This pretty much sums up everything I feel about Fred being away.Ā I've had this song on loop for the past 4 days. Thank you OOAH for this gem!Ā
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This pretty much sums up everything I feel about Fred being away.Ā I've had this song on loop for the past 4 days. Thank you OOAH for this gem!Ā
05.15.2014 || The couch currently known as Prince
Last week I finally finished my reupholstery project that I had been slaving away day and night over for two straight weeks. Three weeks if you include the time I needed to research and psych myself up to actually do the project. Ā
I'm almost embarrassed to share a "before" picture because of how disgusting our old couch looked. I didn't realize how bad it looked until I took pictures of it. We purchased the couch when we first moved in together...which was approx. 6 years ago. Fred and I had been talking for months..maybe years...about getting a new couch but couldn't find one that we loved. He wanted a couch with microfiber foam...and I wanted a purple velvet couch with waterproof foam. When we adopted Sugar, she pretty much defiled our couch numerous time which resulted in a bunch of money spent getting our couch steamed and eventually purchasing our own little steamer.Ā
I had a vision of what I wanted and couldn't find something remotely similar anywhere....so I figured my only two options were to get a custom made couch or to reupholster the current couch that we have now. I emailed numerous places with a description of what I wanted with pictures of the look I was going for along with specific details on the type and density of foam. 10+ email responses later and the conclusion was that a new couch would cost me anywhere between $1,600 - $2,000. (Majority of the cost was associated with labor.)Ā
Anyone with an animal who sometimes pees out of excitement will understand my hesitance on not wanting to drop that kind of money with the possibility of it being ruined from tinkle sprinkles. (I am happy to share though that it's been 2 months since Sugar's last accident in the apt!...FINALLY! She'd always pee at our feet whenever Fred and I came home from being somewhere)Ā
I was then inspired to research DIY upholstery on Pinterest and was wonderfully surprised by all the DIYers out there who aren't reupholster professionals who attempted and executed a reupholstery project. Thanks to (d i y d e s i g n) for the inspiration! I couldn't find any posts by Ā someone who reupholstered a sectional so thatĀ inspired me even more to try it myself!
After watching a bunch of videos on YouTube I decided that the fist thing I should do before committing to this project was toĀ examine the skeleton of my couch. This part excited me. I was so fascinated at the Ā the idea of taking it apart and putting it back together in a completely different way. It looked easy enough at the time so I decided to go for it! Ā
I asked Fred if I could borrow his toolsĀ for this project and he told me to buy my own. Oh and goggles and gloves to protect my eyes and hands, obviously.Ā Thanks to Smile Amazon Prime for getting my pliers, hammer, staple gun, staples,Ā upholstery thread,Ā heavy duty sewing machine needlesĀ andĀ zippersĀ to me so quickly!Ā
Then I researched fabric and foam outlets in downtown LA and foundĀ this place.Ā I was so excited to find purple velvet here!Ā
Next I worked on taking the couch apart piece by piece and documenting the process in case I forgot how to put things back together.
All the staples that I pulled out! I call this the "tetanus monster"
I de-threaded and saved all the pieces so I could use them as pattern references.Ā
After I completed dissecting the couch and frame pieces, I realized that the last time I used a sewing machine for any type of project was in the 7th grade. And that was a really long time ago! I started by reading the manual for the sewing machine that I received as a gift a few years ago and then IĀ practiced on the old pieces pictured above. I also googled "how to use a sewing machine for dummies" andĀ watched/ listened to sewing videos while I measured and cut out the pieces that needed to be sewn together.Ā
Butters and Sugar helped by weighing the fabric down.
It took a few days of trial and error runs but it felt gratifying when I started to make some progress.
My least favorite part was using the staple gun to secure the fabric to the bottom of the base.Ā
It took me a week and countless hours...of blood, sweat, tears accompanied by a slight fear that I gave myself arthritis because I had to sleep with my hands and arms soaked in icy hot for 2 nights to finish this portion of the project ....but I finished the base.
I spent a day watching videos on how to sew zippers and looked up tutorials on how to sew boxed cushions. I wanted the new cushions to be a little thicker than the previous and I wanted the couch cushion to be just one big cushion instead of two little ones. I also switched the side the chaise would be on.Ā
It took me 5 days to finish sewing all of the pillows and cushions covers. On the 6th day I drove back to the fabric and foam warehouse with all of my covers so that they could use them for sizing. I thought that they would stuff them for me but turns out they couldn't do that because of liability issues aka they didn't want to be responsible for broken zippers. They did help me stuff everything into my tiny car.Ā
Can you believe we fit all this foam and stuffing into the back of my mini cooper?! Thanks to my friend Jenna for helping me navigate on the freeway and for helping me carry this all up to my apartment!Ā
I was so afraid that all this work was done in vain and that once I put the covers on ....one of my dogs would throw up on it or worse...pee on it!. All I could think about was the quote Fred said to me when I was frustrated... "It's better to sweat in peace, than to bleed in war".Ā
Thinking about that encouraged me to research an alternate to Ā waterproof cushion covers. I couldn't find anything that fit the size and dimension of my cushions so I purchased a king sized waterproof mattress cover. I stuffed all cushions into the cover and then trimmed them to size.
