here we go

[MYG'S PLAYLIST]: myg & y/n we travel when we can. most of the time we're just lazing on the couch. GPS if you've got anything to ask, shoot away. (dw, grumps doesn't bite -y/n) est. 05.17.17

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Bothers me to update my dp, drags me out to shoot pics, insists on editing them herself, only to do this. -myg

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Y/N: I'm going to clean up my diet.

Also Y/N: If you never stop eating, you only have one meal a day. #lifehack

-myg

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I LIKE LOVE YOU SM MARRY YOONGI PLZ

he's too busy loving the pupper :( -y/n

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who's been following the Olympics?? 🙋🙋🙋

can anyone guess grumps' favorite event?

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we bought one of these inflatable bed things and he brought it to the kitchen...

-y/n

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To the one who sent in a message about your best friend: We’re glad it worked out. -myg 

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Yoongs: Getting Peanut was a stupid idea.

also yoongs: I ordered a bigger fish bowl for Peanut!

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in case you're wondering, yoongs didn't lose a bet or anything... he, on his own will, got up to take that selfie. i know, I can't believe it either. -y/n

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Thanks for your recommendations. It means a lot to me, It feels like I have a friend out there who shares the same experience like me. I guess seeing your songs also kind of motivates me that things will get better; somehow, someday. Because feelings like this are tiring af, tbh....

No problem, message us anytime. And you’re right, it’ll get better. -myg

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How to get over depression? Tough topic, I know. But I've been feeling sad perpetually, some days it got worse and some days it got better... I guess it feels like I'm drowning as days gone by. Yoongi's "The Last" actually hits home for me, I guess I want to know what do you guys think about getting over depression.

Hey, so you know, I’m glad you’re reaching out. It’s not easy, I get it.

This will be below the cut for those who don’t want to read.

From my experience, people learn to deal with depression in different ways. If you can, get professional help. Having a therapist, counselor, whoever it is, someone who really understands what’s going on will help. If you think you can’t afford a therapist, look for free counselling or try calling helplines, who can also direct you to resources available to you. Other than that, I’m not sure what you’ve tried, but here’s a few things that I know helped me and others I know.

Get out of bed and do something, big or small. On some days, it’ll be tough just to get up and take a shower, but trust me when I say that you’ve got to try. Do those mundane things, eat breakfast, lunch, dinner, whatever you want. And then go from there. If your friends or family are inviting you out, go along. That was one of the hardest things I had to learn to do, because for longest time I only wanted to lay in bed all day. Don’t get me wrong, I didn’t wake up one day and decide that I felt like going out. It was always hard, but knowing that I was putting myself in situations where I could be happy, even for a little while, got me to go through. 

Try exercise. A lot of people recommend this, and you don’t have to do anything too intense, either. Even a quick walk around the neighbourhood could help. (Funny story: when I met Y/N, I was still struggling to deal with my depression, and at the time, she on the basketball team at our school because her friends roped her into it. I love Y/N, I really do, but she’s awful at ball. So she came and asked me to help her out. It was useless (our team lost almost every game), but it got me to move a little bit, which really helped).

Meditation works for some people. I couldn’t get myself to do it, but it worked with one of my closest friends.

Talk to your friends, your family, coworkers, whoever you’re comfortable with. Even if you know they don’t understand what you’re going through, getting a thoughtful text out of nowhere can do a lot on a bad day. 

I truly wish the best for you. You’ve got the strength in you to get through this, believe it. -myg

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Where do you guys see yourselves in 10 years?

This is something that we talk about a lot, actually. In 10 years we’ll be, what, in our thirties? My dream has always been to make music, and whether it be 10, 20, or 30 years down the road, that’s what I’ll be doing. Y/N, for those who don’t know, wants to go into marketing, and I’m confident that she’ll be working in a great company by then. We’ll probably be married, and maybe already have kids. Weekends will be the best, with all of us together, but the kids will probably run around and break something. Even so, there’s nothing else that’ll make us happier. The kids, like me, will have to put up with Y/N singing in the shower every night. -myg

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If the world were to end tomorrow, what will you do today?

I’d spend it with Y/N. Hopefully, we can see friends and family as well but at the end of the day, just the two of us together would be good. As for what we’d do, it’ll be something outdoors (for Y/N) for the day, and we’d be home watching movies at night. -myg

(on top of that, i’ll upload all the embarrassing videos of him onto this blog hehe -y/n)

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If I made you worry with the 3AM post, please know that I’m fine :) 

Y/N, on the other hand, certainly can explain why she still has that photo... -myg

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3:25 AM

At this time of night, when the rest of the world is asleep, some people lie awake with thoughts that are anything but quiet. 

Being single shouldn’t be as scary as we make it out to be. We enter this world as individuals, and we’ll probably leave that way as well.

There’s a lot of things you lose when you grow up. Don’t let yourself be one of them. -myg

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hiii happy new year hope u have a great year!!! <33 so did what did u guys end up doing this new year ? did you guys end up skiing after all ?

hiiiiii love <3

skiing we went, and grumpy was yoongs.

here’s a photo i managed to sneak in. 

i don’t even know where he is in that photo, but here’s a slightly better one…

it’s not very clear, i know i know. trust me when i say he was super camera shy.

maybe it had something to do with the fact that he fell on his butt too many times to count hehe.

anyways, thanks for dropping by and asking about us! i hope you had a wonderfullllll new year :D we’d love to hear what you did as well <3 

-y/n

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HAPPY NEW YEAR!

-y/n & myg

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do u guys ever play video games? if so who’s more competitive and who usually wins ? <33

video games aren’t our thing, but usually if i get a game on my phone, yoongs always tries to beat my high scores, so i guess he’s more competitive. unfortunately for him, he’s not that good at them so it takes him superrrr long to beat my scores. during those weeks, it’s easier for me to just use his phone because he’s always hogging mine. -y/n

((he basically stole my phone for an entire month when i got candy crush))