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hellllllo, i'm heather, 19, and don't know where it all went wrong tbh. my tags are just a jumble of dumb thoughts and some sort of organization, you just have to look hard enough. my sidebar is actually me all the time: thirsty and wanting to do things to all of these insufferable beings in a pop band. literally don't know how i ended up here, if you could kindly point me in the direction of some sort of sanity that'd be just peachy, darling. --------------------------------------------------------------------------- It's been like almost 3 years since I wrote that and tbh i thought i made it out but somehow i was sucked back in??? its 2015 and I'm back occasionally (cos Zayn left and all i thought of was Ziam) --we all know I Don't Mind is about Liam don't fight me on this-- Anyways, I get on occasionally to reblog a bit, so shoot me an ask cos it's nice to talk to people. 😘

[ncdoodles]

after watching Coco, I kinda want to see an animated film about the Philippines now :p

[saltwaterandroses]

Because when I was 13 years old, I was sent home for my tank top straps being a little too thin, but a boy could wear a Cool Story babe, Go Make Me A Sandwich shirt and not be looked at twice. Because when I was 17 and I told a guy “No” and the next day the word tease was painted on my locker. Because when I was 18 and just wanted to be friends, I was a bitch. Because I feel the need to say “I have a boyfriend” instead of “No” because guys respect other men more than they would ever respect me. Because society screams “don’t get raped” instead of “don’t rape” Because I am scared to walk alone at 10 PM Because being beautiful is the most important thing I’ll ever do. Because when I wear my favorite skirt “I’m asking for it” Because the song Blurred Lines exists Because no means no no matter how you fucking spin it Because a girl was drugged and raped with a beer bottle, and the boys who did it are out on bail. Because I owe you nothing Because pepper spray is a gift I receive yearly. Because I am asked if I have a boyfriend more than I am asked about my mental health Because my clothes say more about my consent then my mouth does. Because the wage gap exists Because “not all men are like that” is said way too often ENOUGH ARE Because I feel the need to say “I’m not a feminist but…” Because I’m writing this fucking piece

When you ask why I’m angry? (via brennanat)

[krxs10]

ATTENTION IF YOU HAVENT ALREADY HEARD THIS IS EXTREMELY IMPORTANT

[sidnugget]

I’ve been saying this the whole time like everyone else

[miniangel]

spring 2015 → spring 2016

[pettyrevenge]

I had an ex that cheated on me but denied it which pissed me off even more than the actual cheating because it’s like he thought I was too stupid to know. As revenge I slashed his tire, but not any of the ones on his car, I slashed the spare, for a slow burn and ultimately better endgame. Fuck you.

[prideprejudce]

[thisishangingrockcomics-deactiv]

[animmalcrossing]

going through customs at a US airport

airport staff: sir, do you have anything to declare today?

me: *starts sweating* uh no.. *trips and falls* *hundreds of Kinder surprise eggs roll out of my pockets, jacket and briefcase*

airport staff: GET ON THE GROUND NOW

me: but i am

*armed guards swarm round and pin me down*

armed guards: WHAT’S IN THE EGGS?

me: i dont know its a surprise!! 

[planetofthegays]

[glasion-deactivated20160409]

“dude, i’m wasted” and by wasted, i’m talking about all of my wasted potential because i’m a lazy piece of shit

[rightnowimemotional-deactivated]

[1999gorl]

LMAO 

[sunflowersilva]

جب تک اس محبت کا پھول نہ کھلے ؛ تب تک اس دل کو سکون نہ ملے जब तक मोहब्बत का फूल न खिले , तब तक इस दिल को सुकून ना मिले| Until the flower of love blooms, This heart won’t find relief.

ZAYN//mind of mine Thank you Zayn from all of us across South Asia and all those who understand Urdu/Hindi because representation matters. (via peaceandhavoc)

[1stfrom92]

When your lady on her period.

[macsceneshawe-deactivated201606]

this got  funnier as it went

[nefepants]

“Don’t call her a bitch but

GET YOUR BITCH SOME CHOCOLATE”

[theequeenpin]

Facts 😂

[p0kemina]

There needs to be some sort of induction ceremony

[victoria-wayne]

This is the only comedy sketch that doesn’t make fun of women and their period. It try’s to make you relies how weird and annoying periods really are. That’s really refreshing

[ziamasf]

me after listening to mind of mine:

[renaissancepalette-deactivated2]

[galpalactic]

me: *googles how to mash potatoes*

some food blogger: My childhood home was full of wind and light. On a brisk Autumn evening, it often felt as if the outside was in. My younger sister, my mother, our favourite cousin, our dog, our other dog, our dog’s sister, and I would sit on the floor in the living room for hours, lit only by the moon and candlelight

me: *scrolls for several minutes*

some food blogger: It was at that moment, with my tiny hands clasped tightly around a mason jar filled with fireflies, that I realised the true value of family. My dog and my dog’s sister came and sat quietly at my feet. We stared up at the sky together, and I felt truly connected to both the Earth at my feet and the ancestors who shared the blood that ran through them, for the first time realising that

me: *scrolls for several minutes*

some food blogger: and when we finally made it home, our cheeks flushed with laughter and cold, there were warm mashed potatoes waiting for us. I will always remember their fluffiness, perfectly mirroring the light feeling I carried with me for the entire next week. This is my favourite cousin’s recipe from that very day, modified slightly to not be fucking awful. Boil an potato and smush it up with fork and botter. NOT A RAW, Salt, pepepr. In it

[starllex]

when something bad happens to someone you dont like and you have to pretend you’re sad but on the inside you’re like