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My 2020 smells like:
Your flight confirmation is...
You’ve completed your savings goal!
“The tab’s on me.”
“Do you want me to Zelle or CashApp the deposit to you?”
Your order has been shipped.
New loft, who this?
Your trip is in 10 days!
Your balance has been paid in full.
Your autopay enrollment has been completed.
Dubai or Maldives?
Your new credit card is on its way!
Congratulations, your debt has been cleared.
I paid for your half!
how to walk like a queen [x]
Okay so this shit is in my likes and it’s come across my dash a few times since but this is the first time I’ve seen it since the following happened to me:
One time I was in Manhattan and I had a lot of walking to do and I was bored and was thinking about this gifset and I thought, huh, lets try it. So I did and I was thinking queenly, murderous thoughts and trying to see if people were more willing to get out of my way when I walked like this and then, I watch a guy pass me, do a double take, then a triple take.
Then he engages me in polite conversation for a block or two, tells me I have beautiful hair, then asks me out of drinks.
CHARLIZE THERON IS A SMART LADY BUT HER ADVICE IS POWERFUL. USE IT WISELY AND WITH CAUTION, MEN MIGHT START THROWING THEMSELVES AT YOU.
I will never not reblog this
I tried this today and 3 men stopped me to tell me how gorgeous I was. POWER.
Luxury Youtube Channels ft. Black Women
I love watching luxury videos on Youtube, especially when it’s a black female youtuber. To me, it helps with my visualizing and manifesting. There are classy black women who live luxurious lives just as much as other people of color. I’m sure some of my followers would appreciate a list of black luxury youtubers to follow. Here are luxurious black women I watch on Youtube:
Duchess of Fashion
Style With Substance
Cheraye C Lewis
Jocelyn Partee
TheUnfrumpyMommyLife
StyledBy Casanova
Highlowluxxe
KWShops
I Am Lady Luxe
If you know more good and active luxurious black youtubers, feel free to add on this post.
remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.
“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”
“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”
rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.
remember to cry for help without guilt-tripping. i know it feels like you’ve been abandoned and betrayed, but it’s probably not true, and it’s not okay to accuse the people around you of something they might not have done.
“i guess none of you like me” could be better phrased as “i feel unloved right now”
“but nobody cares anyway” could be better phrased as “i feel insignificant and i need reassurance”
rather than assuming others’ feelings, give them time to explain them. you’ll usually get a much better answer.
baked black pepper ranch chicken fingers with honey mustard (Source)
So last month we had 8 providers in my area robbed and raped. This man had fake escort accounts that he paid for himself on eros to provide fake referrals for himself, provided ID, provided pictures, talked on the phone, etc. In other words, he seemed legit…because he was a professional thief.
But.
The real kicker here is that he’s been blacklisted 20+ times on Verify Him. I’ve seriously I’ve never seen a guy blacklisted so many times. If these girls had known to check this site, he would never have gotten the chance. So please Sugar babies and escorts, get on Verify him. It’s free. Its been around forever. Even when you run out of credits, you can use the “browse blacklist database” and search with emails, names, phone numbers, etc. Just screen everyone and make no exceptions. It pisses me off that hes been able to do this to so many women and he knows hes going to continue to get away with it, because the police will never do anything about it.
I know we know this, and I know we talk about how important it is to screen all the time…but clearly the message isn’t getting out there for this man to be doing it for decades and getting away with it. He continues to victimize women all over the country.
All we can do is warn each other. stay safe girls.
EDIT: It was brought to my attention by ‘thecringeandwincefactory’ that this man is also a registered sex offender in Georgia for attempted child molestation.
Update guys: He’s currently in Durham North Carolina. He’s robbed 7 escorts there and counting.
How to Hustle & Be a Long-Term Sugar Baby
I have been with my current SD Red for almost a year and a half now. We have been through a lot of ups and downs because he is married. But I think our arrangement has developed into a strong friendship and relationship. Because of Red, I have been able to travel to Punta Cana with friends, New Orleans, San Francisco, Florida, and soon Canada. I’ve been able to have plastic surgery (breast implants), get a new car (soon), pay for school courses, help out my family, spoil my friends, pay off my credit cards twice now, been given gifts (MacBook Air, Beats, Prada bag, LV), etc. I’m extremely thankful for everything I have received from my SD.
