“Nobody realizes that some people expend a tremendous energy trying to be normal.”
— Albert Camus
Why “Normal” Is the Most Exhausting Hobby You’ll Ever Have
Albert Camus, the original king of philosophical side-eye, once said, “Nobody realizes that some people expend a tremendous energy trying to be normal.” And let’s be honest, he wasn’t wrong. Being normal is basically a full-time job with no pay, no benefits, and a boss you can’t standsociety.
Think about it: people wake up and instantly slip into Normal Mode™. The right outfit. The right smile. The correct polite laugh that doesn’t sound too unhinged but also not too cold. Even your coffee order ends up being a performanceheaven forbid you get a triple shot lavender oat milk latte without someone arching an eyebrow. To blend in is to audition, every day, for a role you didn’t even want.
Meanwhile, your real selfpossibly a charming, mildly unhinged wind-up toy of joy (see: that blue chomping toy up there)is trapped backstage, tapping its foot, waiting to come out and dance. But nooo, we’re busy pretending to enjoy office small talk about printer jams and the weather. It’s no wonder Camus compared the effort to tremendous energy. It’s like doing emotional CrossFit in business casual.
The rakish truth? “Normal” is a myth. A glittery mirage. Everyone you think is normal is just hiding their own deliciously messy chaos. That mom at school pickup? Secret death-metal fan. Your boss? Writes fanfiction about competitive bread baking. Even your neighbor with the perfect lawn probably practices karaoke in the garage. The world runs on little rebellions, and the sooner you embrace yours, the less exhausted you’ll be.
So what’s the alternative? Stop auditioning. Retire from the soul-draining theater of “normal” and give your inner eccentric a stage. Wear the neon socks. Laugh too loud at the joke. Post that weird poem. Adopt the life strategy of a wind-up chattering teeth toy: unapologetically make noise and move in your own direction.
Camus wasn’t just throwing shade at conformity; he was handing us a cosmic permission slip. Life is absurd, darling. Being normal is both boring and deeply tiring. Be your own charming chaos instead. It takes less energy, and trust methe view is far better from here.











