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theclassicsreader

“All the love in the world is useless when there is total lack of understanding.”

— Franz Kafka, Letters to Felice

aznaudrey

Don’t Give Up 😤

juliamstarr

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transmortifried

Older WLW Couples

reblog if you agree

transmortifried

Someone PLEASE add some photos I beg of you.

cockyroaches

On it!

💕💕💕💕💕💕

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thelovelylights

I truly live in the darkest timeline where diverse and amazing shows like Brooklyn Nine Nine, The Get Down, and Sense 8 are canceled and Supernatural is on its 100th season and a show romanticizing suicide got renwed.

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hard feelings // lorde

help-mywife

help, my wife got wine drunk and tried to set our marriage certificate on fire, saying “good luck trying to return me without the receipt”

#prepare yourself amy

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did april even………………………happen

godtechturninheads

April felt like it lasted forever……but now that it’s not April I have completely no memory of any April ever and I can’t seem to recall the last 30 days of my life.

arwens

me, randomly, at 3am: i. must clean my room. and try on some outfits. and then i should draw something. it will be beautiful. also i should make a pot of rice ….!!!!!!!! i have never felt this alive

rubyfruitnb

I know a lot of lesbians that used to identify as bi who worried that coming out as a lesbian would contribute to invalidating bisexuality in some way, by making it seem like a “stepping stone” to coming out as gay. I’ve also known bi women who identified as lesbians and changed their labels later, and worried that they were contributing to some kind of idea about how men can ~turn lesbians. I just wanted to say that it’s no individual lesbian or bi women’s responsibility to fix straight people’s perceptions of us. Like, it’s not your duty to serve as a political symbol! It’s your duty to find happiness even if that means changing ur label at some points.

fuck-customers

Funny story from the other night:

A dad came into my cafe with his 3 year old daughter. He bought her a cookie and himself a coffee. They sit down, and I go back to my pre-closing cleaning. Three minutes later the dad walks up to the counter again, so I stop cleaning and walk over to greet him again.

As I’m in the middle of saying “hi” he cuts me off and says “Water.”

Not “Can I get a glass of water, please?” not “Where can I get water?” not even a confused “water?” like he’s not sure how to get water in this cafe. Just a single word demand.

I work in silicon valley, so I’m kind of used to techies talking to me like I’m Siri or Alexa, but it still always drives me crazy when they do this. Like, I don’t even care about the “please” anymore, I just want people to talk to me in complete sentences. So I get the guy a cup of water, and he sits back down.

As I’m about to go back to cleaning I hear his daughter go “Daddy, you did that WRONG. You have to say ’CAN I have a glass of water PLEASE’”

My jaw hit the ground. The dad suddenly became flustered and tried coming up with excuses “I-I said please…” “No you didn’t!” “Well she was busy…. I didn’t want to bother her…..” “You still got to be polite!”

When they were done eating the dad brought the dishes back to the counter and said “Thank you so much!” It’s amazing how fast someone’s manners can improve when a 3 year old calls them out.

Shout out to whoever is teaching that little girl manners, because you know it’s not her dad. I hope she never stops calling rude people out.

animals-lovers

bunney

me writing a resume: “hello im a mentally healthy person who LOVES capitalism and

bpdcadet

me: *0.002 seconds after my therapy session ends* ooh i forgot to tell them that thing that is a very crucial part of my mental health i’ll do it next time

me: *next time* haha honestly i don’t even think i NEED therapy everything is great

#ok me