Your ships have flaws.

hey this blog is ran by mod roxy (15, he/they) and Mod Dirk ( he/him)!! we are anti incestuous, pedophilic, and abusive relationships/ships! inbox: OPEN!! if you'd like to know mod roxy's main, send an ask off anon :) | Did you put that bar there? Is that just an uppercase "i" or an actual character? Anyway, I decided that meme is unfunny so I merked it. Still fucked your dad, though.

[rytfujgkuhhgmjgh]

oh no, i don’t condone abusive relationships! i just write, reblog, and create art, fanfic, meta, gifsets, and other content that portrays an abusive relationship as sexy, attractive, ideal, and the only true choice for each character. most of the time i put them in happy aus or situations despite claiming that i only ship them because of the angst! that’s not condoning abuse, you silly antis!

[goddesstrolls-archive]

this is all i’m going to say

if you think shipping kids with adults is okay, block me.

if you think it’s okay because it’s fictional, block me.

if you think it’s okay because “it’s better than doing it in real life” or “no one’s getting hurt”, block me.

if you think pedophilia is okay, block me.

this is not up for debate. shut up and block me.

[vampireapologist-archive-deacti]

There are adults commenting that adult/minor, incestuous, and pedophilic ships don’t hurt anyone in the real world, meanwhile I have about thirty asks right now from kids relieved to see everyone in the notes being vocally against this content because they’ve so often been made to feel unsafe by adults in fandom who support that content online so I think that about wraps up that argument. It does affect children, and you should be ashamed, and you can happily unfollow me, thank you.

[bayverse]

The comments on this post are so fucking horrifying that I’m not even gonna post a meme telling y’all that it’s bad.

It’s seriously that bad.

[succulentbud]

the worst take to ever come out of social media is “fiction does not equal reality”, when. the Jaws Effect is literally right there and proves just how much of an impact media truly has on people’s psyche

[succulentbud]

Jaws Effect: *had real life negative effects on the shark population as a whole cause Jaws made people afraid of them even though they kill so very few people*

Fandom moms who think antis are real: distinguish from reality and fiction, sweetie! it doesn’t hurt anyone!

[slitherbop]

[koukoupepia]

[himejoshikomaeda]

“let people enjoy things” is quickly becoming a very dangerous phrase

[yootsart]

[elsswayr-deactivated20210622]

it’s pretty messed up that when i see an artist in the mp100 fandom i often have to check whether they draw some sort of nasty shit or not, and sometimes you have to dig deep before you realize that

anyway, let me get this straight: re/imob and ri/tmob shippers have no rights. neither do people who ship similar stuff or draw nsfw/ of kids. i have zero tolerance for this kind of shit or for people who enable such behavior and if you dare to say some bullshit like fiction doesn’t affect reality you’re a moron and quit embarassing yourself.

[abusiveshipping]

I'm a CSA survivor in my 20s. I grew up in the first "wave" of online shipping (LJ/FFN), and it def affected me badly. I really do want to say, though - I don't think minors should run anti blogs, especially if they're survivors. Whether participating in the worst parts of fandom or arguing against it, you're still exposing yourself to this material. I just hope that both of you stay safe, stay strong, and remember that there's at least one person sending you positive energy <3

haha you dont have to worry about it man, though i do appreciate the concern + sentiment. we arent dedicating a whole lot of time or energy to this blog, and i personally make posts on this blog that i would normally on my own main blog. we arent knee deep in discourse or anything, mainly minding our business so i think its fine. thank you, though!

-mod roxy

[follow-mkshush]

whats up with all these new pedophiles

[follow-mkshush]

reminder that drawing and writing fictional kids in sexual situations is still legitimate child porn. aging them up and saying theyre 18 isnt an excuse either. youre still a pedophile

[follow-mkshush]

also if you are saying fictional child porn isnt a threat to children but also believe representation in media is important, its time to remove your head from your hypocritical ass

[follow-mkshush]

this isnt “discourse” this is a real fucking issue. fictional child porn is used as a tool to groom minors into thinking child porn and being exposed to sexual images of other kids their age is alright and normal. This normalizes and legitimizes “real” pedophiles actions. i dont care if you arent jerking off to kids fucking but fuck, if you are producing it or sharing it or supporting artists and authors that create it, you are part of a huge problem. talent means nothing if you draw or write child porn. you are a pedophile. you are producing and sharing sexual images of minors. what dont you understand??

[misty-mauve]

person who i reblogged this from also noted that you shouldn’t be using it to cope, which i wanted to put on the post itself

if you’re coping with sexual abuse, retraumatization is not a good way to do it. it’s a very tempting way, because it’s familiar, but that doesn’t make it good or exempt from everything else said here. better narratives to read are stories of sexual abuse survivors moving on with their lives, which are unfortunately uncommon in fandom compared to fetishized sexual abuse

if you’re coping with pedophilia/pedophilic intrusive thoughts, consuming child pornography will not help. it will normalize it in your mind and saying that it’s alright to consume for coping encourages other people to normalize it in their minds as well, increasing the odds of one of those people harming a real child. therapy can help in minimizing these thoughts and if you don’t have access to it, there’s plenty of fictional adult porn out there

in either case it’s unhealthy to consume and just as unacceptable to promote

[enigma-boi]

“Being able to tell the difference between fiction and reality” is kinda… not the point. At all.

It’s a lousy argument that completely misses the point entirely. 

