ana

Nonbinary lesbian// 21y// they/them ATLA, The Cosmere, Arcane, marauders, The Pitt and a lot of other fixations

[ad0rasgf]

as a lesbian i watched off campus thinking about how better the men would be if they were butch lesbians (especially logan

[ad0rasgf]

hot take and unpopular opinion but i LOVE fics where characters who are possessive of each other add another person to the relationship/share each others

im reading a fic that is absolutely AWESOME and i reaaally wanted to become something more like that but its okay the fic is still amazing and i love it very much

i love it when shane/ilya/lucas happens, or other character

[lonelyroommp3]

when you show up to the met gala you should immediately be faced with a panel of fashion experts and art historians before you even get to the red carpet and you have to explain your outfit choice and why it is on theme for that year’s event like you are defending a phd and if you can’t produce a coherent defence they turn you away at the door and the people of manhattan are allowed and encouraged to throw rotten produce at you as you get back into your car in shame

[fireheartwraith]

I think Kevin should get passed around between andreil and jerejean like a blunt

[ad0rasgf]

that moment when you're almost inviting someone to your relationship

[ad0rasgf]

to sem inspo pra desenhar...... chato, acho q vou focar nas pinturas que eu abandonei em casa

[ad0rasgf]

antonio cipriano as john logan gives me gender envy

[ad0rasgf]

just a thought but my non-binary ass is watching off campus and im having big FOMO of being a college boy hockey athlete

having big gender envy i want to be big muscular and handsome boyish

[crabappels]

There really is a lot to be said about the fact Janine CHOOSES to be kind. Like she puts in the effort every day to be a good person, to not behave like her mother, to be charitable and nice and treat everyone with respect and kindness (even those who are mean to her, like Ava, or who don't always return that respect, like Barb and Melissa). & you can see it when she got sad + drunk in the last episode and tore into Ava. Like she is always choosing to not be that way... & I really respect that about her. Plus, that is a really great way to add depth to her character. I can't wait to rewatch with this in mind and see how it changes my perception of her.

[ad0rasgf]

amo ler fanfics que eu sei que vao mudar minha vida, mds amo o ao3

[ad0rasgf]

jesus amado to lendo uma fic enquanto ta lancando e nunca tive tanta ansiedade kkkkkk eu nao consigo entender qual caminho o autor ta indo com o casal, se vai virar um trisal (quero) ou se vao terminar, jesus cristo

[world-enough-and-timerogue]

my fav relationship ship dynamic is where it doesn't matter if you call it platonic or romantic or queerplatonic because they always act the same in every type of relationship. and the way they act? fucking weird.

[selfmadeheathcliff]

It’s so strange to me when people try to portray butch4femme as a heteronormative dynamic.

Do they not know a butch will cook her femme a three course meal because butches are caretakers?

A femme will stand in front of her butch at the bar, acrylics bared like a lynx, ready to cut the throat of anyone who criticises her partner’s masculinity or questions their right to space.

A butch will spend quiet nights hunched over a laptop learning how to sew and then hunched over her femme’s favourite dress, fixing it as she sleeps?

A femme will take charge and tell her butch to lie down, go and have that shower, go and get that errand done, because she knows what her baby needs?

There is nothing heteronormative about butches and femmes seeing and validating each other in a way the world refuses to. There’s nothing wrong with butches and femmes slow dancing in the speakeasy they’ve created on the kitchen tiles, the only place that’s ever been created for people like them.

[barbed-wire-butch]

@whimsigoth-femme

[clemperium]

The thing about the Drama that I have a hard time coming to terms with is the reason why Emma didn't go and commit the shooting. Everyone goes with the most uncharitable interpretation of those events; as if she didn't do it because she would no longer be "the first" one to do it in her town.

The movie shows how the shooting impacted the students at Emma's school, and Emma had to sit and take in all the reactions of those around her. The pain it caused others, how shameful it is to do such a thing, the weight of real life taken. Her not going through with it read to me less as a disappointment, and more as a wake-up call.

Before the shooting happened, her view of such events was glamorized play pretend. She was trying to make a "cool" sounding manifesto putting on silly makeup and clothes. After it happened, she was face-to-face with the real consequences that would have on the people around her, and she chose not to go through with her plan.

Charlie's interpretation of this event was the MOST uncharitable possible interpretation of how things went down and idk why his viewpoint is the one taken in this scenario.

[diamondeyes-deluxe]

My favorite thing about The Drama is Rachel's character because she reminds me of the kind of young person online who thinks the mere act of performing disgust or outrage at the morally wrong actions of someone else is somehow politically productive at all, or that it makes them a "good person."

Whenever I see someone disregard or disparage ideas of rehabilitation for people who have done (or in this movie's case, almost did) unforgivable things, I want to grab them and ask "what should be done, then?" Because, people like that do exist, in spades, and short of executing or imprisoning or Black Mirror White Bearing every person who's done or thought of doing something immoral, rehabilitation is probably the best bet for minimizing harm, right? (And if your answer to immorality IS execution or isolation... i do not think youre really the more moral one here...) But even taking out any potential empathy for the humans who do or think of doing immoral acts, sometimes, giving them the tools to lead a happy and fulfilling life are the exact thing that leads them AWAY from the potential acts of like, shooting up a school, regardless of how undeserving you think they are of that.

Its especially interesting because, in the movie, Emma had arguably done way more activism against gun violence than Rachel ever did, despite her cousin, but this means nothing. Emma's primary motivation for her planned shooting was bullying and the isolation she felt (and TCC tumblr), but it was when she found friends and real community and something else to invest her energy into, she was able to pull herself out of those dark thoughts and, like, rejoin society. And what does Rachel do when she finds out? Spreads rumors, and tries to isolate her. And, I say this not to victim blame, but to acknowledge that no one makes those big decisions in a vacuum and that understanding these things better is a NECESSITY for preventing them, which should be the fucking goal; that is exactly the kind of behavior that made her want to do that when she was 15.

[ad0rasgf]

nothing beats the feeling i had when i was reading a fake dating klance fic (dirty laundry) and when keith confesses to lance, lance REJECTS him even though lance's whole family was telling keith lance liked him too

wtf ive never been so betrayed by a fic before, but i loved it, i just dont trust authors anymore

[mortalfaerie]

listen i do like langdon but the amount of people going "why did whittaker snap at him? santos does all of those things too!" are pissing me off because here's the thing: he was homeless, broke, and having a humiliating first day in the ER, and by the end of it trinity, for all of her prickliness at times, gave him a home and offered to pay his bills for ten. months. while he finished medical school. trinity is allowed to tease him because she has shown again and again that beneath it she cares deeply about him. also, she is his peer, not his superior - they're in this together. langdon doesn't have that kind of rapport with him and he's belittling him from a place of seniority.