safe space 🌙

♡ 𝒽𝒶𝑒𝒿𝒾𝓃'𝓈 𝓁𝑜𝓋𝑒 𝒷𝓁𝑜𝑔 ♡ 𝘪𝘯𝘧𝘰 / 𝘧𝘰𝘳 𝘺𝘰𝘶 / 𝘮𝘢𝘪𝘯

[why-bless-your-heart]

Friendly reminder to not punish yourself for creating. 

[putyouinabook]

Can you elaborate on what you mean by this?

[why-bless-your-heart]

I have a tendency to beat myself up whenever something I make doesn’t meet my expectations (which is always). The result is that finishing something = bad feelings: I am effectively punishing myself for having created something. The natural reaction to this punishment is an aversion to creation, meaning that my perfectionism is harming me, not only by causing me to despise what I do make and by impeding the creative process, but by attacking even my desire to create.

[assiraphales]

don’t hate urself, hate the system that made u feel insecure about every single aspect of ur life

[assiraphales]

to name just a few that I’ve personally dealt with

-it’s ok to be living with your family over the age of 18

-it’s ok if you’ve never had a relationship, and if you still haven’t had your first kiss

-it’s ok to have cellulite. it’s ok to not to work out

-it’s ok not to have a huge friend group, or a big social media presence

-it’s ok if you’re not “conventionally” attractive bc that concept is made up!!!!

-it’s ok if you aren’t good at make up, and don’t want to be. it is not lazy for a women to go bare face.

-it’s ok if you didn’t go to parties and drink excessive amounts during high school, high school is so glamorized in tv and it’s not a true depiction. high school is NOT the best four years of your life. neither is college. you did not miss out.

-it’s ok to not know what you want to do, or change your ideas 1000 times. if you want to go back to school @ 28, do it. there is no age limit on education

-it’s ok to have body positivity for others but not yourself. you are growing.

-most importantly, you have time. you have time

[6thlovelanguage-deactivated2020]

sorry to bother you queen but I was just wondering if you know where one can find 😳😳😳😳 free pdfs.....

library genesis, b-ok.org, pdfdrive 💕

[0909anada]

Lib gen is the g.o.a.t

[werenotreallystrangers]

[sweetroll]

Breadtop Assorted Cakes

[lluviagf]

https://www.instagram.com/p/B99Z6A7JCZa/?igshid=5gx0c9djw4kw

[wholesome-suggestion]

u r doing ur absolute best i am so proud of you

[handwrittenloveletter-deactivat]

Backwards, Warsan Shire

[neko-hime-deactivated20211219]

[lifeafterpsychiatry]

Your impact on other people is bigger than you think. Someone still giggles when they think of that funny thing you said. Someone still smiles when they think of the compliment you gave them. Someone silently admires you. The advice you give has made a difference for people. The support and love you've offered others has made someone's day. Your input and opinions have made someone think twice. You're not insignificant and forgotten. Your existence makes a positive difference, whether you see it or not.

[shareecherie]

I didn’t figure out my passion or what may bring me the most joy until well into age 27. Looking back on the stress of 18-26, it would have made no sense for me to settle into anything else and I wouldn’t have been ready to settle into what I love back then either. Some of us “bloom” later. Have compassion and patience with yourself, but be proactive.

[thefaeinthewoods-deactivated202]

The word "lover" is just.... the tenderness... the romance.... the gender neutrality.... whats not to love

[starvationxa]

some of u bitches r trying your hardest to stay positive and hopeful despite all the bullshit you’ve been going thru and it really shows and i’m proud of u

[professionalstudentthings]

Shout out to everyone whose mental health is dependent on routines in this time of everything being shut down, moved online, or shrouded in complete uncertainty.

[heavyweightheart]

idk who needs to hear this (other than myself) but a global pandemic might not be the time to do deep work on yourself or your close relationships. it might simply be the time for surviving. 

[selfcare-suggestion]

Progress is different for everyone so don’t make comparisons, just focus on your path.

[kaasbolletje]