Xef 🔱🏳️‍🌈 @xef-de-la-xasa - Tumblr Blog

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He ala! I'm Xef de la xasa — pronounced, 'Shef De La Shasa'; meaning, 'Head/Master of the Hunt' — or you guys can just call me Xef for short.

I'm a small personal writer who likes writing short stories based off of my OCs and worlds I make in my spare time and I just wanna share them online I guess.

I'm an elefeniste and a massive language nerd — if you couldn't already tell. I love making custom languages as they flesh out worlds, also it's cool speaking multiple languages.

Guess this is my first post then, grasias, per leje. Asta plu tarda!

#first post #writing #Elefen #LFN #linguistics #language

bearsockz

happy Halloween from me and my girls

occasionallybirds

Blue Jay (Cyanocitta cristata)

October 23, 2025

Southeastern Pennsylvania

(Birds safely handled, banded, and released under state and federal permits for research purposes.)

plasticpixiez

gamer bat girl gf

(she/they)

twipps-deactivated20251224

The doodler

ljesak

kolaepup

Spooky Time! for dansharkman!

radientlapis

My sillayyyyyy I love character pages this was SO fun to format I absolutely adore the formatting with the little chibi hehe. Hoping to make more of these in the future me thinkssss. Anyway yeah my little Tai, I really am feeling more confident with my art these days which is really exciting for me!!!

labmousegirl

one of the things that makes autism a disability (and why some of us choose to label it as such rather than an “alternate neurotype”) is the stress.

part of autism is just being incredibly stressed. overstimulation? stress. holding a conversation? stress. something happening to our schedule? stress. people talk about how often autism is recognized and diagnosed via our stress responses (like meltdowns) because it is just so common to see autistic people stressed because of lack of accommodations to how our brains work.

and this matters because stress kills. stress causes a lot of health issues, or it can trigger pre-existing ones by making certain chronic conditions flare up. i once had a psychiatrist very unhelpfully tell me i “just need to manage my stress” when the stress i was describing was things i could not avoid in neurotypical society and can’t “just get over”. i can do “self care” all i like but i cannot at the very base level change the way my brain inputs information and reacts accordingly.

roach-works

i only learned this year that loud noises aren’t physically painful for other people. i have lived 34 years in a world in which my friends and family regularly physically hurt me at random just by shouting, and i thought everyone else just thought i was kind of a wimp for not dealing with the pain as well as they did.

like. loud noises physically hurt. it’s like a static shock from my ears to my spine that doesn’t stop until the volume goes back down. i thought we all agreed that ‘that’s too loud!’ and covering our ears meant ‘ouch!’. turns out i’ve been dealing with a stressor almost no one else has, my whole life, alone.

autistic people have to keep functioning through debilitating levels of stress that no one else in their life acknowledges or helps them with. it’s no wonder that their most visible ‘tells’ are breakdowns.