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4TH WIN AND LAST FACILITATION !!

As our semester comes to an end, this is our last facilitation. One of the many words to describe this facilitation is beautiful. It is beautiful because it is about group influence and dynamics. It strengthens teamwork through cooperation with one another.

As I was observing the first groups doing the activity, guess what my ego said? 😝 “Kaya namo ni.” At first, I was worried since kurog kog kamot, and I didn’t want to ruin anything.

Our team decided to have a leader who would guide us to maintain organization, and it really worked. We had someone who led us successfully, and as team members, we did our best to listen and cooperate with our leader. Because of that, we achieved our goal, and it was truly fulfilling.

I felt a bit emotional EMOTIONAL? since this was our last facilitation activity. Over the past few weeks, this facilitation gave me something to look forward to every Thursday and Saturday jud. It wasn’t just because it’s important for our grades—although it is—but because I genuinely enjoyed participating. Each session allowed me to learn new things, engage in fun activities, and interact with classmates I’m not usually close with.

I’m very grateful to Miss Barbie for introducing the group facilitation, as it made Social Psychology fun to learn. I also appreciate each group’s effort in organizing the activities. Thank you everyone!🫶🏻

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MY 3RD WIN YEYY!!

Accidents are unpredictable; they can happen anytime and anywhere. They can happen to you, your friends, or your loved ones. This facilitation is very important and useful because it teaches us the basic things we must do whenever we encounter accidents—especially when paramedics haven’t arrived yet due to certain circumstances, like being stuck in traffic.

It is necessary to learn these things because, through them, we will be able to help someone in need. It could be a random stranger on the road, your friends, or even your family at home.

Actually, I had an ulcer attack during the 3rd demonstration. I wasn’t able to watch because I was stuck outside. I am very grateful to my teammate for buying my medicine. After taking it, I felt okay within 5–10 minutes.

The facilitation activity involved doing a demonstration. It was “bunot-bunot,” and I swear I’m not lucky when it comes to that. The moment I picked my paper, I knew I was cooked. I was chosen to present, and I got a bit nervous. I was a nursing student during my first year, and I really loved doing return demonstrations. However, since years had passed, I kind of doubted myself.

But I snapped back and told myself that I could do it, that it was just a demonstration. And yes, I became the explainer. I shared my knowledge with my friend, who was the demonstrator at that time. I taught her that communication with the patient is very important because patient care should always be the priority. Communicating with your patient becomes the stepping stone to understanding what they are feeling at that moment.

In conclusion, the facilitation was a meaningful and valuable experience that enhanced our knowledge and skills in handling accidents and emergency situations. It emphasized the importance of being prepared, especially in times when immediate medical help is not yet available. Through the discussions and demonstrations, we learned that even basic first aid knowledge can make a big difference in saving lives.

ps. that’s the only pics I have and I don’t have vids since most of the time naa ko ato sa gawas😭

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Another day, another facilitation.

Since I got traumatized ato last facilitation because of my wound and bruise, ana najud ko “Lord, please ayaw nako ipadagma”. Murag nadungog rajud akong plea huhu. This facilitation is not hangak but kulba for me. Since fast eyes and hands ang need for this facilitation kay it’s like a word puzzle. The letters were legit scattered. As a nearsighted girly, kulba siya oy kay what if di nako makita ang letters uban diba?😭

I got pressured kay akong kalaban dili basta2 and I don’t want to disappoint my team. To be honest, I felt this sudden surge sulod sa ako body. That’s why I was able to do it quickly and finally earned a point for my team. Happy yan siya. Anywayyy, this facilitation is lingaw and kulba at the same time pero I enjoyed this one for real.🫶🏻

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TEAM ITIM ALL THE WAY🖤🏴‍☠️

One word to describe this facilitation is “GRABE.” Grabeng pamaol, grabeng hangaka, pero grabeng lingawa. This was the most intense..INTENSE?? facilitation activity I’ve experienced so far. It challenged us not only to think and work fast, but also tested our physical stamina and creativity.

To be honest, as a masakiton girly, I actually had a slight fever after this activity. My body became sore, and there was that feeling when your body feels so heavy that it just wants to drop. Plus, nadagma jud pud ko ana, that’s why 😭. I actually find it funny because I decided to be the last runner since after doing that acrobatic position in the war scene, my legs already felt so weak. Before running, I even thought to myself, “Ayaw lang jud kadagma.” But guess what? The heavens did not favor me on that part but that’s okay.

It was all worth it. Not just because our group won, but because the experience itself was memorable. It pushed us beyond our comfort zones and made us realize how teamwork, creativity, and determination play a big role in completing such challenging activities.

Through this facilitation, we were able to see how conformity and obedience can appear in group activities like this. There were moments when we followed the instructions of the facilitators without questioning kay lage we trusted the process of the activity. At the same time, within our group, we also had to adjust our ideas and actions to match the decisions sa amo team so that we could work efficiently especially considering sa time limit. This showed how people sometimes conform to group decisions and obey authority figures in order to achieve a common goal.

