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The Ultimate YANDERE TYPES List | Extensive Graph and List
So I was doing research for my writing and I found a really good Yandere Types chart!
Full sources and links to further reading will be below in the notes!
And before getting into it, remember to read the trigger warnings and content warnings. This is Yandere fiction weâre talking about, so itâs going to get messed up.
Themes + Trigger Warnings + Content Warnings:
Possessiveness, Obsessiveness, Unhealthy relationships, Religious themes, themes of sociopathy, themes of mental illness, hallucinations, delusions, hallucinations and delusions due to drugs, mentions of: physical abuse, sexual abuse, brainwashing, murder, suicide, murder-suicide, self-harm, stalking, panic attacks, cannibalism, necrophilia. Â Â
{click to open and zoom in to see the details! I'm so sorry, mobile app users :(}
Broad types. Click them to see more information!
Possessive Type
Shackling Type
"Denpa" Delusional Type
Love and Hate Type
Intoxicated Type
Stalker Type
Sources:
This does not belong to me. I only gave a summary of what I read. ORIGINAL SOURCE LINKED HERE.
It's an English translation of material from an upcoming game called Yandere Town. UNTRANSLATED, ORIGINAL JAPANESE SOURCE LINKED HERE. I do not know when this game is coming out, but darn the details that went into this is crazy! It might help you out if you're writing anything yandere!
(Original translators, I have no problem with taking this down if you don't want me reposting your translation to my blog! ^_^)
âĄIf you want to see more content like this check out the Writing and Yandere Masterlist and if you want to learn about this blog check out all things sketchprincess02!âĄ
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People have really forgotten that yandere is literally a horror trope. No I don't want a "green flag yandere" I want an endless pit of dread in my stomach and also a sense of arousal that shouldn't be there
alright, i'll be the one to say it. ao3 and tumblr becoming "mainstream" did so much damage to the community and the writers. i have seen loads of videos and posts about:
1. people hating on writers and fics. writing is something we do for free and for fun. if you stumble upon a fanfic that isn't necessarily your cup of tea or you just don't like, scroll. dont read it. literally leave their page. you don't know if this could be the author's first work that they're so excited about, you dont know if the language they're writing in isn't their first language, you dont know that the writer could be a literal teen and loads of other reasons. fanfictions don't HAVE to be perfect. you write what you want to write because we do it for fun and enjoyment and we want to share that to the world. seriously, what is the wrong with that?..
2. x reader consumers getting WAY too entitled. the number of tiktoks i've seen that say "i run a strict program when it comes to reading fanfics." girl you aint running shit. this is FAN FICTION you're reading. F A N F I C T I O N. there is no denying that most fanfiction writes are beyond talented but just because you read one fanfic that exceeds your expectations doesn't give you the right to talk down on others that don't. people have their own personal writing style, their way of doing things and you talking shit on that isn't right.
at the end of the day, we are all humans, reading and writing is what we do and what we're meant to do. and for you to talk shit about a person WRITING is so insane. we are humans. not some robots that you can tell what to do so you can consume it.
i've seen so so many authors take down their fanfics and losing all motivation to write because of a hate comment. DONT LIKE DONT READâŒïž
and to every author reading this, this community values your work and your contribution. we love u and, please, never let anyone's negative words have an effect on you.
hate how the internet turned EVERYTHING into a competition. your room doesn't have to be prettier. your art doesn't have to get more likes. your interests don't have to be more obscure. you don't need more followers...
Things to bring back from your childhood for a happier adult life!! đđ·
âą Morning cartoon time - Before you even touch your phone, watch an episode of a comforting show (can multitask, ofc, just not on your phone)
âą Colouring & puzzle books
âą Carry all the random things your mom used to have in her purse for you in your bag - Candy/snacks, crayons, wet wipes, etc
âą Sunday night baths - Set aside one special night a week where instead of just taking a shower, you set up a nice relaxing bath (maybe even get some bath duckies!!)
