not endo safe you will be blocked idgaf 🖕
sending hatemail gets us off you mean nothing to us
if you try and find personal info i will condemn you forever and eber
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aromantic. don’t fucking date us

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not endo safe you will be blocked idgaf 🖕
sending hatemail gets us off you mean nothing to us
if you try and find personal info i will condemn you forever and eber
he/him only
aromantic. don’t fucking date us
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This is VERY different from what I usually post, but I wanted to talk about ai addictions for a second. Yes it’s a real thing, yes it’s an actual addiction. For a long time, I was addicted to character.ai. I used it every day, I would use it in class, during dinner, when I was supposed to be sleeping, etc. basically I was always talking to ai chat bots. I became uncomfortable and antsy when not using it, and I would talk to my friends less and less. My mental health was at an all time low. At some point I realized I was being completely hypocritical. I was so anti ai art, but I replaced reading books and fanfics with ai chats. Writers are artists too, and I replaced them with ai.
If anyone out there is struggling with an ai chat addiction, here’s what worked for me: see if your phone has a way to limit times on apps. Set a time limit for your ai of choice, lower the time limit as time goes on. When you’re ready, delete the app. It won’t work for everyone, but it really helped me.
hey. you. you with the character ai addiction. yes you. who keeps using chatgpt until midnight. you're not a bad person for being hooked to something literally designed to do that. it's not a moral failing, you're not secretly evil for hating ai and being addicted to it. you're not secretly evil because you didn't know what you were doing when you used it. yes, you have a problem and need to fix it, but having a problem doesn't make you a bad person and fixing it is fucking hard. give yourself some grace because otherwise you won't make any progress. and there's nothing wrong with needing help.
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Nod-Krai really did so much for Dottore's characterization. The biggest thing imo is that it made it glaringly obvious that the whole transactional relationships thing is something he has fully internalized as well. The AQ did a great job of showcasing his style of manipulation but his transactional relationships ethos is not intentionally a part of the manipulation HE JUST ACTUALLY BELIEVES THAT. That's why he thought "hey i basically just killed your friend but i can perform her function even better come look at all my awesome new powers" might actually work. I mean, it's worked for him before! The Akademiya had a lot of shit to say about him when he was some no-name weirdo but when he swanned in offering the solution to all their problems they changed their tune real fast. He knows the majority of his coworkers hate him but they all have to put up with him, you know why? Because he's USEFUL AS FUCK! Head in my handsssss
the reason trans men are rarely named in anti trans bills is that the legislation to oppress trans men already typically existed and has been happening before now btw
system in science here and the most frustrating thing about being in this community is the blatant science denial. most of the “plural” community has the audacity of your catholic relative who tries to guilt trip you into believing in god at thanksgiving.
i was talking about how CDDs work and how you can’t have parts without separation—AKA dissociation. there has to be dissociation to an extreme degree or there just can’t be the separation.
and then this person in the server starts talking about religion and that there are “ways to give yourself parts with spiritual practices.”
i have to deal a lot with creationism when i talk about the field i’m going into and i genuinely try to do it respectfully. i think there’s plenty of ways religion can interact with science that isn’t blatant denial of things like the big bang, dinosaurs, etc. yknow? religion has been around for thousands of years and isn’t going anywhere. removing religion still doesn’t get rid of thousands of years worth of cultural beliefs and customs either.
however if we’re talking about the human brain, we’re talking about science. if you are spreading blatant misinformation and ableism i am going to be rude because at the end of the day, it’s not fucking real.
i understand cultural interpretations of psychosis and dissociation. in some cultures, they might interpret their symptoms as a spiritual experience and there’s been plenty of papers about this that endogenics bring as “evidence.”
however there’s two possibilities:
1) a person is experiencing a CDD and genuine dissociative parts and are interpreting it in a cultural, religious, or spiritual context (ex. “the voices talking to me are angels”)
2) a person does not have dissociative parts or a CDD and is interpreting minor (sometimes voluntary) dissociation as parts through a cultural, spiritual, or religious lens (ex. “i meditated and gave myself an alter”)
as per no. 2, that doesn’t make them parts. you can call it a “walk in” from another universe, you can say it was a religious practice, and you can say it was a part you made on purpose with meditation. that doesn’t make it a separate part of you with a barrier from another part because there’s nothing actually separating it. you cannot deny the fucking laws of thermodynamics, time, and energy. the fact they come into spaces with discussions of the science behind these conditions with their bullshit shows how 1) they don’t have a CDD because they have no concept of the seriousness of one and 2) they don’t have the knowledge of academic writing to understand the outdated papers they pulled out of their ass. which is probably why they offer those papers up in the first place—they don’t actually fucking read them.