So I wanted to share some tips on how to hustle to get the most out of your arrangement and also some tips on maintaining your hustle as a long-term sugar baby. Most sugar arrangements only last a few months because any number of reasons (SDs’ work schedules and work traveling conflicts, age and maturity differences, differing allowance expectations, finding other SBs/SDs, SB choosing to date traditionally or settle down, etc.). Hopefully you dolls find these insights helpful for your sugar hustle :)
COMPANIONSHIP:
-Time with your SD should be stress-free and carefree. Your SD probably has a lot of stressors in his life (work, kids, wife), and he looks to you to be his “escape.” I remember one of the last times I hung out with Red that he was visibly disappointed that he had to leave me early to go run an errand his wife requested. Being with a sugar baby means being with someone who can make you forget about your real everyday life. Do your best to be positive, happy, and funny when you’re with your SD. He has enough drama in his real life. I’ve never gotten visibly angry with my SD because he’s said before how his wife can be a bitch and has anger issues. The last thing you want to do is remind him of his wife.
-But do be real with your SD. Red and I share similar family dysfunctions when it comes to our families. We open up to each other and discuss family issues. I read about another SB who basically said you need to be happy 24/7 around your SD, and I don’t think that’s always the case. You’re a real person who has real issues too. You can’t be expected to be a robot, you have to be authentic. I’m not saying to make your SD your personal therapist and have crying sessions. But sharing some of the problems in your life shows you’re a real person and this communication connects you two emotionally. Relating to your SD despite your age, maybe race, and socioeconomic differences can only help strengthen your bond.
KEEPING THINGS SPICY SEXUALLY:
-Buy lingerie and model it for your SD. You get to be your sugar daddy’s ultimate fantasy. Chances are, any sex is great sex to men (lets be real here). But you want to ensure you keep your sugar daddy satisfied so he doesn’t go looking for a side sugar baby, or drop you altogether. I like buying inexpensive Yandy lingerie online and surprising my SD with outfits. Send your SD “sneak peak” or “preview” pictures to indulge him and get him really excited for your next meet. Men are visual creatures. Try out different looks (school girl outfit, really trashy looking body stockings, teddys, bras and undies) to keep your SD on his toes and intrigued with what you’ll be wearing next. Don’t wear lingerie each time you see your SD though, you naked works just as well sometimes.
-Research and practice. Read AskMen or Cosmo (sometimes questionable) or the Kama Sutra for new sex positions or sex tips. You can also bring sex toys into the bedroom (whips, handcuffs, vibrators, dildos) to keep things interesting. If you’re not into sex toys, try different flavored lubes, whip cream, syrups. Just be sure to clean up after! You don’t want to leave any marks or residue on your SD when he has to leave to head home.
-Give good blowjobs. I cannot stress having a good head game enough. Men will literally turn to putty in your hands. Watch porn or read online technique posts for inspiration.
-Practice safe sex. My SD and I still use condoms when we have penetrative sex. Sometimes I get the feeling that he doesn’t want to, but he always does. You can’t risk your sexual health for any amount of money. A lot of men from the older generation seem to be uninformed about current STIs, birth control, etc. So educate yourself and educate your SD too.
-Dress to impress. Sometimes you can be sexy without even trying. I wore fishnet tights underneath a tight skirt with a loose top on a date with my SD. I thought my outfit was fairly relaxed. But Red said he couldn’t stop staring at my legs and still thinks about that outfit to this day. You can be unintentionally sexy and leave a lasting impression with just one outfit piece.
KEEPING THINGS INTERESTING CONVERSATIONALLY:
-People love to talk about themselves. I’ve taken a few psychology and sociology courses and I learned that people are very egocentric by nature. So asking your SD an open-ended question about HIMself, HIS work, HIS family, HIS hobbies, his cars, his interests etc., and then asking follow-up questions off that is a sure way to keep the conversation flowing.
-There are always safe topics. If you can’t seem to find the words, you can always refer back to safe topics like your day, his day, your school, his work, his family, your family, summer plans, plans together, talk about the food you’re eating, weather. Or just smile and flirt if all else fails!
-Deeper conversations show maturity and intelligence. I also like to have somewhat deeper conversations with my SD about policy (minimum wage, cost of college, wealth disparity in this country), politics, family, relationships, marriage, religion, etc. People are complex individuals and I just enjoy learning about people’s thoughts and lives. It’s fun for me to pick the brain of someone twice my age who is successful, a white male, intelligent (Ivy league educated), and married.
-Cherry picking is a conversational technique. It’s pretty useful in keeping a conversation going. You can read more about it here. I think I first read about cherry picking in a psychology/dating book. You’ll have much better active listening skills once you practice this too.
