Contains graphic details of sex so read at your own risk
I can't imagine being with someone who can't make me orgasm during s4x while he's orgasming and feeling pleasured , like am I a fuck doll to you ? Make me orgasm too you good for nothing !!!
I hear my friends tell me that their bfs / husbands haven't made them orgasm ever and I am like why don't you ever tell them to make you orgasm. and they tell me that they're afraid to come off as ' horny ' or as ' someone who likes having sex' in front of their man.
Yesterday a friend of mine , who got married recently told me how sex hurts her and I asked her if her vagina remains tight or is relaxed and very wet when her husband puts it in. Her response was ' isn't it supposed to be tight ?' . What !!!!! If your vagina is not relaxed and wet ofc it would hurt. when I told her that your vagina is supposed to be relaxed while doing it , she said that her husband likes her to be tight . I am sorry what ? What the hell is wrong with him ? Your discomfort turns him on and you think it's okay ? And then I got to know that her husband hasn't ever given her cunnilingus but she has given him blowjobs multiple times.
His definition of foreplay is just fingering her once or twice and then putting his penis in. He doesn't even stimulate her clit. He doesn't do proper foreplay with her. And you know what the worst thing was ? She said that she doesn't have much knowledge about sex bcz unlike me she and her husband were virgins till marriage and they are 'sanskari' so they don't know much about sex
I swear women like her are hopeless. They want to be a ' sanskari sushil ladki' and they worship their man. She was defending her husband who uses her like some sex doll by saying that at least he doesn't cheat on me or watches porn. So I asked her that just bcz he is loyal to you which is bare minimum you'll tolerate being unsatisfied in bed ? And she responded that she isn't fond of having sex and her being pleasured by her partner is not something important to her. She just wants her partner to be loyal to her and provide for her. And she was indirectly implying that it's immoral of me to have a libido and wanting my partner to make me orgasm in bed. She said that it's in men's biology to want and need sex , but women don't need sex and if her husband didn't ask her to have sex she wouldn't have had sex until she wanted a baby.
And when I told her that my fiance makes sure I am also pleasured she said that my fiance must have had s4x with some oher girl before me bcz men need to have a body count to make you feel pleasured. No girl , he learned how to make his fiance feel good unlike your man who doesn't give a fuck about your pleasure. And you're here defending him