21 - They/Them

[wizardwithpronouns]

Car repair shop had my car for 5 hours and I told them I needed it back by 1 this afternoon so I can go to work. I called them at 12:45 and they said "yeah, we haven't touched that one yet. We had a lot of walk ins today" I had an appointment before I dropped it off????? Now I need to find another day and another place to get my car fixed 🫩

[sandersstudies]

Sick list of symptoms bro. Now try humanizing your behavior instead of pathologizing it.

[sandersstudies]

Pathologizing: Hey sorry I yelled at you. I have this ADHD symptom called RSD that makes me really sensitive.

Humanizing: Hey, I’m sorry that I blew up like that earlier. In the moment I felt really attacked and overwhelmed and I reacted badly, but I know you didn’t mean to offend me with what you said, so that behavior is on me.

[queer-asinfuckyou]

Because I just saw a post bitching about this one, I want to add: this post is saying that you need to take accountability for the way you hurt other people, even if it happens because of a symptom of your disability/illness. It's also saying that using terms (especially acronyms) that aren't common knowledge isn't a helpful way to explain yourself. It is NOT saying that you need to let people walk all over you because "your disability isn't an excuse."

If you're diabetic, you don't have to eat the honey glazed ham that will send you into a coma (their example). But you also can't yell at the person offering it and accuse them of trying to kill you. You can just say "thanks, but my body can't handle that kind of sugar intake, so I'll pass"

[ayin-me-yesh]

If you run over someone's foot with your wheelchair you still apologise

[animentality]

[wizardwithpronouns]

I fukin hate being diabetic omg this shit is so tiring

[wizardwithpronouns]

Withing 12 hours of posting this, some coworkers of mine recommended I stop using insulin and start taking bitter melon drops or cinnamon capsules instead to naturally treat my condition. These two coworkers also work in Healthcare omfg

[wizardwithpronouns]

I fukin hate being diabetic omg this shit is so tiring

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

It's always "stop harming yourself or we'll have to lock you up!!!" and never "what do you need to change to want to harm yourself less and how can we help you make some of these changes?" and that's why we're not getting anywhere

[i-suggest-transing-your-gender]

Dear queers, stop people pleasing and start proudly people displeasing this pride month 🙂‍↕️

[assignedmale]

[maxmorkson]

Happy Pride, bite a transphobe today 💙

[wizardwithpronouns]

I inherited my great great grandmother's silver cook and dinnerware and omg this stuff needed some polishing

[malwareproductions]

hey. you have to love your trans brothers of color okay. and your trans sisters of color. and your nonbinary siblings of color. you have to okay. its simply non-optional

[the-irreverend]

And stay safe everyone!

[orteil42]

given the current climate this pride especially i feel i must mention that i love my trans friends, i stand with trans people in the fight against transphobic legislation and those who would enforce it, and this blog is not a good place for you to be if you do not vibe with that

[baraphalloplastyclinic]

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

[ladyfoxfire]

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

[dressedupliketheking]

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

[enki2]

[wizardwithpronouns]

I'm gone on a cruise without wifi for one week and that's when Miraculous decides to post a bunch of new episodes???

[wizardwithpronouns]

And none of them are Marc’s episode???? Fine, I'll write it myself for fucks sake

[wizardwithpronouns]

I'm gone on a cruise without wifi for one week and that's when Miraculous decides to post a bunch of new episodes???