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2 cool 4 skool album:
werebulltproof (we are bulltproof)
noworedream (no more dream)
O!RUL8,2? album:
luvnskol (outro : luv in skool)
bngtanrises (the rise of bangtan)
skool luv affair album:
skoluvz (intro : skool luv affair)
skooulvaffair (intro : skool luv affair)
buyinlov (boy in luv)
justoweday (just one day)
tomorrzw (tomorrow)
trrptych ( bts cypher, pt. 2 : triptych)
spinebrsker (spine breaker)
dark & wild album:
whtmi2u (intro : what am i to you)
dangxer (danger)
warofhrmne (war of hormone)
hiphpluvr (hip hop lover)
lettmeknows (let me know)
blanketkcck (blanket kick)
secondqrade (2nd grade)
the most beautiful moment in life, part 1, part 2 and young forever album:
lNIEEDU (i need u)
hoIdmtght (hold me tight)
ffunboyz (fun boys)
convsrhigh (converse high)
lovsntover (outro : love is not over)
bttfIys (butterfly)
whsalien52 (whalien 52)
mactyz (ma city)
housefcrds (house of cards)
saveime (save me)
youngfrever (epilogue : young forever)
wings album:
bwymetsevil (intro :boy meets evil)
blwdsweatears (blood, sweat & tears)
winvgs (wings)
21tsgrl (21st century girls)
amiwrrng (am i wrong)
i couldn’t make any solo songs users. im so sorry ):
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crisis/urgent support lines and sites
hotlines/crisis lines for depression, domestic abuse, alcohol and drug abuse, teens, pregnancy, lgbt and more
mental support community - a forum where you can post that you are in a crisis right now and need peer support as soon as possible
imalive crisis chat - online one-on-one chat for if you’re in at risk of hurting yourself etc
self harm alternatives
si urges alternatives
relaxation/anxiety relief
do nothing for two minutes
interactive silk art
guided relaxation
watch a dream
100,000 stars
thisissand - create sandscapes on your screen with your mouse
calming gif
the quiet place project
the quiet place - find some quiet
the thoughts room - a super calm page to unburden yourself from bad thoughts
the comfort spot - a place for anonymous venting with out anybody judging you for who you are
the dawn room - my personal favourite, especially good for when you feel alone
know that it will be okay - when a moment is too hard for you - come here.
music and sounds
my anxiety relief playlist - on 8tracks
my positivity/recovery playlist - on 8tracks
‘stay strong’ playlists - on 8tracks
coffee shop sounds
rain sounds
calmsound - nature sounds
rainycafe
comfort food
one minute cookie in a mug
brownie in a mug
several cookie recipes
25 hot chocolate recipes
loads and loads of snacks - 533 quick and easy recipes for a range of snacks on studentrecipe
lots of different in-a-mug recipes
chocolate pudding in a mug - my personal fave (lil tip: add mini marshmallows for extra gooey yumminess)
advice and tips
how to be okay with yourself
25 resolutions
life hacks
more life hacks
a hella ton more life hacks - so many life hacks dude soon ur gonna never have a day-to-day stress again
school masterpost - school sucks so bad but hopefully this can help ease the stress
how to love yourself
how to bypass restricted wifi omg
alleviate menstrual cramps
boost your confidence
love yourself!
self help after anxiety
stop biting your nails
stop procrastinating
stop skipping breakfast
videos and movies
cure to sadness (video)
the movie blog - a blog dedicated to movie masterposts you will never be without a movie to watch again
cute roulette - THE BEST PLACE ON THE INTERNET ITS LITERALLY JUST A HUGE ROULETTE OF VIDEOS OF CUTE ANIMALS WHAT MORE COULD YOU WANT FROM LIFE
random acts of kindness caught on film
disney movies
movies for angsty teens
distractions etc
rice questions - answer simple questions and donate free rice to people in poverty!!
click to give - just click a button to donate (it costs nothing) food to animals shelters, people in poverty and homeless veterans; mammograms to fight breast cancer; therapy for people on the autism spectrum; alzheimer’s and diabetes research; a book to a child; protect wildlife habitat
break something - good for anger
loads of cute games
how to make a blanket nest
learn something new - a masterpost of hobbies
exercise like a superhero
nice words
things to do when your sad
slap a bald guy with an eel - this is ridiculously entertaining
watch a dog lick your screen - it loops, so you could literally watch for hours if you want
calmingmanatee
daily puppy
how to make a comfort box
download free books
extras
emergency compliment!
lots of compliments - they even include ur name aw
huge list of bloggers who have put themselves forward as willing to listen/chat without judgement
getting anon hate?
