greedy f/o hoarder

if you don't know me, and i don't know you...

[yumesnail]

then this might be something we should do! ♪ yume sideblog for @/duplitism⠀♡⠀ints from @/dreamygirli F/O list⠀♡⠀boundaries⠀♡⠀psd creds

call me solar, egg, or ten(na) (+)! any pronouns or terms OK, no pref. minor, but i'm fine with adults interacting (just be normal & if you're a mdni blog follow your own rules please). familial yume of 30+, platonic yume of plenty more! i do not have romantic f/os, though i'm very open to interacting with people who do! i switch focus between all of them very quickly, so don't expect me to post consistently about any of them. you can find who i'm currently fixated on here (updated semi-frequently)! i'm not the most active on here, but like showing up once in a while to reblog things or ramble to the void. i'm more active on dreamygirli and valenmotel if you'd like to see more yume-related content. DNI: pro/dark/neuship, (pro) endo systems, radqueer, rpf "yume"/apart of the nf/o community, against nonsharers, riakos, or soulbonders, against fictionkins (i am one), romantic/qp doubles of him (if you double another f/o, please ask before following!)

[yumesnail]

looking through the yumeship tag be like God i fucking hate yumeshippers. Nonsharers are awful and delusional don't ask me my real opinions about mentally ill people. Fucking despise the term yumeship. Did you know i DON'T do that stuff? It's for nerds. Of course i don't. I'm gonna go maintag every single rant post i make about this topic because it needs to be heard by Fucking Everyone.

[thegeekadam]

have as many F/Os as you want!! nobody's stopping you from having 100000000 partners!!!!

[dustins-moss-collection]

Question for other trans selfshippers !!

as i trans man, i personally have my s/i be a cis man. but thats got me curious as to what the other trans people in this community do with their s/i's, so i'm making this poll!!

answer this about your s/i('s)

my s/i's are cis (identity as the gender i am transitioning to)

my s/i's are cis (identify as the sex i was assigned at birth)

my s/i's are trans (identity as the gender i am transitioning to)

my s/i's are trans (identify as the sex i was assigned at birth)

some of my s/i's are cis, some are trans

other/want to see results

Voting ended onMar 22

[what-the-cap-dude]

Familial self ship community, this one is for you!!

I know it can feel disheartening when people automatically assume you view a character romantically because you like them a lot.

I know it's upsetting that scenarios, templates, imagines, and talks surrounding familial self shipping isn't as prominent.

But HEY your FAMILY MEMBER(S) LOVE YOU SO MUCH!!!

You are valid in your familial feelings for them!! You do not have to change how you feel to fit in with the majority!!

You do not need more romantic f/o's, nor do you need less. You are fine where you are. And once again, your f/o loves you forever.

That is all 🙂‍↕️

Proship, neutrals, and variants please dni!!

[jpeg-indulgence]

Also I'm so sorry to all nonsharing selfshippers who have a f/o in the ship week stuff remember that it is FAKE NEWS and that YOU are the only one they love they look at their ships and roll their eyes like bro HOW could anyone think they love anybody but you smh

[yumesnail]

need to join more yume discord servers but also they terrify me. it's not even the social interaction part i think i'd be okay at that but Ohhh god the threat of doubles. they're EVERYWHERE. i think i've blocked like 30 across twitter and tumblr at this point and i may or may not be under the real amount. i'll gladly block anyone i need to but Gahhh i just don't like encountering them at all

[yumesnail]

non-sharer hate so annoying i'm lowkeniunely about to become the exact stereotype they paint out of spite

[mariakisser]

you know you’re in deep when you catch yourself acting like your f/o…

[yumesnail]

being heavily selective slash nonsharing for your familial f/os is unfortunately humiliating. perfectly normal thing to do but i always feel so overprotective. Get away from my brother!! you can join the family but god forbid you kiss him!!

[yumesnail]

continuing on the familial yume thing from prev this is so greedy but i have to admit my feelings. like 80% of the prompts under familial yume tags are Mostly intended for romantic yumes but juust vague enough to where you can get away with tagging them with familial and platonic yume/f/o as well and it kind of sucks. i'm very open to prompts imagines whatever open to all groups but if romantic yumes get a lot of exclusive stuff for themselves i feel like it's not too out of line to say that i want more familial/platonic exclusive ones too! a lot of them are intended to be appropriate for all relationship types but others feel like they definitely imply romance but changed the wording so you could Technically say it could be in a familial context. i wanna be part of a vip club sometimes too not just an afterthought

[shrimpigman]

looking at selfship imagines as someone on the aroace spectrum is weird cause all of those are like “oooooh they wanna KISS you and SLEEP WITH YOU and they think you’re HOT” and while I’m glad that those are helpful to some people… what if our favorite guy isn’t our boyfriend. What if our favorite guy feels like a brother. Like people will tag “familial f/o imagines” but then put stuff like “they kiss your neck” and it’s like. What. No. My brother would not do that. Why would you tag that as familial. You silly goobers. I love the selfship community, y’all are adorable, it’s just kinda hard for some of us to classify ourselves as part of it when so many of the generalizations and content are just… not us.

[yumesnail]

imagine your f/o. you're doing that? ok great! now imagine them exploding into confetti

[yumesnail]

how do i talk about my f/os and yumeships like a Normal Person that makes Content and Kisses People and that isn't Thatt different from everyone else <- thought that all sane and not anxious people have

[yumesnail]

retheme done!! i miss my children sigh

[strawhatwife]

writing f/o gushes is so hard for me bc its Always just this

[boydyke-rat]

also in addition to the last thing I said shout out to everyone w/ a familial f/o. Like what if that guy was actually my dad