âą Listen to obnoxiously happy music - Sad music IS making you more sad, make a playlist of songs that make you smile
âą Draw without needing to be perfect
âą Play your childhood video games
âą BUY A DVD PLAYER!!!!! - I cannot possibly stress this one enough
âą Do jigsaw puzzles & play board games
âą Read for fun - You donât always have to be learning something, just enjoy it
CW: Dehumanising, god complex, power imbalance, nsfwhump (under cut)
"You can't do this!" "Oh, I think you'll find I can"
"Give up." "Never." *Grabs chin* "Get it through your head. I own you. So fucking obey like the dog you are."
"You're not here to ask questions, you're here to satisfy me"
"You have no power over me." "Yet you're still here. Yeah, keep telling yourself that.
"You expect me to... to..." "I don't expect you to stutter about it. Hurry up."
âYou should be grateful I allow you to serve me.â
âYou think you deserve to walk on my floor? Get on your knees and crawl, mutt.â
â Itâs funny you think you made that escape plan all on your own. Iâm in your head, Whumpee. I see everything. Now give. me. your. hand. Weâll see how well you fare without fingers.â
NSFW prompts under the cut
Licking Whumpee's face just to see how they won't pull away
"Oh no, Whumpee, I haven't finished yet."
"Get on your knees." "What?" "My god, I have to do everything myself." *pins Whumpee to the bed/desk/floor*
An It-Girl doesnât waste time overthinking, gossiping, or stressing about other people's actions or behaviour. She doesnât entertain unnecessary thoughts or internal conflicts. An it-girl doesn't dwell on things that drain her. Instead, she detaches, refocuses, and puts all that energy into herselfâher growth, her glow, her dream life.
Learning a new language
Crocheting
Reading (books, articles, etc.)
Learning sign language
Practicing Pilates, Yin Yoga, and workout
Writing a novel
Writing comics or short stories
DIY projects (decor, stationery, etc.)
Dancing or learning new choreography
Listening to pep talks and podcasts
Doing facial massages
Weekly exfoliation & masks
Staying hydrated
At-home spa days
Hair care routine
Nail care routine
Skin care routine
Tracking skincare progress
Start a blog and share your journey
Learning digital art and design
Drinking lemon water for skin clarity
Cleaning makeup brushes regularly
Applying SPF daily
Cleansing your skin twice a day
Learning video editing skills
Learning effective communication skills
Painting & sketching
Practicing meditation, mindfulness, and self-awareness
Making your favorite food and experimenting with new recipes
Learning attractive body language and self-presentation
Learning about fashion & finding your style
Diy candles
Planning ahead for studies and personal goals
Planning and preparing for exams in advance
Creating a schedule for consistent progress
Organizing and cleaning your desk
Experimenting with makeup and beauty routines
Learning photography
Exploring new music and creating playlists
Designing and organizing your personal planner
Taking nature walks
Trying out journaling
Making your personal playlist for different moods
Learning about astrology or spirituality
Doing vision board
Exploring aromatherapy and creating a calming space
Practicing gratitude journaling or affirmations
Creating a travel bucket list
Developing a signature fragrance
Growing your own mini garden
Trying out new hairstyles or hair experiments
Staying active with fitness routines
Mastering time management
Learning new skills online
Doing regular digital detoxes
And yet, there are so many more... the list goes on...
Hello! This is the Become Your Best Version Before 2025 masterlist. Itâs a collection of all the posts from the series, gathered in one place to make it easier for you to access and follow along.
I hope you find it inspiring and helpful as you work towards becoming the best version of yourself!
free things you can do at home to start feeling more girly
people say that beauty costs money. there is some truth to that, but the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. it is a mindset that is cultivated - not purchased. đ
fashion & beauty
home manicure â trim & file nails, paint colour
dress nicely even when youâre sitting at home â you donât feel girly when you feel like a slob.
experiment with make up â try out new tutorials when you have no where to go
play in your wardrobe â experiment by mix & matching your clothing & accessories to find new outfits
study to become inspired â study fashion, movies, art, history and whatever else you want online to find new inspirations and role models for you to incorporate into your style
lifestyle
start exercising â we all hate this advice but it truly makes the biggest difference to your mood, body and feeling girly. do free pilates or yoga videos from youtube. you donât even need shoes, or a mat if you donât have one.
