Will you marry me?
You mean, ‘I love you, let’s get the law involved so you can’t leave’.
Ermm, no… i won’t marry you…sorry.
Let’s get something straight first, I’m all for the celebration of love, i think it’s great. There’s no other feeling that comes close to it. Love is the most powerful emotion, bringing happiness and freedom along with it.
So when did love come with a contract?
Doesn’t it feel completely wrong to you? And doesn’t it sound so stupid? I mean, marriage is just something that humans created anyway. A piece of paper - or as they would put it, ‘a legally binding contract’ - means nothing really. It’s completely made up. I feel that we place so much value on things that have no true importance. Marriage is a tradition that is dependent on the religious, cultural and political circumstances of a particular society. Once upon a time, maybe it was a celebration of the unity and love between two people, but now it’s just a legal arrangement.
The only reason for it’s significance, is due to the value and importance that society places on it. The same is true for a birth certificate, social security and drivers license. They have value because everyone agrees to it. I understand that in order for certain things work smoothly, there need to be ‘rules and regulations’, but at the same time, it’s taken to an extreme. It’s kind of like getting so focused in a game that you forget to take a step back and realise that it’s only a game. The true value is in love itself. Not a man made contract.
If two people really love each other, they feel no desire to leave each other or hurt each other. So why sign a contract? Why get the law involved? Is it something you feel the need to do in order to prove your love? Because let’s get real, if you need a piece of paper in order to commit to another person, there’s something very wrong. Love is a free energy that has no limits, no boundaries and restrictions. There are no legally binding contracts in nature. Why try to own and control emotion? Why can’t people just love each other without feeling the need and pressure to sign a contract? Why make love so complicated?
I’m not in love, but when i am, i definitely do not need a piece of paper to confirm it.