I watched a video that showed an easy way of putting a cushion into a cover that involved a big plastic and a vacuum. Unfortunately I didn't have a bag big enough to fit even one cushion so I had no choice but to pushĀ and straddle the foam into their covers without breaking the zippers. (Thankfully the zippers were forgiving.)Ā And because I'm extra paranoid, I boughtĀ Scotchguard Fabric and Upholstery Protector.
I was so happy to see my couch come to life.Ā Up close you can see all the flaws of my couch but nothing beats the feeling of enjoying something I poured my heart and soul into and didn't have to spend $1,600 - $2,000 on.
I like to give names to things I own and I thought I wanted to give my new couch a female name but I was conflicted so I decided to go with Prince because ...
Video source: MusicPlayOn
"I never meant to cause u any sorrow... Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā I never meant to cause u any pain... Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā I only wanted one time to see u laughing... Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā I only wanted to see u laughing in the .... Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā Ā purple rain... purple rain....purple rain"
And because I'm so happy with how my new couch turned out...here's the pic of my old couch.Ā
Gross, I know.
If you have the time and patience ...I hope this inspires you to try out this or a similar project. My only suggestion is to make sure you have happy music..whatever that may be to you.... playing at all times. And if all else fails....find someone that says they'd be willing to do anything and everything for you and ask them to do it for you :)Ā
Oh and digital high five if you read this entire post.Ā
xo
04.19.2014 || Bonsai
"Everything you see has its rootsĀ in the unseen world.Ā The forms may change,Ā yet the essence remains the same.Every wondrous sight will vanish,Ā every sweet word will fade. But do not be disheartened,The Source they come from is eternalāgrowing, branching out, giving new life and new joy." -Ā Jelaluddin Rumi
Fred surprised me with this beautiful gem today. A little present for my new desk.Ā
I love that the littlest things always take up the most room in my heart.
xoĀ
04.18.2014 || Lap naps
Organizing Fred's digital life while Butters naps in my lap. Spoiled would be an understatement. Ā
04.10.2014 || Golden legs on a cheap desk
After 6+ years of having to live with piles of music gear in our living room.....Fred finally moved it all out and into his own studio work space. I was so happy to see it all go. Mainly just his desk. That thing was such a pain to move...and I've moved that thing about 3 or 4 times to new apartments. It was just an awesome feeling to see what my living room looked like without music gear piled everywhere.Ā
I was so excited to finally have all the free space to create my own work area and to have my own desk (hooray!)
I didn't want to spend a lot of money on it and I wanted something lightweight that I could easily take apart in case we moved and/or something I wouldn't feel bad about destroying ...with paint...nail polish..etc.Ā
I scouted craiglist and couldn't find anything that called out to me so I turned to Pinterest for inspiration on a cheap DIY.Ā
I wanted a white desk with gold legs and found just the post I needed to help me bring my vision to life. (Thanks to Dream Green DIY for the inspiration!)Ā It wasn't exactly what I had envisioned but the price was right! I spent about $20 on my desk..including the spray paint.Ā I also found these amazing chairs on craigslist! I couldn't buy just one. We all know that I need a desk chair...and a dog chair. :) Ā
Materials needed
Gold Spray PaintĀ via Amazon
Adils Legs (4) via Ikea (The pink legs were on sale for $1.99 each thanks to myĀ Ikea Family membership)
White Linnmon table top via Ikea
I taped around the black so the paint wouldn't get on it.Ā
I didn't have tarp or anything to lay out so I used a bunch of old mail envelopes that I had planned on tossing into our recycling bin.Ā
Needless to say...I'm pretty happy with my new desk, chairs, and my new work space. It's still a work in progress but the pups seem pretty happy with it right meow.Ā
xo
04.04.2014 || Tiny Galaxy and tiny bear
"Keep up the good work, if only for a while, if only for the twinkling of a tiny galaxy" --Ā WisÅawa Szymborska
Thanks to "Cosmos: A Space Time Odyssey" with Neil Degrasse TysonĀ for fueling my latest obsession with "galaxy" related objects. Special thanks so ButtersĀ for always being a fun distraction.Ā
xo
03.20.2014 || Maybe Memories
Watching The Used is always a nostalgic experience for me. They were one of my favorite bands in high school and to this day still one of my favorites. Seeing them play this time around was extra cool because I got to see Taking Back Sunday for the very first time! Listening to them always reminds me of Fred.Ā Last night he said this was the date he wish he took me on while we were in high school.Ā When we started dating, he'd always have "A decade under the influence" playing in his car. I remember asking him.."So....do you have a bad feeling about this?" Turned out his CD player was broken and it wouldn't eject so that CD was permanently stuck in there. (doh!)
