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[letsplaysocialjustice]

goldenchanterelle commented on traggotry’s post “p sure LGBT erasure actually refers to lesbian, gay, bi and trans…”

@letsplaysocialjustice she meant that people who are HETERO and demiromantic aren’t LGBT. Don’t pretend to miss the point. obviously fucking isn’t the only thing that matters abt being LGBT. If you are heterosexual. Only attracted to the opposite sex. You are not. Part of the LGBT+ community. It doesn’t matter if you also are also Demi. What would make you a part of the LGBT in that case is if you were demi romantic and ALSO attracted to people of the same/more than one/ etc sex.

“if you are heterosexual. only attracted to the opposite sex. you are not. part of the LGBT+ community”

ok straight trans people exist and this is some anti-trans and anti-nb terf logic but go off i guess

don’t have time for transphobes or homophobes

[painfulprincess]

@letsplaysocialjustice

Youre literally being transphobic by saying that trans men with a vagina arent real men. Trans men who like women are straight you absolute bozo.

[trilies]

> painfulprincess: If you’re straight, you can’t be in the LGBT community!!! > lpsj: You’re erasing straight trans people > painfulprincess: yOU’RE ASYING TARNS EN WITH A VAIGNA AREN’T REAL MEN

lmao like what kind of Trump logic is this…. Hey PP, you might want to try that “I-I-I didn’t say that, you, yOU said that!!!” logic on someone…. that isn’t a trans man. 

nice try, tho. 

[a-phobia]

pretty clearly they’re talking about cis (seeing as they included the T in LGBT) demi heterosexual people aka cishets, who aren’t lgbt

[a-phobia]

aight i’m gonna delete this i barely use it and i’m tired

[yeezy-nation]

why do the ace/aro community hate lesbians so much? like what did we do???

[bpdhitoshi]

we dont h8 lesbians at All we just hate the demons who attack ace ppl simply for existing n being ace

[validflags]

thanks for implying that lesbians are the only group that does that! love u too!

[yeezy-nation]

WOW

[futureblackwakandan-deactivated]

The whace’s are back at it

[johncribati]

Alrighr let’s get to everything wrong with this post:

I can’t speak for the entire ace community, and I’m certain there are bad parts, just like there are bad parts of every community, but if we’re all supposed to hate lesbians as a monolith I

The memo mustn’t have reached my desk yet

Honestly to be fair if even though exclusionists come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and orientations, if there’s one is flying some kind of pride flag in their avatar it does tend to be the lesbian flag, just putting that out there. And not to mention that thing during Pride Month. So pardon me if I’m not immediately thrilled to see one.

@reghatred just pulled like the oldest word twist in the book and everyone is just going along with it? 👀

[yeezy-nation]

i stopped reading at 3 so can you just admit that youre lesbophobic and go pls tysm

[validflags]

also @johncribati bpdhitoshi has been lesbophobic outside of this thread, it’s not exactly reaching for me to imply they hate lesbians bc they’ve made it very clear already

[a-phobia]

also its a troll blog

[yeezy-nation]

which one??

[a-phobia]

@bpdhitoshi

[redkrypto-deactivated20211128]

moodboard

[yeezy-nation]

why do the ace/aro community hate lesbians so much? like what did we do???

[bpdhitoshi]

we dont h8 lesbians at All we just hate the demons who attack ace ppl simply for existing n being ace

[validflags]

thanks for implying that lesbians are the only group that does that! love u too!

[yeezy-nation]

WOW

[futureblackwakandan-deactivated]

The whace’s are back at it

[johncribati]

Alrighr let’s get to everything wrong with this post:

I can’t speak for the entire ace community, and I’m certain there are bad parts, just like there are bad parts of every community, but if we’re all supposed to hate lesbians as a monolith I

The memo mustn’t have reached my desk yet

Honestly to be fair if even though exclusionists come in all shapes, sizes, genders, and orientations, if there’s one is flying some kind of pride flag in their avatar it does tend to be the lesbian flag, just putting that out there. And not to mention that thing during Pride Month. So pardon me if I’m not immediately thrilled to see one.

@reghatred just pulled like the oldest word twist in the book and everyone is just going along with it? 👀

[yeezy-nation]

i stopped reading at 3 so can you just admit that youre lesbophobic and go pls tysm

[validflags]

also @johncribati bpdhitoshi has been lesbophobic outside of this thread, it’s not exactly reaching for me to imply they hate lesbians bc they’ve made it very clear already

[a-phobia]

also its a troll blog

[exyclusionist]

has anyone made this etymological joke yet

[just-stupidity-in-humanity-deac]

no because people aren’t no life pisspots who only browse on tumblr to whine about how ace and aro people aren’t inherently lgbtqa+ even though they are, we’re sorry you hate us, because we hate you too.

[muppetcourse]

This………is……..a……joke……. about……how….. aphobia….means….no…..fear……

[963694634758p7p69696-deactivate]

how quickly they fall for the bait

[exyclusionist]

i aint even seen their reply before im cackling

[a-phobia]

hey I just want 2 say ur da best!!

thanks but i really cant get over the way this was written djfhksjfhds f

[a-phobia]

anyone else tired but not surprised that yants turned out to be a pedophile

[grumpydex]

guys i need more discourse blogs to follow hit me up and ill follow + promo

[nocishetsinmylobby]

i just made this blog like a week ago but i have a nice url jbgdgfdg

[grumpydex]

goooooooo follow!

[a-phobia]

i’ve been around for a year and i’m just so tired

[warriormalelovingmale]

There isn’t a C for Cisgender because “cis gays exist and being cis is part of their identity!”

There isn’t an S for Straight because “straight trans people exist and being straight is part of their identity!”

We, the LGBT community, don’t need to acknowledge the parts of your identity that aren’t LGBT.

