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Always

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Ooooh, yes please! 💖

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Rare and beautiful

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Daddy’s Good Girl…

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“Connection Is Everything, Soul To Soul, We Breathe As One” ~ ADWJ©

Cum my love to the Wolf’s Den…

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“Good girl”

Is what a submissive lives to hear.

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The Worst Punishment?

As a D’s relationship grows from its early beginnings rules usually become a part of it. Your Dom and you should’ve talked about yours and his needs and wants, and areas you’d like to grow in, and the Dom should then have started to slowly give you rules to follow to encompass these. They could be simple ones like, having to ask what he wants you to wear, (that one doesn’t work for me btw, unless it’s a special occasion), or a morning and night check-in to alleviate worrying and reinforce the bond, or a drink limit and curfew when out drinking with friends for your health and safety. There are many rules that can be implemented. When a submissive fails to follow any of her Dom’s rules there has to be consequences for that. She has disrespected her Dom and the dynamic. By breaking a rule for no good reason she is saying that she doesn’t value her Dom’s effort to come up with rules that will help both her needs and his wants. Consequences! So, if a sub breaks a rule what should the Dom do? If it’s a minor or first time infraction then maybe all he does is have a talk with his sub. Find out why this happened and to make it clear that it shouldn’t happen again. If the sub breaks the rule again then more serious discipline may be required. Lines, corner time, writing out how the subs behaviour has let her Dom and herself down, loss of priveledges, extra chores, the list is endless. Some Doms may choose pain as a punishment whether it be from impact as in a spanking, or from stress positions that the sub has to hold. Even if your sub is a masochist I believe that there will be some sort of physical discipline that they won’t like. As with everything in a D’s dynamic, types of discipline that can be administered should’ve been negotiated ahead of time. For example, in the case of physical discipline especially, you may be restricted by health issues or just your own hard limits. Never withhold affection from her. That’s not discipline, it’s abuse.

But the absolute worst punishment would be, for me anyway, no punishment at all. That would not allow me to atone for my mistake, to show my Dom that do respect him. In my eyes if there’s no discipline, there’s no chance of forgiveness from your Dom so that you can then forgive yourself, learn and move on. It also says that if the Dom isn’t bothered by your rule breaking then why should you be. It says that the Dom isn’t paying attention to you and the dynamic. It doesn’t allow for you both to find peace and resolution. It’s not something a good Dom will do. And, there should always be forgiveness and aftercare after you’ve been disciplined.

The worst punishment of them all is, no punishment at all! Please don’t do that!

Magpie'69 💜☠️🍒

16/9/18

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I’ve revised this slightly because it was pointed out to me that my original was ambiguous as to whether I thought no punishment was an option. It isn’t, and I do not!

Also, there was a major spelling mistake in there too, lol.

Thank you my dear friend @itsshinycollectordestinyworld for giving me your honest opinion when I asked you for it. I really do appreciate that! 🤗😘💜

crusoesampersand

“ But the absolute worst punishment would be, for me anyway, no punishment at all. That would not allow me to atone for my mistake, to show my Dom that do respect him. In my eyes if there’s no discipline, there’s no chance of forgiveness from your Dom so that you can then forgive yourself, learn and move on. “

There is so much @magpie-69 has written that speaks to me. Tasking and expectations can be amazing, but if there is no follow-up then what is the sense? We must know there are consequences for our actions and that our Dominant is committed to holding us accountable.

crusoesampersand

“Maybe it’s not even a punishment, just sad abandonment of the dynamic.”

Is such a powerful statement @itsnotstrangeatall you’ve very succinctly captured what I’m afraid happens all too often.

Punishment is hard on both sides of the slash. Doling out punishment (regardless of what it is) affects the giver as much as the receiver. But if we never receive correction, then the praise feels empty. Both praise and punishment are necessarily to show that we care enough about the dynamic to pay attention and take action.