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THERE ARE 2 IMPOSTORS AMONG US

Sup guys! Marcus here, I’m a newbie and I hope we all get along well.😉

As a batak “Among Us” player, I really enjoyed participating in this facilitation. Whenever I get the impostor role in Among Us, I usually get a pawn first 😈 so that I’ll have someone who thinks I’m an innocent crewmate and would clear me if someone finds me suspicious later on. Just like in Among Us, I did find my pawns 🤩. I shared my thoughts with them, and so did they.

I also interacted with my classmates like a crewmate working on tasks hehe. Sharing my theories about which participant could possibly be the killer. I acted chill and clueless whenever someone came to me and asked about my information or whether I was the killer. And it worked, I guess, since the majority vote was never for me nor my cousin Emma (the main killer) 😝.

It was fun watching them exchange accusations and all swearrr 😭. There were times when I really wanted to laugh, but I couldn’t because it would’ve been too obvious. Some participants even changed their votes because of the persuasions. Anyways, I really did enjoy it like fr fr, no cap.

Among Us and Mafia Wonwoo raised me🤓

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I am not the same person when I’m alone as when I’m in a group.

Sometimes being around others makes me better — more confident, more energized, more willing to try. Other times, it makes me quieter. I hold back opinions. I laugh at jokes I don’t fully agree with. I let stronger voices decide. Groups can bring out courage, but they can also blur responsibility. It’s easy to assume someone else will speak up. It’s easy to go along just to keep the peace. What struck me most is that influence isn’t dramatic. It’s subtle. It’s in the way conversations slowly shift our views. It’s in the comfort of belonging. So maybe the real challenge isn’t avoiding groups — it’s staying aware inside them. To participate without disappearing. To belong without losing yourself.

Because community shapes us. And we’re shaping it too.

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Most of our first judgments aren’t facts, they’re just quick guesses our brain makes.

Sometimes I assume too much. Sometimes I forget that people are dealing with things I can’t see. This lesson reminded me that behavior isn’t always personality, sometimes it’s stress, fear, pressure, or just a bad day.

Being aware of that doesn’t make me perfect. It just makes me try to be kinder before I decide who someone is.

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Premed Day was more than just booths and decorations — it was teamwork in action. From planning to setting up to running everything smoothly, we showed up for each other. It wasn’t always easy, but seeing it all come together reminded me that when everyone puts in the effort, success follows.

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No one announced it.

No one filmed it.

No one called it heroic.

But someone chose not to walk past.

And sometimes that’s how peace actually begins.

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Prejudice doesn’t always scream — sometimes it quietly isolates.

Not loud enough to protest. Just quiet enough to hurt.

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“Everyone else agreed.”

That’s the most dangerous sentence.

Not because people are evil —

but because people are social.

Conformity isn’t dramatic.

It’s laughing at a joke you didn’t like.

Staying quiet when something feels off.

Sharing a post you didn’t fully read.

Obedience isn’t always a lab coat.

Sometimes it’s a boss.

A parent.

A teacher.

A system.

We go along to belong.

We follow because it feels safer.

But here’s the truth:

It only takes one person to pause.

One voice to say, “Wait.”

The question isn’t “Would I conform?”

It’s “Will I notice when I am?”

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jeonghan: i’m not biased

social psychology: here’s the evidence

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pov: presenting our term paper

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Our group huddle earlier felt calm. My group mates shared their thoughts, even in small ways, and it made things feel clearer. There was no pressure, just genuine effort from everyone. It reminded me that working together makes the task feel lighter and more manageable.

AJU NICE!!

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system 1 is judging again…🤨

system 1 had me making instant judgments with zero evidence and full conviction. social psychology really said, “girl slow down”, and exposed me for judging people using vibes, bad sleep, and one interaction.

now I know that my intuition needs supervision, my opinions need fact-checking, and my brain loves shortcuts a little too much, trying to think slower now…for personal growth and public safety.🌱🙈

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pakikisama but make it violent🫨

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soft girl thoughts in lowercase 🌸🕯️

i’ve been thinking about how gentle growth looks when no one is watching. most days, i move through life quietly, carrying thoughts that feel too small to say out loud. i worry about how i’m seen, how i compare, and whether i’m doing enough. learning about the spotlight effect and the illusion of transparency reminded me that i’m not as observed as i imagine, and that my emotions don’t need to be obvious to be valid. everyone is busy living their own lives, just like me, and that realization feels strangely comforting.

thinking about self-concept made me reflect on the labels i’ve given myself. some feel safe, others feel limiting. i’m learning that i don’t have to stay inside the boxes i created when i was younger. these lessons reminded me to treat myself with softness instead of pressure. self-compassion feels like choosing warmth over judgment, especially when i fall short. maybe becoming isn’t loud or dramatic. maybe it’s just a girl learning to be kinder to herself, one soft thought at a time. 🎀✨🙏🏻

lovee,

xana🎀