Asshole men!!
How do you guys stop feeling so fucking sad and wanting to cry all the time after a guy breaks your heart? *Story time So basically I was seeing this guy (my first by the way) and he had ended up telling me he didn't want a relationship which was fine but he still wanted to see me. So we kept seeing each other on a FWB terms but he kept treating me like we were in a relationship which confused the shit out of me. So I would bring up that lovely question of 'What are we' and he would say he really likes hanging out with me but is not ready for a relationship nor was he actively looking for one. He had said as well that maybe down the track we could give things a go. So 7 months later, I find out via Facebook that he'd gone on a date with another girl (he had always said that he would be 100% honest with me if he met someone or was talking to someone). I asked him about it and his response was 'we can still be friends'. He then got pissy and stopped talking to me when he asked if I was ok and I said no. I mean of course I'm not ok, the guy I love doesn't want to be with me! Anyway then things got messy and my mum got involved which fucked up the situation and he blocked me from his life because of this girl he knew for 2 weeks. He knew how I felt from the beginning and he knew how important honesty is to me and he lied about sleeping with her (when I asked he said he hadn't) and wouldn't say how long he knew her. This girl and I actually ended up talking and after that conversation I don't know what he's lied about. He slept with her multiple times and met her family the second day after meeting her. He always cancelled when we made plans for him to meet my family so that really hurt. I told her everything she wanted to know and she ran back to him and I'm pretty sure made me sound crazy cause he thought I was trying to make her jealous but I wasn't. What he doesn't know is she sent me a screenshot of a message he sent to her and she asked me if he sent loving messages to me (which he never did) but apparently I'm the one trying to make her jealous. Turns out he had also been using online dating for a while cause that's how he met her. He always said he wasn't actively looking. He's fallen for her so hard and so quickly and completely cut me out. I just miss my friend and I don't know how to cope not being able to talk to him and he doesn't care. I need advice or something because I want to cry all the time, I can't listen to music without being sad and I hate being alone because my head does stupid shit. Any advice would be amazing.