"You are everything I want...cause you are everything I'm not"
xo
03.01.2014 || Afternoon Tea
Fred surprised me...yet again...with another sweet date. When he told me to keep my Saturday open because he had a surprise for me...my initial response was "Why...what'd you do?!" (ha!)Ā He's been on a streak lately and I'm not complaining. He missed my birthday because he was in Europe for work so this kinda makes up for it. :)Ā
I don't really care much for getting flowers..or candy...or getting expensive presents for every single occasion (I care more about the big picture...meaning...I want it fabulous...and i want it last forever...like a house...with a yard..and a pool...with a tree where we can hang a swing....and/or build a tree house)Ā so whenever he says he has a surprise for me, I never know what to expect.Ā Surprise started with a car ride through Beverly Hills. We made our way up Bel Air road and I saw those "Star Map" signs and i thought to myself..."Oh f*$&...I hope we're not going on those Star house tours....ain't no one got time for that!" Thankfully Fred knows me better than that and we ended up doing something way cooler. Afternoon Tea atĀ Hotel Bel Air! (I love tea and I love desserts!)
The tea pots reminded me of Ms. Potts from Beauty and the Beast.Ā
I missed out on taking pictures of the scones because I was busy devouring every single bite! The view from our seat was pretty spectacular. It was raining heavily that day and an impromptu waterfall formed in the booth next to us. Luckily there was no one sitting in it at the time.
Thank you Fred..for being you.Ā
xo
02.16.2014 || Weekend family road trip to Big Sur
Ā Fred and I went on a weekend family road trip up the coast to check out a potential wedding venue in Big Sur. It was a last minute trip that was decided and booked two days prior so of course every hotel was booked up. We ended up staying at this super cute dog friendly bed and breakfast in San Luis Obispo calledĀ Petit Soleil. I wish I took more photos Ā ...
02.09.2014 || Hot Air Balloon ride in San Diego
Fred surprised me with another awesome adventure. This time it was with something thatās been on my bucket list. Oh and he didn't try to blindfold or make me wear blacked out sunglasses this time because he needed me to help him navigate. I loved that he remembered that this was on my bucket list and I'm so happy I finally get to check this off.
I can't even put into words how magical this experience was. The view looked like something straight out of the movies.Ā
Happy 9 year anniversary to us! xo
01.18.2014 || Afternoon Delight
This video pretty much sums up how I've been feeling since the beginning of 2014. I feel like amazing things are about to happen soon .....and i welcome it all. <3
š¶āLove doesnāt come in a minuteā¦sometimes it doesnāt come at all. I only know that when Iām in it ā¦it isnāt sillyā¦noā¦it isnāt silly. Love isnāt silly at allā š¶
Mahal kita, Paul McCartney š
"Every passing minute....is another chance to turn it all around."
I love this movie. The beauty that is Penelope Cruz is so hypnotizing and the many quotes throughout this movie are so thought provoking..it hurts. The title of this blog of course is my ultimate fave...hence the attached video.
āMost of us live our whole livesā¦without any real adventure to call our own. What is any life without the pursuit of a dream?āĀ
When I was a little girl...I didn't fantasize about what I wanted my life to be like when I got older...or my dream job, wedding, home, husband, etc. Not so long story short...I'm pretty glad I didn't because my life now is pretty awesome..and I don't think I could have dreamed this up. It started out pretty fucked up...but I think most beautiful things start off that way. Ok maybe not fucked up...but you start somewhere...and then you learn how to work with it..cultivate it...and groom it into something beautiful in your eyes.Ā I'm in love with everything and everyone actively in my life right now and that is a dream I'm thankful to wake up to every day. (cheese!)
xo
My first yoga stand of 2013! .....and my cute dogs fighting.Ā
via Pinterest
11.17.2013 || Cooking for the fur babies
I cooked for my fur babies this weekend. For any one that knows me, and knows me wellā¦. I sincerely hope you enjoy this post and find comfort in knowingĀ that I am completely capable of operating things, other than the dishwasher, in the kitchen :)
Our journey with Sugar has been a little rough but rewarding none the less. We found out that she has skin allergies which has been somewhat of a challenge to manage. Our vet suggested we switch her to a fish based diet. We triedĀ Honest Kitchen's Zealā¦which was goodā¦but it made their breathe stink and stained their facesā¦.and she was still itching. I decided to tryĀ JFFD..and was so thankful that there was a location that opened up within walking distance to my apartment. I tried it for a month and saw major improvements with not only their skin but their fur was starting to feel exceptionally soft and fluffy. The only downside was that I was spending more money on my dogs than myself... for food. I meanā¦I love my dogsā¦and they're totally worth it but I knew there had to be a cheaper alternative.
Long story shortā¦I downloaded theirĀ recipeā¦.went to the grocery store to price out/purchase the ingredients and voila!ā¦.twice the amount of food for half the price! The store I went to was out of Cod so I purchased some Salmon. It took me 4 hours⦠(I hate cutting vegetables!). Ā I also bought these cute glass containers fromĀ AmazonĀ to portion out their servings and store in the freezer.
My pups are so happy with their new diet and I feel so accomplished! Can't wait for Fred to come home so I can start putting him to work! :)
Ā xo