[nevver]

Head in ruins, Tania Font (because)

[weltenwellen]

What is love according to you?

I think for me it's a continuing interest to get to know someone, to understand them, to take care of them... to experience life with them and wanting to listen to how they experience living.

[vaviumm-deactivated20260303]

[flowerytale]

John Keats, from “Ode to a Nightingale” (1819)

[the-vague-astrometry]

“So he tortured himself, fretting himself with such questions, and finding a kind of enjoyment in it. And yet all these questions were not new ones suddenly confronting him, they were old familiar aches.”

— Fyodor Dostoyevsky, Crime and Punishment

[octoberloved]

[weltenwellen]

Dorianne Laux, from “Heart”, Smoke

[nevver]

The constellations of summer, Alvin Ng

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Cope with Change

1. See it as a process, not a one time event. When you make a change in your life, there are lots of small adaptations to be made. It takes time to process and adjust to those changes – so be patient with yourself.

2. Change the way you think about change. Try to see it in a positive light. Even although there are lots of negatives and challenges, you’re likely to benefit in the end.

3. Face your feelings, and especially the negative ones. If you don’t, they’ll simmer beneath the surface and make it harder for you to cope. Feelings are neither good nor bad. They just are. If you feel bad, you feel bad!

4. Notice any areas where you have control as that will help you to feel less trapped or boxed in.

5. Pay attention to your thoughts and attitudes – and choose to look for the positives, and to frame uncertainties in a hopeful way.

6. Stay in touch with people who care, and can act as a support in this time of change.

[theclassyissue]

[valtsv]

saying "are you haunted? are you fucking possessed?" is my favorite way to express my taking issue with someone else's behavior. like brother you are acting so strange and unlike yourself that the only explanation is you are being tormented by a spirit of some kind.

[talonabraxas]

“Know then that the body is merely a garment. Go seek the wearer, not the cloak.” Rumi

[01938271839]

neil hilborn, a place where someone loves you / [deactivated user] / @filmnoirsbian / anne sexton / sonnet by neil gaiman / caitlyn siehl, start here

[egillbjarki]

Mong Kok, Hong Kong 2023

[weltenwellen]

Kerry Egan, On Living

[smbd]

雪が降ってきたから東京タワーを撮ってみた�… on Twitpic

[finita--la--commedia]

“Time is not a straight line, it’s more of a labyrinth, and if you press close to the wall at the right place you can hear the hurrying steps and the voices, you can hear yourself walking past on the other side.”

— Tomas Tranströmer (1931-2015), from “Answers to Letters”, in: “The Great Enigma”, translated from the Swedish by Robin Fulton