There doesn’t need to be an A for Asexual. If you’re LGBT, you’re LGBT. If you’re not, you aren’t.

[znj]

[curehardflip-deactivated2021053]

why does everyone hate on the Hamilton musical? this song goes hard AF

[lesbitchka]

its weird to say that mlm is a useful term & at the same time imply that people shouldn't be using it. should we be using it or not? IMO achillean is a trash term and i wish people would drop it entirely, but for mlm i dont know if its usefulness outweighs the resent lesbians/wlw have with it. if its going to be a matter of contention then we should either agree to drop it entirely or not at all

i cant personally decide whether its deemed too useful to drop or not. i want achillean to die out if only bc its dumb, but im fine with mlm despite its origins bc it’s an easy umbrella term. i dont particularly care if you use it or not

[tehdischorse]

to respond to ur hashtags–i’m a teen girl and i identify as sapphic/wlw bc i really am still confused on my sexuality???

[lesbitchka]

using it as a primary identificator while you’re still questioning what your identity is, is completely different from having it figured out but primarily calling self a wlw above all else

[a-phobia]

the term msm has existed for years so i don’t see the issue w a similar term that is more inclusive (of minors and ace mlm mainly)

[mrcy]

“Bisexuals aren’t stigmatised”

With help from a bunch of lesbians from youtube:

“I think lesbians are smarter in a sense that we know what we want and we go for it, that’s why we’re gay”

“so if you’re at a party and you see the hottest girl there who turns out to be bisexual, whats your reaction?” “that’s really unfortunate”

“if she can make me laugh then I might be able to get past the fact that she had a dick in her mouth last week”

“if you’re with a lesbian then you know that they’re going to be going for you, for a woman, but if you’re with a bisexual…”

and a special mention for personal experience:

“I’ll have to keep a meter away from you tonight, otherwise you might make out with me haha”

“I wanted to tell you that you looked good last night but someone told me not because you might make out with me”

we constantly get told not to attend pride unless we’re in a same sex relationship, get degrading comments from both the gay community and straight people, are told we aren’t ‘queer enough’ and that because we can pass as straight we don’t deserve a place in LGBTQ+ spaces.

get fucked.

[himedevil]

to add to this: if you’re a bisexual dude people are straight up not going to believe you’re not secretly gay/in the closet bisexual girls are fetishized and bisexual guys are considered liars

[gaypriori]

the level of lesbian representation in media is bad as it is but the type of representation is pathetic too. it’s almost exclusively white, thin, femme women playing lesbians. where are the butch lesbians? the androgynous lesbians? the lesbians of color? the fat lesbians? the trans lesbians? it’s hard to feel attractive and confident in our already marginalized sexuality when we don’t see ourselves portrayed in fictional relationships or at all.

[dieverwandlung1975]

i mean, it’s often not even “femme women“, which would imply that these actresses are lesbians themselves. it’s feminine straight women.

[sevensus-deactivated20171201]

shoutout to my Asian trans people. to all the Chinese, Japanese, Korean, Pakistani, Indian, Sri Lankan, and so many more trans people out there. we aren’t represented much, in shows or cartoons or anything. but you know what? you’re still valid, even if you don’t see yourself on screen. you’re still a boy, or girl, or anything in between. maybe even just… not. you are valid, Asian trans people.

[a-phobia]

@dare-i-say-asexual

[queengloryrain]

[cherrydiscourse]

there is seriously no point of comparison between “mom, dad, i’m gay/trans” and “mom, dad, i’m ace/aro/demi/etc” because like… the implications of both situations are completely different and not at all interchangeable

let me elaborate.

when a kid comes out as gay/bi/trans to their family, this implies a very high chance of them being rejected by their own family, facing disgusting comments about their orientation/identity, facing the danger of conversion therapies or being forced to join “help” groups. they face the real danger of being left homeless, disowned. or, if they are luckier, their family might ignore their confession and continue acting like their kid is straight/cis, or they might just disapprove and make the kid feel guilty about their orientation/identity. they face parents who refuse to attend their weddings, to help finance their transitions, to give them love and support. they face actual, real life dangers and traumas.

when a kid comes out as ace/aro/demi/etc that’s just… not even remotely close? i mean, it’s great if your relationship with your parents allows you to speak to them about your life without any sort of taboos, like, if you wanna tell your parents about how much sex you want to have or how you don’t really have any interest in romantic relationships then that’s really neat. it’s just not like… in any way comparable to coming out as gay/bi/trans.

how are you gonna say that telling your parents “mom, dad, i don’t want to have sex with every person i meet and honestly i’m not really that interested in sex altogether” is in any way comparable to “mom, dad, i’m gay/bi/trans”

like seriously, how can you say it’s the same and feel like you’re not being disgustingly insensitive towards actual lgbtpn people ?!

[cherrydiscourse]

hey this is fucking important and while likes are nice and all i’m gonna need y'all to reblog this

[rosiemutual-deactivated20180308]

hey cherry go eat some grass

[puchimas-against-aphobes]

go eat a grass ugly

[cherrydiscourse]

okay kids, i’m listening then. could you please, making an elaborate argument like i did, explain why exactly aces/aros need to appropriate ‘coming out of the closet’, and why their situations are comparable to that of lgbtpn people? thanks

[jennysighs]

As someone who “came out” as ace first and actually came out as trans later, I can say with some certainty that the former is embarassing and pointless and the latter is scary and important. (And as it turns out, I wasn’t ace, but approaching sexuality as a man was repulsive because I’m not one, but actually thinking about the why and coming to terms with it wasn’t encouraged by the ace community. I dread to think what could have happened if I’d gotten too deep into MOGAI hell. I have no ill will toward cishet aces looking to be allies, but they aren’t my community as a trans wlw.)