the “bad bitch mentality” pt. 2 🌹
*stop trying to “keep” a man’s attention. if they’re too dumb to stay interested they’re a fool & not worth the time. don’t stress over a fool, you’re better than that.
*don’t be easily fazed by money, looks, or popularity. when a guy that’s attractive or otherwise “unattainable” shows interest in you, don’t be surprised or fawn over him like “oh my god i can’t believe he’s talking to me” why wouldn’t he be attracted to you? you’re a beautiful girl. don’t be so easily impressed.
*don’t wait on others to validate you. think you’re pretty, smart, amazing, etc. without anybody telling you to. give validation & assurance to yourself.
*treat others the way they treat you. if they don’t have time for you, start filling up your schedule as well. text him the way he texts you. if they treat you like shit, cut them off. don’t allow people to give you half ass effort.
*always carry yourself with grace. control your temper & your reactions. think before you act. there’s a time and place for everything. not every action requires reaction.
*don’t be thirsty, it looks bad. for example: leaving extra ass heart eyes under guys pics= tacky. be very selective with the men you flirt with. not every man is worthy of your time. don’t be desperate. attractive men come a dime a dozen.
*have a high regard for yourself. do not associate with anybody detrimental to you. you become the people you hang around most, regardless of how strong minded you are. hanging around a bad crowd can get you in trouble and gives you a bad reputation.
*keep your business private. not everybody needs to know what’s going on in your life. avoid telling your problems to people that gossip or are otherwise loud mouthed.
*be educated. go to school, read books, learn from people older & wiser than you. knowledge is power. beauty fades. knowledge doesn’t.
