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hello, i'm emme ★ (she/her)

i'm really not sure where i'm going with this blog, but follow to embark with me into the unknown :)

i'm into

books

crochet

writing

language learning (korean, japanese and french)

productivity

blog about witchcraft: @witchinthemaking

i like

both coffee and tea ☕

dark and light academia aesthetic

fantasy books

CATS

no seriously i love cats 🐾

kpop (stray kids and dreamcatcher mostly)

tv series, c/k-dramas

#aesthetic #moodboard #booknerd #dark academia #light academia #light academic aesthetic #studyblr #studyspo #readingblr #language learning #productivity #writeblr #book aesthetic #new on tumblr #idk what this post is #sorry lol

totally unexpected but I'm starting uni? It was almost an impulsive choice but I think it's a good one.

that's to say I'm back into studying and studyblr 🤗

#study motivation #studyblr #studyspo #student #productivity

this week i started to learn korean again! i've revised what i already did and started a new chapter in my textbook. so happy to be back 🫶🏻 화이팅!

#korean language #korean #korean langblr #langblr #language learning #self study #studyblr #study motivation

malusokay

Little things to look forward to this Autumn

Reading while cuddled up in soft blankets

Becoming addicted to tea again (I know I'm not the only one…)

Cute layered outfits with cosy knit sweaters and big scarfs

Foggy and gloomy mornings <3

Studying while listening to classical music

Switching from yoghurt bowl to oatmeal for breakfast

Collecting pretty dead leaves and putting them in your diary as a little memory

Adding cinnamon to your coffee again and making hot chocolate

Baking cinnamon rolls with friends (or at least trying to...lol)

Seeing the first leaves change colour

Buying cute stationery for the new semester

Maroon nails and lips (the girls that get it, get it.)

Reading at night, all cuddled up while it's raining outside

Cinnamon or vanilla-scented candles

Spending hours at cosy bookstores and reading poetry

Soup season. SOUP SEASON.

opening the windows in the morning and letting the cool autumn air inside

Rewatching Gilmore Girls and dressing like Rory (same thing every year, let's be real here…)

Being a cosy girl doing cosy things <3

Let me know what you're looking forward to the most; autumn is such a beautiful season... lots of cosy content planned!! ;)

✩‧₊*:・love ya ･:*₊‧✩

it's monday, it's a new month, it's time for

🍂 september goals 🍂

physical health

yoga / stretching everyday

full workout (at least 20 min) twice a week

skincare everyday

productivity

do something productive everyday (ex. language learning, writing...)

deep clean the house (at least 30 min everyday)

hobbies

read 3 books (probably babel, rr eragon and something else)

finish at least one crochet project (cardigan)

other

meditation (10-20 min everyday)

🍄 monthly to do 🍄

enroll (is that the word?) to driving school

buy new skincare products

buy a dishwasher (hopefully)

☕ moodboard ☕

aaaand that's all i think(?), i hope september will be a nice month bc i really need it :) and i can't wait for autumn to be here 🍂🍁🌰🍄☕🍵👢🧣

#monthly goals #september #september goals #productivity #self discipline #self improvement #self development #consistency #glow up

entering in my clear skin era, for real this time!!

#glow up #skincare #clear skin

how have you realized you're aromantic?

#aromantic #aroace #I don't know if I'm aromantic or just have committment issues #pls send help #aro

remanence-of-love

selfhealingmoments

femmefatalevibe

Femme Fatale Guide: How To Cultivate Self-Discipline

Know Your Why: Always Keep The End In Mind

Keep Small Promises To Yourself. Make Them Non-Negotiable.

Create And Consistently Log Your Progress

Take Temptations Out Of Sight

Find Indulgences To Help You Focus On Your Goals

Know Your Why: Always Keep The End In Mind

Decisiveness drives discipline. You need to clarify and define your goals. State them clearly with their authentic purpose in mind. If you seduce this end goal into your life, what desire are you truly fulfilling? Ex. If you want to lose 10 pounds: Is it to feel healthier? Look better in a bikini? Fit into a certain pair of jeans? No matter how superficial, identify the genuine reason why you want to achieve a certain goal. Whatever reason elicits a visceral and emotional reaction. Sometimes, especially during a busy work day, your reason could be as simple as wanting to lessen your anxiety and ease into a more relaxed state. Any purpose that resonates. Once you have an emotional response tied to a goal, it becomes infinitely easier to motivate yourself to take small steps towards achieving it. Where energy goes, energy flow. Simon Sinek goes more in-depth with this concept in Start With Why.

