[minkdoll]

[wonkyfaint]

can i say something mean?

[wonkyfaint]

i think at this point quite a few lesbian radical feminists need to see that they're way more obsessed with men and their sex lives than straight/bi women and honestly the men themselves are sometimes

[wonkyfaint]

can i say something mean?

[wonkyfaint]

also like um why outside of student loans medical debt and emergencies are people so in debt? im like always like what ?????? at people being 60k in debt for like nothing

[ecstaticadventures]

‘bread is bad for you’ ‘rice is bad for you’ sorry im not subscribing to the idea that staple grains that have been integral to cultures for centuries are evil. i love you carbs

[wonkyfaint]

i like don't believe in grandparents being important to raising a child at all and like maybe because i don't really know mine but the way grandparents act like they are entitled to their child's children is so gross to me like no that is not your kid you don't get say over shit to do with them and you don't get to demand access to them or influence them at all tbh

[wonkyfaint]

it actually is crazy that my mom trauma dumped her whole traumatic life on me growing up (and told me something about my dad i don't think was right for her to share with me) and hit me a few times (she would never admit to that or probably doesnt even remember (backhanded me when i was nine on the way to school the first time by the way because i was too mouthy (literally said to everyone the other month how much she wanted to smack me as a child and it took everything in me not to scream bitch you did))) and would constantly tell me she wished she could run away from her four kids and never come back (honestly i think she's a reason for a lot of my childhood anxiety and ocd things) and how much she wanted to divorce my dad (but never would even though i was rooting for it) and fucked my own body image up because she was so fucked up about her body all the time and i remember i thought i was fat when i was ten dude TEN why does a ten year old need to be worried about being fat and didn't teach me how to actually be a fucking not lazy human adult and and and and and

can't believe i still talk to her god i can't wait until i never have to live with her again

in comparison my dad just wasn't there because he worked too many hours and wasn't interested in us kids and never let me forget i was fat and he didnt approve

what the fuck

and i like gave them tons of grace for it too since i younger and i think that was me coping because i was deeply mentally ill and unemployed for forever and had to live with them both

parents suck

[wonkyfaint]

actually they both also let my younger siblings make fun of and lightly ridicule everything about me to this day and only my sister in law has ever come up to me and said how she sees how mean they all are to me and it's fucked

[wonkyfaint]

do i even have ten favorite movies?

[wonkyfaint]

it actually is crazy that my mom trauma dumped her whole traumatic life on me growing up (and told me something about my dad i don't think was right for her to share with me) and hit me a few times (she would never admit to that or probably doesnt even remember (backhanded me when i was nine on the way to school the first time by the way because i was too mouthy (literally said to everyone the other month how much she wanted to smack me as a child and it took everything in me not to scream bitch you did))) and would constantly tell me she wished she could run away from her four kids and never come back (honestly i think she's a reason for a lot of my childhood anxiety and ocd things) and how much she wanted to divorce my dad (but never would even though i was rooting for it) and fucked my own body image up because she was so fucked up about her body all the time and i remember i thought i was fat when i was ten dude TEN why does a ten year old need to be worried about being fat and didn't teach me how to actually be a fucking not lazy human adult and and and and and

can't believe i still talk to her god i can't wait until i never have to live with her again

in comparison my dad just wasn't there because he worked too many hours and wasn't interested in us kids and never let me forget i was fat and he didnt approve

what the fuck

and i like gave them tons of grace for it too since i younger and i think that was me coping because i was deeply mentally ill and unemployed for forever and had to live with them both

parents suck

[achillesinhighheels]

[catchymemes]

[wonkyfaint]

can autocorrect like work again? is it just me or is it dogshit now?

[wonkyfaint]

as an actual eldest daughter of four children and a millennial two years younger than taylor this is highly relatable and true

[angelbabymikaa]

do YOU personally think “true love” is real whatever that means to you

YES ❤️💕♥️

no ‼️😕

it depends 🤷🏻‍♀️

Remaining time: 1 day 2 hours

[singing-bowl]

you really have no choice but to be yourself huh

[wonkyfaint]

actually leaning in and living as my authentic not perfect self and indulging like i want to and not denying my wants and needs has changed my life it also weirdly aligns up very much with my astrological chart so 🤷‍♀️

[wonkyfaint]

not to confirm astrology is real or anything but as a vain attention craving self-obsessed leo i must say taking and sending nudes has made me so much more comfortable in my body and in fact i find myself extremely hot now and my self-confidence is through the roof who knew i just needed to lean into my need to be showered with compliments and praise and get it for myself by being confident and assertive and hot