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a curious ass gemini

[444shayyy]

Have you ever had Lilith conjunct Moon in synastry with someone, particularly relationships?

What was it like as Lilith person or even Moon person?

[444shayyy]

8h synastry/ 12h synastry

[444shayyy]

soo I got me and this guy’s birth time corrected and it turns out actually we have 8h synastry and not 12h synastry this entire time 😭😭😭 🧍🏽‍♀️…i’m actually confused

[444shayyy]

what’s the most obsessive man combo yall have ever dealt with? 👀

For me it was:

• Aries moon, Aries Venus, Aquarius mars

• Capricorn Moon, Scorpio Venus, Taurus Mars

• Aquarius Moon, Capricorn Venus, Pisces Mars

(extra points if they had moon/pluto or venus/mars oppositions 💀)

[444shayyy]

there’s this man I want soo bad it’s embarrassing I need someone to read our synastry chart cause….one thing I clocked is moon/mars and lilith/moon,mars synastry there

[444shayyy]

Hey, I have a question abt 12h synastry and you seem to have a lot of experience and posts on it. The planet person experiences distrust on the house person right, like they r hiding smth or lying ? Is it accurate intuition guiding them or is it just their perception? I realise I'm asking a generally broad question and some people can lie and some don't , but I just wanna confirm if the suspicions planet person has any truth to it or just their fears.

The planet person can feel like the house person is hiding something, but whether it’s real or just in their head depends. Sometimes, the house person is actually secretive, but other times, they just give off a mysterious vibe without trying.

The planet person’s own trust issues can also play a big role. If they already struggle with suspicion in relationships, they might just be projecting their fears. But if they’re usually good at reading people, their gut feeling could be right.

A good way to tell: If the suspicion feels vague and confusing, it’s probably fear. If it comes with actual red flags, it might be real intuition

[starie-leo]

Hello, what does it mean when two people have their Lilith aspecting each other’s Moon in synastry?

It depends on the people involved, the relationship, other planetary aspects and what kind of aspect are the liliths making (i.e. conjunction, opposition, trine etc)

In general, it shows a deep emotional connection, unexplainable yet intense attraction, sexual attraction, expressing our vulnerable, dark and wild sides to the other person, rage, obsession, possessiveness and jealousy.

conjunction: even if they don't show it directly, the moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side and would be able to understand them. Both feel a deep emotional connection but also feel unsafe by it. Lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Moon person could be very enamored by the lilith person and help heal the lilith person's emotional wounds. There's an intense attraction between them. If one or both of them don't have evolved liliths, they could trigger each others emotional wounds. They could be possessive and controlling towards each other. Both/either of them could be become very obsessive towards the other. Lilith person might also become jealous of the moon person. This is also a stalker placement. If the people are evolved, both could feel emotionally comfortable to express their shadow sides and vulnerability to each other.

trine/sextile: lilith person could trigger a primal instinct within the moon person, because of that, the moon person could try and nurture the lilith person. Strong physical and sexual attraction towards each other. They are comfortable with each other's dark side because they're similar but they both express it differently. Both learn how to be vulnerable and feel safe with one another. It is more harmonious than conjunction, however, trine can also be an enabler if the people are unevolved.

square: a lot of tension and aggression between them. sexual tension too. Moon person would want to nurture lilith but feels rejected or lilith person would want to be nurtured by moon but feels rejected or misunderstood. They feel uneasy with each other's shadow side and can be triggered by it. The moon person might be caught off guard by the lilith person. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for moon person to deal with them. If the people are evolved, they could be comfortable with each other even if they don't understand.

opposite: magnetic pull towards one another. However, they could overstep each other's boundaries. They're attracted to each other but feel unsafe about each other as well. Moon person can see through and feel the lilith person's dark side but can not understand why they are like this. If they are unevolved especially, this can create a power struggle. Lilith person can trigger the moon person's emotional wounds. It can be emotionally exhausting and draining for the moon person to deal with the lilith person.

