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[petitetimidgay-deactivated20240]

don’t start dating your crush if

the attraction is purely physical (wanting to bang them =/= romantic compatibility)

you feel pressure to change or hide parts of yourself to get them to like you

aspects of their lifestyle make you uncomfortable (i.e. alcohol/drug use, people they hang out with, etc.)

they invalidate or belittle your identity or your passions (i.e. “Bisexuality means you’re confused!” “Writing can’t be a real career!” etc.)

they never stop talking about their exes

they only talk to you to vent their emotional baggage

they routinely ignore you without explanation

they’re only interested in conversations about themselves

you put effort into getting to know them, but they don’t seem to care about getting to know you

you constantly worry about their approval or pleasing them

no matter how much you like someone, basing a relationship around worshiping or trying to fix someone or fueling an inferiority complex is unhealthy and leaves you vulnerable to toxic and emotionally draining relationships. attraction is strong and we do dumb things when we’re infatuated with someone, but please remind yourself that your own well-being should always take priority over any potential romance and run far away if anyone, especially your crush/partner, suggests otherwise.

[kingcharly]

You have no idea how much this would have saved me a year ago sweet baby jesus BOOST!!!

[evelynhug0]

oh god i should print this out

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Cope with Jealous Feelings

1. Understand what jealousy is. It’s a mixture of fear and anger – usually the fear of losing someone who’s important to you, and anger at the person who is “taking over”. Recognise that it’s a destructive and negative emotion - and often nothing good comes out of it.

2. Try and figure out why you’re feeling jealous. Is it related to some past failure that is undermining your ability to trust? Are you feeling anxious and insecure? Do you suffer from low self-esteem, or fear of abandonment?

3. Be honest with yourself about how your jealousy affects other people. Do friends or partners always have to justify their actions and thoughts, or always report on where they were, or who they were with? That kind of pressure is destructive in the end, and puts a strain on relationships.

4. Find the courage to tackle your feelings. Decide to question your jealousy every time it surfaces. That will enable you to take positive steps to manage your feelings in a healthier and more constructive way. Some possible questionsto ask yourself include: “Why am I jealous about this?”; “What exactly is making me feel jealous?”; “What or who am I afraid of losing?”; “Why do I feel so threatened?”

5. Work on changing any false beliefs that might be fueling your jealousy. Start this process by identifying the underlying belief, for example “If X leaves me, then I won’t have any friends”; “If Y doesn’t love me then no-one will ever want or love me”. Understand, that beliefs are often false – and that they can be changed through choice. If you change your belief, you change the way you feel.

6. Learn from your jealousy. Jealousy can help understand ourselves better – and teach us important lessons. For example, it’s natural to feel frightened when a relationship is new, and you don’t yet feel secure. This is normal and commonplace! Also, some people DO have a roving eye, and they may lack commitment in the longer term. Better you know that now, than later on.

7. Work on accepting and trusting yourself. That makes it easier to trust others, too, and lessens our tendency to feel jealous of others.

[adarkparasite-blog]

This is really helpful for writing jealousy too. If you know your character is jealous, why are they jealous? Make it go deeper. Take apart the jealousy, make them more angry or more scared depending on where their attentions lie. Go over these steps again, and try to apply them to your writing. It will really round out your character development wonderfully.

Jealousy isn’t one emotion, it’s a bunch mixed together.

[onlinecounsellingcollege]

How to Cope with Jealous Feelings

1. Understand what jealousy is. It’s a mixture of fear and anger – usually the fear of losing someone who’s important to you, and anger at the person who is “taking over”. Recognise that it’s a destructive and negative emotion - and often nothing good comes out of it.

2. Try and figure out why you’re feeling jealous. Is it related to some past failure that is undermining your ability to trust? Are you feeling anxious and insecure? Do you suffer from low self-esteem, or fear of abandonment?

3. Be honest with yourself about how your jealousy affects other people. Do friends or partners always have to justify their actions and thoughts, or always report on where they were, or who they were with? That kind of pressure is destructive in the end, and puts a strain on relationships.

4. Find the courage to tackle your feelings. Decide to question your jealousy every time it surfaces. That will enable you to take positive steps to manage your feelings in a healthier and more constructive way. