Things I’d tell 18 year old me now that I’m 34.
Your natural hair is beautiful. Stop ruining it with heat and relaxers… Also- coconut oil does NOT help your hair. Once you tame and style your curls bitches will gag! Baby- you got what what bitches pay for!
You have ADHD and math dyslexia and need to get that treated asap. Thats why you failed in maths so many times.
Buckle up and fly right. Ask college advisors what courses you actually NEED instead of registering blindly. Get your Associates in one field and your Bachelors in another that go hand and hand with each other.
Stop fucking around and actually try to find a job that’s not retail. You missed your golden opportunities and now it’s only harder since your experience is limited.
You’re only as good as the people you surround yourself with. Ask me now how many friends I have and it’s not very many. But if I take the time out to talk to you then I love you very much.
That guy you swore you’d end up with does NOT exist. You will find love eventually when you least expect it. It will seem as if it was meant to happen given all the coincidences and connections.
You’re allowed to grieve and there is not time limit on mourning. People will be concerned about themselves and not realize or care enough to realize how much it hurts and affects YOU.
Your siblings will not longer matter to you but your cousin will become your sister, best friend, mentor, and mother once everyone is gone.
The more things change the more they stay the same.
Stay away from social media. Don’t even lurk and if you do, only view vids and shorts tailored to you specifically.
And I’m sure there’s more to come.
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