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my post literally fucking…vanished what the fuck TUMBLR

8itchh

ellenspages43

True feminism is not referring to other women as “sluts.” Just a thought for the next time you tag something with “feminism.”

8itchh

hashtagging to hashtag and also i as a *feminist* myself, find it more funny i can find humor out of words/“insults” used on me personally as a woman lol. would get it also more if i was someone who used slut/other derogatory insults on women and truly meaning it orr if i was openly trying to seem offensive here but i am not, furthest thing from that kind of person. i call myself a slut even if im not rly one haha. i didn’t think i seemed offensive here either, im sorry if u find offense

ellenspages43

“And if you want respect, you have to command respect, not demand it. Two totally different things. Commanding respect is in the actions, it’s the way that we speak about each other, it’s the way that you speak about yourself. If your whole agenda is to be sexual, and confusing being sexual with empowerment, and talking about fucking and sex all the time, thinking that that’s the reason that women are empowered, you’re fucking wrong. It comes with the way you treat yourself. Don’t call each other whores. Don’t call each other sluts. Because when you do that, society looks at you and they say, ‘Oh, it’s okay to talk to women that way.’ You teach people how to treat you.” - Iliza Shlesinger

It’s not okay to let others continue to think it’s acceptable to refer to women as “sluts.” Stop helping that agenda by calling yourself one.

8itchh

we could have a whole argument or agree to disagree because now you are just putting words in my mouth, I never said my whole agenda was being “sexual and confusing with sexual empowerment” nor did i intend to clearly. you don’t even know me to judge that. let alone i don’t have to explain my entire ways of being a feminist or what i as a woman or my friends too as women do to someone else who claims to be one. kindly get off my page if my post upset you lol

xxevilwomanxx-deactivated202303

This is one of the biggest things I don't like about radfems -- you do not get to tell other women how to cope with or handle misogyny. Radfems ironically infantilize other women constantly by talking down to them and telling them their form of feminism is incorrect and brainwashed and than in order to be respected they must act and speak a certain way. It is not up to us to behave correctly to deserve respect. We will be disrespected regardless. Women also aren't a monolith in how we feel and are treated and what is empowering to one isn't always going to be empowering to another. To say there is only a certain way to speak and think in order to obtain respect is exactly what men have been trying to force us to believe and I would like to live how I wish no matter how men perceive it or react to it.

8itchh

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