HOW I HUSTLE:
-The “planting the seed” hustle. I was able to get my SD to agree to a boob job, and now a new $20k car among other great gifts by “planting the seed.“ You don’t want to come right out and ask your SD for something big out of nowhere. I wouldn’t plan a whole speech or sitting your SD down at dinner and asking him point blank. He will feel ambushed and most likely say no. I would first bring up what I wanted casually and jokingly in conversation while we were having fun at dinner, or in private. You have to choose the “right” moment to bring it up initially and then continue to “water” and “feed” what you planted in his mind :)
-The “benefits you too” hustle. For my boob job, I didn’t even know I wanted one until I thought it would be cool to get big boobs one day. I decided to bring it up with my SD while we were being intimate (it’s hard to say no to a girl sucking your penis). My SD said he would think about it, but he soon said yes. I was able to sell him on me getting boobs because he gets to enjoy them too! My SD even said that he really liked the idea of buying me boobs because he got to be with the young/innocent (aka flat chested me), and then the bombshel/slutty (aka big boobed me). I also pointed out that getting me a car benefits my SD because I’ll be able to drive to him now when we meet. He agreed and said he didn’t think of the benefit to him before. The best sales people make you think you need to buy whatever it is they’re selling. So hustle smart, not hard.
LASTLY… -No doesn’t mean no. My SD has told me no before when I’ve asked for things. But no doesn’t necessarily mean no. My SD has changed his mind before on things I’ve asked for. It never hurts to ask again, and the worst thing your SD can say is no. Do not be resentful because your SD will be as generous as you are with him.
-Be YOUnique. Be yourself. Just because you’re a sugar baby doesn’t mean you have to be a glam goddess 24/7. Be real, ladies. We are young! Be a little crazy ;) Red and I can appreciate each other for who we are as people and not just who are are in an arrangement, and because of this we have true companionship.
Stay safe X
I needed this reminder. Especially the first one. Even with a platonic that is important!!
Apps I use to “online only” Sugar Date
Tinder
Bumble
Match.com
Online only is for the sugar daddy who wants a long distance relationship. They are older men who seek affection and do not want to sit and beg a cam girl to go into private chat.
Its a girlfriend experience. My rule is any POT who isn’t willing to send you at least $75 -$100 in the first 3-5 days is not a long distance sugar daddy mindset. Trust me men will PAY anything to CAM girls so never think its crazy to think a guy would pay you directly for less work lol MEN WANT REAL CARE. Be the girlfriend they need when they are lonely
Use Snapchat and your camera on your phone to keep them wanting you, daily… its really that easy. You do not have to be super freaky but yes treat them like you are an on call cam girl and they are your regular viewer
Apps I use to “online only” Sugar Date
Tinder
Bumble
Match.com
Online only is for the sugar daddy who wants a long distance relationship. They are older men who seek affection and do not want to sit and beg a cam girl to go into private chat.
Its a girlfriend experience. My rule is any POT who isn’t willing to send you at least $75 -$100 in the first 3-5 days is not a long distance sugar daddy mindset. Trust me men will PAY anything to CAM girls so never think its crazy to think a guy would pay you directly for less work lol MEN WANT REAL CARE. Be the girlfriend they need when they are lonely
Use Snapchat and your camera on your phone to keep them wanting you, daily… its really that easy. You do not have to be super freaky but yes treat them like you are an on call cam girl and they are your regular viewer
How to ask for “online only”
Just tell them you are in college or work for a company that requires like 40hr per week but you’re a little lonely because guys in your city are lame and immature and you just love to be watched
Then just steer the conversation because he will most likely say “I would pay to see that” once you get it to that place you found your ATM
NEVER GO ON SKYPE OR SEND PUSSY PICS UNLESS HE PAYS YOU FIRST!
Tinder tip 💸
We all know at this point that you cannot say you’re a sugar baby in your profile on these vanilla dating sites. This includes Tinder, Okcupid, Plenty of Fish, and any others you want to use. However, I didn’t even realize until recently that discussing an arrangement with a POT in your private messages on these sites is also bad. It’s another reason that all of your accounts keep getting suspended. If you discuss being a sugar baby with a man who isn’t receptive, he may report your account out of spite. Here’s how to make sure your account will stay around. Once you’ve matched with a POT, have your small talk on the site. Once you’ve chatted a bit, send him your phone number (one connected to a texting app of course) and ask him to text you. Once you’ve received a text, block him on the dating site so he can’t report your profile. Have all of the arrangement discussions over text, and if he becomes disgruntled he can’t report you. That’s the #1 reason profiles get deleted, and it’s been effective for me so far.
Handy reference for when you ask your SD for that special “bag”.
Why I don't tell my friends about my Sugaring/Escorting lifestyle:
“The crowd that applauds your coronation, is the same crowd that will applaud your beheading.”
Learned the hard way.
This is important.
Daughter tells her Dad he’s going to be a Grandpa [x]
When he says “really” ;’)
Never leave this un-reblogged
What a dear human being he is.