take a beauty bath (ideally with bubbles and music playing) â if you donât have a tub, then a beauty shower where you take your time and listen to music is also really effective.
drink more water â every cell in your body requires adequate hydration to function so donât starve yourself of precious water!! this is a requirement for glowing skin.
dancing â put on music, dance in your bedroom. moving your body frees up restraints that you subconsciously put on yourself and can help you feel more girly.
reading â ditch the scrolling and just start reading. read what? whatever you want, it all counts. you donât need to buy anything new - read books you already have, articles on substack, or borrow e-books to your phone from a public library. spending time reading calms your brain down and lets you readjust.
environment
clean your house â there is a difference between a âgirl messâ of some clothes on the floor and actually dirty. youâre never going to feel cute and girly with a sink full of dishes and crumbs in your sheets.
redecorate your digital spaces â maybe itâs not possible to decorate your outer environment right now, but redecorating your digital spaces, like your phone and computer, is free and can give you fresh girly inspiration.
swap out your media â consider what makes you feel girly and thoughtfully curate the types of content and media that you are putting into your mind. surrounding yourself with girly energy will make you feel more girly.
change your music -> music affects your mood so intentionally choose music that supports the way you want to feel. create playlists to be the soundtrack to the movie of your girly life. donât put on sad heartbroken music and expect to feel like a queen!
mindset
appreciate yourself in the mirror â most people have a negative self image and you can begin to repair your own by paying yourself compliments. it feels cringe at first but the more you do it, the more beautiful you begin to feel.
journal â how do you become your own dream girl if you donât even know who she is? write about her, discover who it is that you actually want to be.
if you want to become a more girly, cute, feminine version of yourself then there is no one stopping you other than you. while having a huge budget can buy us a new wardrobe and lots of lovely things, the most important changes we make to feel more girly all start for free. your new dream girl life is bought with your mindset, not your wallet. just aim to make small changes one by one and work towards becoming your dream girl over time.
in the words of Dita Von Teese: âbeauty, glamour, even luxury need not be determined by oneâs bank accountâ. â„
We need to get real about our actual habits in order to live the life we dream about. Our current thoughts shape our actions, which build habits, and over time become your identity. We all label ourselves based on these tiny actions we take over and over each day. A habit of not giving yourself enough time becomes you're the person who's always late. A habit of leaving your messes for the future becomes you're the Type B friend who can never stay organized. A habit of not washing your face means you're acne-prone (not anything against acne, but please, wash your face). These labels shape how you view yourself, and more importantly, how you talk to yourself and what you believe to be true about yourself.
This seemingly simple concept is often overlooked when it comes to conversations about starting new habits. We cannot change what we are doing if we a) don't understand our current situation and habits and b) don't reflect on our self-concept. Our habits form our ideas about our potential; what we believe about ourselves is critical to understanding our self-worth and leveling up our lives. If you believe yourself to be a tardy person, you never allow yourself to change your habit of leaving the house late. If you believe yourself to be unorganized, you won't be successful in keeping your room clean. The underlying beliefs in our psyche are so powerful; they subconsciously define what we can and cannot do.
So, how do we actually change our behavior and habits?
Start with naming the negative traits you apply to yourself. Maybe it's lazy, undisciplined, tardy, unorganized, or something else entirely. Make a physical list. Write them down.
Then reflect on your day-to-day habits that reflect those traits. "I call myself lazy because I doom scroll for 4 hours instead of doing homework." (Been there.) "I call myself unorganized because my room is always messy." etc.
Next, begin questioning the labels and beliefs you have about yourself. "Am I really defined by X habit, or am I making excuses to remain in my comfort zone?" Most of the time, you want to stay in your comfort zone.
Find friction in your daily routine. Define when and where you want your new habits to take place, and feel the tension of wanting to do what you're comfortable with and choosing otherwise. Lean into it; real growth happens outside your comfort zone.'
Congratulations, you have the framework for building new habits! Start small, simply reframing your thoughts about yourself when you notice them. This will help construct your identity around the person you want to be, not the version of you defined by stagnation and plateaus. Changing your self-talk to be aligned with your values and who you actually dream of becoming is the most important step in chasing that dream life. Keep leveling up!
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