(If anything here doesn't make sense or isn't right, feel free to let me know I'll correct or add to it. Also I would like to know what other people's experiences with lilith synastry are like cuz I normally don't see a lot about it and personally I have only dealt with a few conjunctions nothing else)

[Exeunt Leo]

[444shayyy]

12h synastry

[444shayyy]

somebody please give me a quick breakdown of what the hell is 8h synastry like?? I’m so used to 12h synastry unfortunately… I just need to know

[444shayyy]

synastry observation #1

Let’s talk about Venus square Venus for a sec. It looks cute, right? Like, all that sweet attraction and everything… but lowkey, if one person’s vibe is off, things get messy. Venus is all about love, but if that self-love isn’t on point, things can turn toxic real fast. It’s like, you’re both feeling the spark, but there’s that underlying thing —maybe jealousy or just the sense that something’s not right. A vibe that feels like “why can’t I just be happy with you?”

Now, the Moon conjunct Mars? Oof. That’s one of those aspects that’ll leave you feeling *triggered* in ways you didn’t even know were possible. You’ll have moments where it’s like, “What is going on? Why am I so irritated with them?” And it’s not even about a specific fight—it’s just like this undercurrent of tension that’s lowkey draining. It’s not always bad, but it’s def a vibe you’ll feel whether you’re ready or not.

But then we get to Lilith. Girl. Lilith in synastry? That’s *next level*. When Lilith touches someone’s Sun or Moon, it’s like she’s unlocking that hidden, raw side of them you didn’t know existed. And you? She’s bringing out that hidden side of you too. You start questioning your desires and what you really want, and it can get intense. It’s primal, edgy, and sometimes kinda uncomfortable—but that’s the part that makes it so intriguing. Like, why are we lowkey obsessed with it?

Mars opposite the South Node or Mars on the North Node? That’s basically a karmic *magnet*. You’re both pulled together like you’ve got some unfinished business. It’s not always smooth, but the energy’s undeniable. You can’t really escape it, even if you try. It's like your souls have met before and are now in a loop, learning lessons you didn’t know you needed.

And then we have Pluto. You know when Pluto’s in the mix, everything gets deep. It’s like being dragged into the depths of your emotions and stuff you didn’t even realize was there. It’s transformative—sometimes it’s healing, sometimes it’s chaos—but it’s always a wild ride. When Pluto hits personal planets, you’re definitely not the same person by the end of it. But honestly? It’s worth it because that’s when the real change happens.

Venus and Saturn, or Mars and Pluto, are like those *tough love* aspects. They’ll make you face everything you’ve been avoiding, especially when it comes to relationships. Venus can feel super restricting when Saturn’s involved, and Mars square Pluto? Prepare for that push-pull energy where you’re trying to get close, but something keeps holding you back. But that’s also when you learn the most about yourself and each other. It’s not easy, but it’s real.

At the end of the day, Lilith, Mars, Venus, and Pluto are the game-changers. They create a whole new world of tension, attraction, and straight-up chaos , but that’s what makes it all so intense. It’s raw, it’s messy, and it’s real. If you’ve ever experienced this kind of synastry, you know what I’m talking about—it’s the kind of energy that leaves you questioning everything, but you can’t seem to get enough of it.

hope you enjoyed that guys p.s. I’m not an astrologer I’m just going based on my own experience.

[444shayyy]

12h synastry

[sexallure]

𝑀𝒪𝒪𝒩 𝒜𝒩𝒟 𝑀𝒜𝑅𝒮

my take on moon-mars synastry ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི

how does moon - mars synastry feel? ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི intensely emotionally reactive. the mars person can cause the moon person to feel defensive or cornered, which is something the moon hates due to its changeable nature and how the moon prefers to evade confrontation. but mars doesn’t evade - it gets active, and this can unnerve the more passive moon.

the moon person arouses sensitivity / feelings / vulnerability mars and can prod at the heart on the martian’s sleeve, as well as mirror aspects the mars person repressed (the moon rules over mirrors). all-in-all, it’s a connection where both the moon and mars person trigger themselves, and simultaneously, trigger each other.

it’s an aspect that’s often sexualized in relational astrology, but that’s not all there is to it. ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི it just so happens that sex is the times where we are at our most vulnerable. we all know mars to be a warrior, but the moon is a warrior too. mars is more offensive ,the moon is more defensive. but either way, they are both warriors. and sex is a case where they have no armor, no weapons. just feelings and flesh. this can make for great sex for sureee, but it can make for great challenges and heartbreak.