i want to be nice about it, but i’m sorry. it’s not fucking real. there is zero scientific basis behind any of their claims. there is no evidence of a god. there is no evidence of dimensional travel. absolutely fuck all. they can think they have genuine alters and interpret symptoms that might not even be there, but it doesn’t actually give them a system.
sorry for the book in your inbox. i am so fucking tired of these people coming into spaces where we talk about our condition, its treatment, and new studies being done. we are talking about the real, human brain, the mind, and how long term trauma can change it. i feel so fucking pretentious when speaking about it because i don’t want to come off as “oh i’m in college so i know more than you,” but i need to word vomit this out somewhere.
This is actually really fucking awesome and I'm glad you took the time to write this out
I usually get reluctant to read/answer long posts but this was interesting thanks
Idk who needs to hear this but you cannot be ableist towards endogenics based on the idea that they are endogenic because that is inherently an oxymoron.
If endos are not disordered then they cannot be discriminated against based on having that disorder because they themselves have said they don’t have that disorder.
“Fakeclaimers and ableists feed off that rhetoric” bro I’m not saying it’s right that fakeclaimers use “endo behaviour” to investigate traumagenic validity but I’m not deleting my account because an endo dick rider went “oh great another anti endo against fakeclaiming and ableism”.
Dude I know fakeclaimers use endos not existing as a reason to fakeclaim (see: my #endoterrogation tag explanation in my pinned post) but if you freaks weren’t so fucking insistent on being in CDD spaces and claiming CDD experiences and being a weird invasive species then we wouldn’t have people using “behaves like an endo” as a reason to fakeclaim. I saw a post earlier, I’ll link it here if I find it that basically said the same thing.
Yes. I’m against fakeclaiming and ableism. Did you know endogenics and their dick riders are ableists too? My blog is specifically about fakeclaiming , I’m anti endo because you cannot be endogenic and be a system. It’s scientifically impossible.
Oh! And because one of your posts says I can’t scientifically back it up I really can.
Please see any entry regarding DID (and subsequently OSDD-1) in: the DSM-V , the IDC-11 , the NHS criterion page for dissociative identity disorder , the Cleveland clinic criterion page for dissociative identity disorder and LITERALLY ANY OTHER SCIENTIFICALLY BACKED AND PEER REVIEWED ARTICLE ON DISSOCIATIVE IDENTITY DISORDER.
Also I think everyone should read this post by a system in science I think it would really get your heads out your arses.
Go touch grass and gain some knowledge outside an echochamber of carrd links , biased google docs and hypothetical blog posts.
Not posting the comment because I do not care to.
hi reminder that aromantic people don’t have to compensate for their lack of romantic attraction with familial or platonic attraction. “aros still love their friends!!” sometimes they do. other times they don’t, and that’s okay! using non-rose attraction as a stand-in for romance invalidates loveless, afamilial, and apl folks. we don’t have to make up for our existence
has this been done
Why do ao3 allow illegal things on there like csm, Kink, violence, non English works, etcetera?
unfortunately folks every language that isn’t english is illegal now
(I’m going to start posting flag imgs and THEN request imgs, so that these show up better in our archive.)
As far as I know, there is no word for this yet! Let’s nail down the definition and coin one.
Nemelosexual: A person equally comfortable with sexual and non-sexual relationships, whose attraction shifts to fit either situation.
(from the Greek word ανέμελος, (anemelos) meaning carefree)
This is the closest I could define what I think you mean! Tell me if it works, and yay! Happy coining!
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the concept of an ableist community attempting to bastardize a disorder caused exclusively by severe/repeated trauma telling me, a survivor of repeated physical and emotional abuse, to harm myself because theyre pissy that im telling them they cant "identify with" a disorder they dont meet the basic requirements for is absolutely insane to me
all of the pro endos ive had the displeasure of interacting with have behaved the exact same way as every person who has abused and manipulated us in the past. telling us to harm ourselves, kill ourselves, generally wishing very graphic and violent things to happen to us, and somehow theyre the "victims" who have "done nothing wrong"? make it make sense
ive been called a 'bitch' and a 'cunt' significantly more since talking about transandrophobia than i have at any previous point in my life
which says a lot tbh
how many gigs of CP do you have saved?
report for spam and block 👆
Do you believe incitement should ever be punishable by anything?
this is a writing blog about fanfiction
jesus fucking christ why are people using the ussr flag as a symbol of SOCIALISM
going to start biting and mauling actually.