You Mean Everything to Me

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[tallahasseemp3]

if i was jake gyllenhaal i’d post a selfie wearing that scarf and turn off my phone

[shedidntevenswear]

The Revenge Dress (Taylor’s Version)

[staybeautiful]

I’m wonderstruck, blushing all the way home

[aunnokokyuu]

this whole taylor swift joe jonas sophie turner thing is just. so funny to me. like imagine you’re taylor swift and you’ve just released a song from eleven years ago that publicly calls your ex boyfriend at the time a cheater and drags his name through the mud for picking up other girls the moment after he dumped you in a 25 second phone call, and HIS WIFE who is YOUR FRIEND loves the song enough that she shares it on her instagram story with the caption ‘it’s not NOT a bop’. can u imagine being joe jonas having to listen to your wife play your ex girlfriend’s song abt how you were a piece of shit boyfriend in your own house eleven years later. i would cry

[ohh-goddamn]

You guys know evermore is a masterpiece right??? We have ivy!!! gold rush!!! champagne problems!!! ivy!!! cowboy like me!!! little evermore!!! ivy!!! right where you left me!!! tolerate it!!! ivy!!! willow!!! dorothea!!! ivy!!! it's time to go!!! closure!!! ivy!!! 'tis the damn season!!! happiness!!! ivy!!! coney island!!! marjorie!!! ivy!!! long story short!!! no body no crime!!! And pls let's not forget about ivy!!!

[hauntedreputation]

[heavensghost]

[marril96]

[unlimitedhearts]

Can I say it's fucking disgusting that people are making "Disney canning Lokius as soon as Pride Month is over" posts? LAST EPISODE HE LITERALLY CAME OUT AS BI. CANONICALLY HES GENDERFLUID, IT SAYS IT ON HIS PAPERS.

WHEN A BI MAN HAS FEELINGS FOR A WOMAN (who, by the way, Loki implied to be bi as well and she did not protest) THAT DOES NOT MAKE HIM MAGICALLY STRAIGHT. IT DOESN'T MEAN HE IS NO LONGER BI.

LOKI IS BI WHETHER HE'S IN A HET-PASSING RELATIONSHIP OR NOT OR HAS FEELINGS FOR A MAN, WOMAN, OR ANYONE ELSE. CLAIMING OTHERWISE IS JUST STRAIGHT UP BIPHOBIA.

Also, y'all STRAIGHT UP on some dumb shit bc Loki would absolutely fall in love with himself. I know y'all didn't forget about 2012-present day Loki RP and Loki Fandom, we've been shipping him with himself since before we had a canon way to do it.

In short, Loki is still Bi. It's Bi Erasure and BIPHOBIA to say he's straight all of a sudden bc he has feelings for a femme passing person who - in all likelihood - is as bi and fluid as he is. It's not magically heterosexual. Die mad.

[lokiron89]

Loki to Mobius: ‘You had a life, maybe a family!’

Mobius:

[godofstory]

if that's not how the next episode starts, then I don't want it

[sakura-haruka]

#I’m crying

[screamingiminlovewithyou]

It’s nice to have a friend.

[dollsome-does-tumblr]

i just read a washington post article on romcoms aging poorly due to the pushiness (and oft-stalkery conduct) of the male characters therein, and it got me thinking about pride and prejudice, and specifically darcy saying, “one word from you will silence me on this subject forever.”

because, like, that’s the seldom-portrayed romantic dream in the patriarchal hellscape that is our world, isn’t it?

a dude being willing to say, “i understand if you don’t feel the same way about me, and i’ll leave you alone forever about this if my attention is unwanted.”

so simple, yet so wonderful in its basic human decency

[adulthoodisokay]

and dudes to this day wonder why women still swoon over darcy

[thathealeygirl]

Note also: Elizabeth turns down Darcy’s first proposal, and in the process, accuses him of doing some stuff he did not do (and also some stuff he totally did).

The next day, he surprises her on her walk. He hands her a letter, asks that she read it, and then takes off.

When this happened to me after I had turned someone down IN REAL LIFE, the letter contained a passionate argument to the tune of “actually you’re wrong and you do like me and you should go out with me” and it was creepy af.

Darcy’s letter to Elizabeth starts with: “Be not alarmed, Madam, on receiving this letter, by the apprehension of its containing any repetition of those sentiments, or renewal of those offers, which were last night so disgusting to you”. He goes on to set the record straight about the stuff he didn’t do (as well as the stuff he did) which is *actually relevant* to Elizabeth. And he, as promised, doesn’t romance her further.

It’s totally bizarre that even now, this can be considered unusually great dude behaviour.

[pluckyredhead]

Darcy’s first proposal: “You must allow me to tell you how ardently I admire and love you.”

Darcy’s second proposal: “One word from you will silence me on this subject forever.”

His whole arc in the book is about learning to consider other people’s feelings and not just his own, but the fact that it’s expressed via who gets to talk and who is told to shut up is so, so telling. The first time around, he imposes his voice on her whether she wants it or not. The second time, he asks how she feels, and in exchange, offers her the gift of his silence.

And yeah, the fact that dudes still! have! not! learned! this! lesson! is exhausting.

[ghost-of-bambi]

How surprising is it that Pride and Prejudice was written by a woman, when many romantic comedies are produced and directed by men?

Answer: not at all

[drsarcasticraspberry]

200 years later and the world is still full of guys who think they’re a Mr Darcy when they’re actually a Mr Collins.

[tzikeh]

200 years later and the world is still full of guys who think they’re a Mr Darcy when they’re actually a Ross Geller.

[dduane]

All of this.

[iverna]

All of this, but also, the world still has plenty of women who don’t understand this, and will romanticise problematic behaviour (often while bemoaning the lack of Mr Darcys out there). The whole “guy just wants girl SO much that he can’t give up and is determined to make her HIS” is still fairly common in romance, because it appeals to women. Only in fiction, usually, because when it happens in reality it’s usually unpleasant, but that’s where you get a conflict between the ideal you want, and how it plays out in reality.

Darcy’s behaviour is appealing both in fiction and in reality. His appeal isn’t that he just wants Lizzie so badly he can’t help himself; the appeal is that he’s respectful, to the point of being 100% willing to back off if that’s what she wants. But there are plenty of women who don’t understand that what they really want is the latter, and yet keep looking to the former as an ideal.

[fluentinswiftsongs]

Forget hot girl summer I’m counting down the days to sad girl fall

[princeoberyn]

jake gyllenhaal has five months to find and return that scarf or else

[mindllessdreaming]

THE TEN MINUTE VERSION OF ALL TOO WELL HOLY SHIT WE WON??????