it’s like, “this person gets me. . . but man, they work my damn nerves.” ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི this connection can feel like cutting along ur sternum and pulling ur ribs open to expose ur still-beating heart. it can feel like the connection between predator and prey — where of course, depending on the overlay, either person can be the predator or prey. but it’s more so often that the moon person is subdued by the mars person.

the sex is good, though. ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི u can kind of get lost in pleasure. being triggered into primal, repressed states doesn’t have to be all bad. because it’s so emotionally reactive, and because these planets are so instinctual and animalistic and raw, u can find urself getting really freaked out by it! like . . . u almost lose ur sensibility because it’s spiritual how u become ur flesh when having moon-mars sex. and that’s why u gotta be careful not to lose ur sensibility bc at the end of the day, sometimes moon-mars sex get so impassioned that it’s dangerous ( like wanting to fuck rawww lmao )

it just can have some downfalls if ur not prepared for it. ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི the moon person can feel like they are neglected emotionally. they may feel cornered by the mars person, which triggers the moon person emotionally. the mars person may feel that the moon person rejects, misunderstands, or manipulates them. and this triggers the mars person emotionally, as both of these planets are emotional. so. . . there’s clashing. the moon person can also feel like they’re begging or pleading, and the mars person can feel like the moon person is excessively needy

but it’s not impossible. ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི u don’t have to pick either good sex or a healthy relationship. u can have both. there are some tips i recommend to bring ease, but this has to be willing on both sides. or else y’all will not last. straight up

establish a united goal for ur relationship. what do y’all want with each other? why are y’all together? what does peace look like for the both of y’all?

how do y’all achieve that? do y’all journal, do y’all promise to just have alone time when upset then talk about it later - how do we y’all about it?

discuss boundaries frequently and understand that it’s y’all vs the problem, not y’all vs each other! because mars can be a bit offensive and moon can be a bit defensive, it may feel like y’all being attacked by discussions but ur not. somebody who loves u will tell u when u upset them bc they see u as someone worth resolution

these things can also make it easier, tho ♡ ྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀིྀི

i. mutual reception

so moon in aries x mars in cancer or moon in scorpio x mars in cancer ~ at that point it’s a matter of picking ur poison. with aries moon & cancer mars, mars is fall and moon is a bit uncomfy but not as uncomfy as fall. but they square each other. with scorpio moon & cancer mars, both mars and moon are fall but they trine each other instead and moon has triplicity rulership

ii. easy aspects

sextile or trine aspects may cause more ease. even more so than a conjunction, where i feel like it’s too easy for the energy to become overwhelmed. (for example, if person A is an aries moon and person B is an aries mars, moon is already uncomfortable but person B is empowered by their mars being in domicile. so. . . person A may feel really weak and submissive)

sextile carries the nature of venus and trine carries the nature of jupiter. this brings a lot of comfort to an otherwise uncomfortable configuration

iii. benefic influence

moon-mars synastry is tense but if they have personal chart indications that they are someone who values harmony, peace, communication, unity, etc, then it’s promising that they’d be more understanding and willing to work on issues instead of being combative

[evexline]

Mars conjunct Lilith synastry.

This is intense, very intense actually as soon as you met you had an instant sexual attraction to each other, something couldn't keep their eyes off each other, once you come into contact with this person much more comes into play, this can lead to obsession with each other. Once this obsession is created, intense jealousy and possesiveness appears. You just want to be with that person, this can cause a lot of intense emotions and a lot of jealousy that ends up in trying to make the other person jealous as well, which starts a fire burning. Because both are obsessed with each other.

+ As soon as someone takes their attention away from that person, the other person becomes jealous, which leads to aggression. Whether they know it or not, they have addictive sexual thoughts about each other. they both feel attracted to each other's mystery and occult knowledge. The mystery can lead to misunderstandings, for example thinking that they are playing with each other's feelings while they cannot live without each other. Once they are in a relationship you will notice that they start touching each other a lot in public, maybe even in places you wouldn't expect it, they are very open to taboo and are absolutely not ashamed of it. These would together border on and the thriller of life.

[444shayyy]

12h synastry

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12h synastry

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12h synastry

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