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third cuddy of the season - irl edition!!!! when can i rest

#lisa cuddy #cuddy #house md #house md fanart #lisa cuddy fanart #lisa edelstein #lesbian #still haven't finished exorcising my fixation on her from my brain #my art

baraphalloplastyclinic

I actually do think we should discourage women from becoming housewives. Do not become financially dependent on a man. That's how a lot of women ended up dead over the years. A man gets violent suddenly and you have to choose between homelessness or potentially dying at his hand because you have an enormous gap in your resume and no degrees or certifications or anything that will help you pursue a career that will allow you to be financially independent. He owns your bank account. His name is probably the one on the car. Try and leave and he can report it stolen. Where will you go then?

Don't become a housewife.

ladyfoxfire

And if you do become a housewife, take steps to protect yourself. Make sure you’re legally married, for starters; stay-at-home girlfriends have very little legal recourse to claim their partner’s assets in a breakup. Make sure your name is on the house deed/rental agreement, and have your car in your name, even if your spouse is paying for it. Have your spouse transfer money every month into an account solely in your name, so you can buy yourself things without needing permission, but also so you can save up to leave if needed.

If your spouse fights you on any of this, then don’t quit your job. The tradwife to poverty pipeline is real, and so is financial abuse.

dressedupliketheking

also, many women/people experience controlling behaviour and domestic violence from their partner for the first time during pregnancy. don’t risk thinking “he’s just stressed, it’ll get better when the baby comes” because it won’t. neither you and your child will ever be safe with that man. get out as early and safely as you can

zombblehh

Shout out to the autistic who’s abilities have regressed as they’ve gotten older.

“You didn’t used to be like this when you were a kid.” I know please don’t remind me

theconcealedweapon

"This never bothered you when you were a kid."

Yes it did. I just let it slide because I was taught that I'm "too sensitive" anytime something bothered me. But now I'm finally standing up for myself.

"You never struggled with this when you were a kid."

Yes I did. I just burned myself out in order to do it so I wouldn't be punished. But now I'm accepting myself enough to not force myself to do what I was never meant to do.

countessravengrey

"You didn't have these problems when you were younger."

Yes, I did. I just spent my child/teen years with structured institutions like school while not having to worry about whether I had a roof over my head or food to eat and spent my early adult years using up every bit of adrenaline I will ever have to ignore the fact that I've been chronically burnt out my whole life.

ashkaztra

"But you did fine for years, why would it be bad now?"

Because I spent the first 37 years of my life burning the candle at both ends to function even remotely and I scraped that barrel empty. Then I crashed and burned and now I'm likely never recovering fully.

fruityculture

Every day i think about those black musicians whose songs were made into covers by white people and now everyone thinks that these are the originals. Youtube comment sections are full of people like "is this what it feels like to find out you're adopted?" instead of celebrating and promoting the original creators of the songs.

fruityculture

Gloria Jones - Tainted Love

Little Eva - Loco-Motion

Martha & The Vandellas - Dancing in the Streets

James Ray - I've Got My Mind Set On You

Big Mama Thornton - Hound Dog

Robert Knight - Everlasting Love

Erma Franklin - Piece of My Heart

The Family - Nothing Compares 2 U (written by Prince)

The Supremes - You Can't Hurry Love

The Supremes - Keep Me Hanging On

fruityculture

The Top Notes - Twist and Shout

Lord Creator - Kingston Town

The Paragons - Tide is High

Commodores - Easy

And here's an entire playlist with songs by black artists covered by The Rolling Stones:

lovebvffys

female awesome meme -> [1/20] dynamics - willow and tara (buffy the vampire slayer)

“i am you know.” “what?” “yours.”

desert-love

a-book-of-creatures

When you see an adolescent saguaro 👍

cam1lla

I think the real reason Yuri hasn’t took off on this site is that unfortunately all of the f/f ships you people like suck ass to smart people. Rhaenicent fucking sucks it is the worst ship of all time and every time I see it I’m like I wish I was a straight woman so I had nothing to do with you people embarrassing me like that. Shauna/Jackie is the least interesting aspect of that show and those characters. Why are all of these bad f/f ships the same bland reheation of Jennifer’s Body nachos which tbh were always a little overblown to begin with. Oh??? When you were a teenage girl once 50 years ago??? You had a crush on your best friend and it ended bad???? SO DID EVERYONE GROW UP AND REALIZE NO ONE ELSE FINDS THAT AS COMPELLING AS YOU DO. One episode of the L word would KILL YOU PEOPLE on site.

wutheringcunts

BARSSSSSSS but it is mainly misogyny and everyone has man brain aka is obsessed with only yaoi ("yuri just isn't as good") but that's also bc men are acc better written BC OF MISOGYNY AND SHIT WRITING IM GOING TO KMSSSSSS also for example a league of their own being compared to heated rivalry is so embarrassing bc aloto is nowhere near as good SORRY. bc women simply don't get that fucking budget. WE DESERVE BETTER and the same with that First Kill uproar like THAT SHOW WAS FUCKING AWFUL.... yes we should fight for lesbian shows but that ain't it. also L word was the best we had in terms of loads of lesbians at once AND YET ITS STILL PRETTY SHIT and so dated now god sorry i say that as someone who hateloves it. also so much good yuri is always just in the background of elite yaoi shows so it gets overshadowed ie. alana in hannibal, claudia in interview with the vampire, ymir and historia in attack on titan..... when will we be free from the teenage best friend romance trope, the doomed bury your lesbians trope, the oversexualised male gaze constantly cheating bullshit just to keep the show on air, no budget no diversity no emotional intelligence bland slop we always get. if i see one more white girl teenage gay awakening movie set in a small town in america i'm gonna kms. the miseducation of cameron post you're my exception. but yes. give me age gap lesbians give me hairy chubby freaks give me lesbian perverts and man haters give me dykes who don't even know what a man is give me women who want to kill everyone and themselves fucking give me gross lesbian sex and dramatic arcs that aren't tainted with all the yearning bullshit just let the women fuck but also be layered and miserable or EVEN layered and haunted by trauma but persevering anyway #hopecore in the form of yuri. this is obviously trans inclusive btw i just love women and women fucking. and i love miserable women haunted by the reality of this world and finding solace in each other and in communities away from our oppressors (men) and found family and being politically aware. i don't even want just lesbians i'm just starved. i've seen MANY lesbian movies btw i'm just tired of scouring the subtext for crumbs then watching them be forced to be with men kms sorry i forgot what the original post is even about hi everyone. so anyways this is to say that this blog is now going to be reblogging erwin smith x levi ackerman yaoi.

lenaikart

I had very strong urge to draw fem!eruri

berlogauwu

old yaoi

madbalalaika

Today I bring you Eruri. Tomorrow? Who knows...

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zombievonmorgen-art

#eruri —- #5 Kissed

jingerpi

plushiekush-deactivated20250830

white ppl will steal every aesthetic from black culture and then call it something so stupid like bo derek braids instead of box braids or hasbin hotel core instead of black southern dandism. yall will bend over backwards to call my culture barbaric/scary just to drool over the aesthetic the moment no actual black people are involved (21 pilots vs actual reggae). And if ur white/nonblack reading this just reblog. I dont need any comments talking about how not racist you are + speaking up over actual black people.