Keep Small Promises To Yourself. Make Them Non-Negotiable.

Think of performing self-discipline rituals as confidence-building exercises. This action helps you trust yourself, establishes a sense of integrity, and builds self-confidence. For example, if you stick to your meal and workout plan for 5 days a week, you build trust in knowing you're more powerful than your cravings and are capable of taking good care of your body. If you complete a project on schedule (personal or professional), you prove to yourself that you’re efficient, build confidence in your ability to finish tasks you start, and self-affirm that you follow through on your ideas. Finishing that book this month reflects confirms that you value yourself enough to expand your mind, learn, and expand your knowledge base. Eventually, through enough consistent repetition, these rituals into unconscious habits that you do effortlessly in daily life.

Create And Consistently Log Your Progress

You can’t manage what you don’t measure – your finances, calorie and step counts, workouts, productivity, etc. Tracking data related to your habits – such as your spending habits, eating or workout patterns, writing word count, and task completion – on a given day or week – allows you to understand and analyze your current behavior. What habit cues, environmental or other situational factors are keeping you from sticking to the current task at hand? Do you leave your running shoes stuffed in the back of the closet? Junk food in the house? Work from bed or with your phone by your side? Are you avoiding certain emotions? Does this data change when you’re stressed or tired?

Awareness is the first step towards redirected action. Analyze these data points to see your pitfalls and strategize how to help yourself.

Take Temptations Out Of Sight

Set yourself up to win. Get the phone away from your workspace, remove any junk food or soda from the house, delete apps, or silence notifications from people who distract you from your goals. Self-discipline becomes significantly easier when you have to take additional steps to indulge in your vices. Replace these temptations with helpful cues to help you build healthier habits that lead to self-discipline. Give yourself visual cues to move you toward your goals. Keep a journal with a pen next to your bed. Leave your workout clothes and shoes out near your bed. Write a quick to-do list right before finishing work for the following day, so it’s easier to jump into the first task right away the next morning. Cut up some produce or do a 30-60 minute meal prep once a week to eat more healthful meals. Find ways to make it easier to stay on track than give in to temptation.

Find Indulgences To Help You Focus On Your Goals

Self-discipline shouldn’t feel like deprivation – of certain foods, pastimes, or activities you enjoy. Buy cute workout clothes you feel confident in. Create the most dance-worthy playlist. Make it a priority to buy your favorite fruits and vegetables every week. Rotate a selection of your favorite healthy meals. Leave your sunscreen out – front and center – on your bathroom counter. Find a big, beautiful water bottle to keep on your desk. Purchase aesthetic notebooks, pens, planners, journals, and other office organization items. To make self-discipline feel like second nature, you need to marry indulgences and your desire to meet your goals. Discover the habits that work for you and find small ways to make these tasks more enjoyable.

Go easy on yourself. Build one habit at a time. Self-discipline is like a muscle. It requires time to build and grows in increments. Try to stay on track and more focused than yesterday. Your only competition is your former self. Find pleasure in the process. Focus on the immediate task in front of you while also keeping your future self in mind.

#glow up #self discipline #consistency #consistent

x3nshit

one thing i need to start living by is “become the thing that you want” if i want friends who throw themed parties maybe i should start throwing those parties. if i want someone who writes me love letters maybe i should start writing letters for the people i love. if i want to hang out at museums and pretty cafes maybe i should invite my friends to these places. and maybe even then i won’t find the kind of people i want to be around. but then i would have become the exact person i want to be around. and maybe that’s good enough.

younglibrariansworld

Okay I'll start doing this bc yeah this is actually a good advice

#be the friend you'd like to have #and then you'll become THE friend #romanticize #romanticise your life

Happy pride month everyone <3

#pride month

softdaisie

i think society’s obsession with productivity will be our downfall, it’s unrealistic. you don’t need to be productive every minute of the day. your body needs rest. it’s not natural to stay “grinding” or “hustling”. please don’t feel guilty about taking care of your body and taking a break when you need one.