Cultivation theory, at it’s baseline, doesn’t say that consuming, say, violent media makes you wanna kill or hurt people. What cultivation theory IS is saying “the proliferation of excessive violent media can influence how the people who consume that media perceive about the world” ie a person with already violent tendencies might be more likely to act on those violent tendencies because, due to the sheer glut of violent media, violence might seem more acceptable than it actually is culturally. 

And this shit is subconscious, you can’t say you’re not affected by it because “you know the difference between fiction and reality”, because often time you don’t actively register that it IS influencing you. Or, in the case of many ads, you do know it’s trying to influence you and you put up guard walls - but that burger on screen DOES look delicious and the Burger King is only down the road so why not grab something to eat? The decline of sharks due to Jaws is people perceiving the sharks as inherently dangerous to human and, thus, to keep people safe, need to be culled. The rise of the KKK in the late 1910′s and early 20′s was due to Birth of a Nation portraying the KKK as sympathetic and cool. The decline of the KKK in the 40s can be attributed to their mocking portrayal Superman radio serials. This shit all matters.

This shit is all people being influenced by fiction even if they can acknowledge that fiction isn’t reality.

[enigma-boi]

To expand and reiterate. Yes, not everyone is going to be affected by cultivation theory the same way or in some cases, even at all. This varies from individual to individual and from society to society, and the effects of said “cultivation” can be stronger or weaker, once again, depending on the individual. To name the name of one of the most famous studies on the subject “Some Genres have Some Effect on Some People”. However When content is consumed by thousands, or in the case of big budget stuff, millions. “Some Genres have Some Effect on Some People” has a non insignificant chance of impacting society. And just because you know this, and can tell yourself “Pfft, I’M not being affected! It’s only IDIOTS and KIDS who get affected by this stuff!” You’re not as ironclad and immune as you think.

[abusiveshipping]

Thanks mod Roxy, I just read your answer! Yes, it's difficult. Basically one character raised the other... and people ship them. There is this episode where the little one wet the bed. I just can't understand how someone would ship a character who probably changed the other diapers?? Now they are both adults so it's "ok" (ofc it's yaoi) I sometimes feel like the autor teased the ship in the past. I try to ignore the older character (who is the one making weird insinuations) but it's triggering

oof yeah, i can understand why thats triggering. honestly, if its implied in canon, i would personally steer away from it, but ultimately its all your choice. i honestly wish the best for you and hope everything turns out good, sweetie!  in the end, you should always prioritize your own mental health and if staying away from this show/the fandom is what will be better for you, then you should do that. i wish you luck!-mod roxy

[abusiveshipping]

Hey... What can I do if a fandom otp triggers me? I thought I was safe in Amino because I didn't see the ship but today there was a fanart and I started to feel ill. I like a character from that ship but it's impossible to look for fanart without finding this gross ship. Sometimes I feel like just ignoring the character, but now even the fandom/series started to bother me. I don't know what to do, I go from loving to hating the series and I feel stupid/childish but can't help my feelings

hmm this one is a bit difficult to answer, since there seems to be no real solution other than to remove yourself from the fandomfirst of all, i understand. theres a few popular ships that literally make me physically ill to even think about, but i tend to just try to remove myself from the blogs who post about it. i get what you mean about feeling silly for disliking a ship so much, but i need you to understand that your feelings are valid (yes, i just used that word unironically) even though your feelings arent in align with the rest of the fandom’s, ya? theres nothing you can do to control your feelings completely, just how you express those feelings. as long as you arent harassing people, its all good (assuming the ship in question isnt genuinely gross, like incest or pedophilia)as for, like, advice, well. im not sure theres much i can suggest, actually, other than dont interact with the fandom. i understand wanting to interact with others who have the same interests as you, but if its doing more harm than good, then you should just not do it. you can still enjoy the content and make your own fancontent without interacting with the fandom, yanno? that being said, if you really, really dont want to stop being apart of the fandom, i suggest following blogs that focus on a particular character/ship or blogs that dont post the ship at all, and perhaps ask if they could tag the ship. following organizational blogs is really good, because they tend to tag everything, including ships. this is the best advice i have as of now. if you have anymore trouble, feel free to send another ask or dm me on discord (Chad#7801). i hope everything works out for you, hon! -mod roxy

[thechanelmuse]

Remnants of the British Black Panther’s Lost Legacy

[clatterbane]

Britain’s black power movement is at risk of being forgotten, say historians

The Cambridge academic Robin Bunce said: “There is a fundamental danger of erasing the very notion of a struggle at all. I’ve been researching this for four and a half years and there have been so many occasions when people have said to me: ‘There was no black struggle in Britain. You’re thinking of South Africa or America.’“

The narrative that feeds it is the one that Britain is the utopia of fair play. We have such a commitment to individual rights, we have such a commitment to common sense and decency that there is no systematic racism in Britain.”…

Bunce said it was not just politicians, but wider British society that would rather not dwell on the less palatable.

[clatterbane]

Bringing this one back, while I’m reminded.

[psychourse-blog1]

shippers: “ALL CHARACTERS DEPICTED AS 18+” characters: 

[goldensunset]

some of y’all still can’t recognize the differences between platonic, romantic, sexual, mentor-student, and familial relationships, both in fiction and reality, and it really shows

[goldensunset]

some of y’all still think there’s only one type of love and it really shows

[tottyagainstships]

reblog to delete all incest shipping

[remanedur]

yo okay wait how come nobody made this post. why is op nonexistent 

[veeranger]

god made this post