:) tag - all the posts that i’ve tagged for making me happy
7cupsoftea - free, anonymous, confidential talks with trained listeners
get a hug
Calming songs, playlists and instrumentals:
Sing Me to Sleep
The Boulevard of Broken Dreams
Boost your Mood (peppier and happy songs)
The Driving Mixtape
Study
Summer Nights
It’s Going to be Fine
Calm & Collected
Once Upon a December - Piano (song)
Clair de Lune (song)
The Moon is a Harsh Mistress (song)
Calming/distracting Websites
The Quiet Place
Rainymood.com
Calm.com
Soundrown.com - calming sounds to mix and match
A website to distract yourself
A recovery masterpost
A post of interesting things
Ungruntle yourself
Press a magic button and fix everything
Play cute games
Almost every movie your little heart desires (i suggest you use with adblocker)
How to love yourself
A website that compliments you
Crafts and activities, easy and fun DYI projects
Glitter calm jars
A list of things to do to curb anxiety
Make a blanket nest
Silky summer legs
Lots of food recipes; mostly desserts
For bad days masterpost
Make some microwave snacks
Five minute fudge
Make a phone case
A bunch of hobbies!
Self care list!
Pretty gold-dipped feathers (for decorating or anything)
What to do when:
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You want to avoid being stressed
You want to get over your ex
Meditation and breathing
Guided Meditations
Do Nothing for 2 Minutes
Calm Down
Meditation Tips
90 second relaxation exercise
Simple things
Pretty Tree
When You Feel You Have Lost Everything
See Some BLOOD
Press a Button to Make Everything OK
Calming Manatee
Calming Gif
Make Something!
Jump into a Sofa Fort!
Make a Comfort Box
Glitter Jar Or This One
Other Nice Things
A Page To Help You Recover!!!
Coping Skills & Distractions
The Quiet Place. Shhhhh
For When You’re Upset
The Nicest Place on the Internet
Player 2
10 Most Relaxing Online Games
Talk To Someone That Will Listen
Not Having a Good Day?
How-to Love Yourself
Ground Yourself X X X
Mood Chart
Do Nothing For Two Minutes
Rainymood
The Comfort Spot
Weave Silk
Seed Plant Breeder
This Is Sand
C.A.L.M
Calming/Relaxing Music:
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The Sound of Waves: x
The Sound of a Storm + Waves: x
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Endless List of OTPs ≡ Ron Weasley/Hermione Granger (harry potter)
…I heard it. A voice. Your voice, Hermione. You said my name. Just my name. Like a whisper. So I took it, clicked it and this tiny ball of light appeared. And I knew. It flew towards me, the ball of light, right through my chest and straight through me.
What she says: I’m fine.
What she means: Hyun Ryu, aka Zen, deserves so much better? A lot of people talk about how good looking he is or that he’s a narcissist, but they forget that it’s a crucial point in his route is how self conscious he really is? And don’t even get me started on how people ignore that his mother emotionally abused him during his childhood. Who the hell calls their child ugly? To protect them? Instead of just teaching them that people might take advantage of them because of how they look so they should keep their guard up? Suuure. I, for one, am proud that he still manages to be so confident after all that. And he’s still going after his dreams despite the fact that he was told he wasn’t going to make it anywhere. He joined a gang and got out of it to make his life better. And he’s doing it on his own, too, wow. People also give him crap for hating on Jumin, which is understandable, but making up with Jumin is also a crucial part of his route. He lets go of projecting his the image of his brother on Jumin and they actually become friends who just have banter? There is no reason to hate this boy? He’s such a sweetheart that gives really useful advice when it comes to handling life and tough situations. He’s very comforting and willing to go above and beyond for the people close to him. He’s willing to drop everything to run over to MC or take in Yoosung. He cares about Jaehee’s health and really just wants her to take a break? He a Mom Friend and a big brother but he’s also such a cute dork? Especially when it comes to things like technology and romantic gestures? The boy even wants to let MC meet his parents before they get married and they won’t let him in the door? And the fandom portrays him as this salty, kind of violent, self-absorbed, character? And don’t even get me started on The Beast™ because? He doesn’t even bring it up that often? And when he does bring it up, it’s after he meets MC in person and even then, it’s only briefly before he changes the subject. Cause this boy would literally wait as long as MC wants him to. I could literally go on, but the main point is that Zen deserves so much better and I will love him enough for the whole fandom if I have to.
welcome to a very potter musical, where quirrell and voldemort are dating and adopted a daughter together, dumbledore faked his death to go live on mars with a talking lion, and lily got remarried to cedric diggory in the afterlife
Mystic Messenger Translation Project
Hey there, welcome to the blog! I’m the admin from @zentherainbowunicorn, and I’ve got @mysticmessengertranslation and translation anon g with me :) This is a blog dedicated to translating the unsubtitled voice clips in Mystic Messenger for those who don’t know Korean. Mainly it includes the following:
- Emojis
- Main menu voice clips
- Ring tones, text tones, and email tones
Posts will be tagged by character and where the voice clip comes from.
This is a group effort! If you’d like to help or have a voice clip from the game you’d like translated, tag it #MM Translation Project and send us an ask. We’re also willing to add more translators to our team or people who can provide audio clips, so feel free to message us!
Reblogging this here for visibility. I’ll be putting the rest of my audio clips and translations on @mysticmessengeraudio. Check it out if you’re interested in learning what the characters say in Korean!
