I apologize that my anon came off as offensive. My goal was not to belittle you or just blatantly attack you, just to hear your take on the aromantic community.
i rlly havent been in the ace discourse loop in a while bc im more focused on. yknow. the real world. so idk all the popular opinions or theories or whatnot. and idk why people are sending asks to an inactive ace discourse blog that doesnt give a shit abt what mogai ppl think.
but i just dont get it lol. whats “romantic attraction”? how do u define that. How is it different from stuff you want to do with friends. How is it a functional label that unites people. u have a lack of romantic attraction yet you still want relationships? Do you only want relationships after you’ve bonded with someone? Do you need a label to say that? How many different definitions ARE there? How many conflict with one another?
Like... how is it a tangible label. Lesbian, bisexual, and gay have tangible labels. Lesbians are women who love other women. Gay ppl are men who love other men. Bisexuals r people who love regardless of gender. (All are inclusive of nonbinary people.) They have actual, tangible definitions that are based in the real world and have a real effect on who they are, who they love, and how society treats them.
The fuck does “aromantic” mean? In the real world? It’s too vague. Nebulous. It doesn’t mean anything. And i dont rlly give a shit what aros have to say about it. I just want you to think about WHY you think its necessary to ID as aromantic when it doesnt actually have any tangible effect on your life past mogai tumblr positivity posts.




