Also-Reblogging-For-Visibility, yeah! Let’s do our best to translate everything!
it’s concerning seeing the amount of people who fall for saeran/ray without questioning him.
don’t get me wrong, i love saeran, and i often find myself hitting the options to get his hearts, but as someone who went through a very toxic relationship, some of them hurt to click.
saeran does not love mc. he is obsessed with her. he pressures her, goes to extremes to keep mc with him, isolates her, holds her against her will…
but there is a reason why flirting with saeran and not v earns a bad ending. saeran is mentally ill, he needs help. simply complying with his desires will not help him.
i do wish dearly for a saeran route where we get a happy end with him. where he heals and learns to love with limits. but in v’s route, saeran/ray is abusive. simply put. please stop romanticising his interactions with mc. it isn’t romantic, it’s scary.
THIS!!!!!
Alright here we go.
Emotional abuse is very subject to the person supposedly being abused. Some ppl are stronger than others and don’t realize the “abuser” is even trying anything since they’re just that strong. And others, like me, understand exactly why ppl act the way they do, understand those actions to be the result of mental problems, and never even think to look at it as abuse.
Manipulation isn’t abuse. That’s something ppl do regularly, whether they realize it or not. It /can/ be abusive, but that behavior itself is not always abusive. Obsession is the same way. Just because someone is desperate to make someone stay with them doesn’t make them some abusive monster. Many mental disorders cause obsession to be shown as a form of love since ppl who haven’t had love don’t know how to correctly show it, so the “he doesn’t love MC” argument isn’t necessarily right. Playing the victim is also something every single person does regularly. And even his DID (multiple personalities) isn’t bad to ppl around him unless one or more of the personalities is abusive. Pressuring ppl is also not abusive behavior. None of that is strictly abusive behavior, unlike hitting and neglecting.
As for MC being isolated and held against their will… where? Since I haven’t seen that, I asked other ppl about it and no one has been able to show me that. I won’t make a claim either way until I can find what could be taken as Saeran isolating and keeping MC against their will.
I don’t think most of the ppl claiming his abusiveness have had one psychology class in their life… but that’s my major and the career I’m going into, so lemme clear something up: emotional abuse isn’t about being manipulated, it’s about how the abuser makes you feel. If they make you feel like a worthless pile of trash then yeah that’s abuse. It’s like how kids bully in school: teasing, name calling, body shaming, excluding from friend groups, etc. Trying to convince someone to stay with you isn’t abusive by itself. There’d have to be more factors (like that person telling you to stay with them because no one else will want you or something like that), unless you’re just that sensitive of a person… then I can only say that you should look into therapy too.
The definition of emotional abuse is: “emotional abuse is a form of abuse in which a partner uses verbal assault, fear, or humiliation to undermine the other person’s self-esteem and self-worth.” Now that that’s cleared up, I gotta ask: has Saeran verbally assaulted or undermined the MC in any way? He can’t be abusing MC any other way through the media we’re given (he can’t really touch MC, and he’s definitely not neglecting them), so if he’s not emotionally abusing MC then there’s no abuse.
Yes, Saeran isn’t healthy. Yes, he needs help. Yes, it wouldn’t be the healthiest relationship until he got he got help. But “abusive” is a reach. I’ve been in my share of abusive relationships, and not once has Saeran treated me like my abusers have. We certainly shouldn’t romanticize his issues, never never never. But calling him abusive isn’t helping him either. That’d only trigger him and make him worse since Mommy Dearest was abusive to him.
Last thing: the reason flirting with him on V’s route gets a bad ending is because it’s V’s route… it has nothing to do with his mental state. If you don’t help V then you get a bad end, that’s it.
Well it also gets you a bad ending because well… He is a friendly kidnapper and thus also an antagonist, even if he’s a victim as well.
But yeah I don’t really see how Ray is abusive just because he’s scared to be abandoned… I don’t abuse someone by being clingy.
The only abuse I see is the friendly kidnapping to which (to rays defense) MC agreed and the attempt to drug her.
Totally agrees with saeran-is-mine 😀😀
what bothered me
i’ve been wanting to talk about this for awhile, but after playing v’s route and seeing how people reacted to it, i’m honestly so upset that a lot of people fell for ray and pushed v aside. i understand why a lot of people would fall for ray- i did too, but this is v’s route and yet i see people saying that they wanted a ray route because “i liked ray so much more than v”, “v’s one was not romantic” or how “the whole time i was playing i just wanted a route for ray” instead of actually talking about the route itself or even v.
v has gone through so much and seeing the majority just dismiss him or not appreciate him was really upsetting. when i was playing his route, i could see just how much he had gone through and how much he has been suffering. i thought more people would appreciate v after his route, but all i see are people saying that they wanted a ray route, while ignoring everything that was in his route because they wanted romance and didn’t even focus on what the story was about. v is a sweetheart and i’m actually surprised a lot of people didn’t seem to really care about v in his own route.
v is broken, so of course you can’t expect him to jump right into a relationship. he needs time, and the way cheritz handled that felt realistic to me. with what he went through with rika, there’s no way he could commit into a relationship immediately. it’s upsetting that people are more concerned about the romantic aspect in v’s route and not appreciating the story.
these are just my thoughts and ofc i want a ray route too, just that i hope more people would start appreciating v and cheritz for all the work they’ve put into his route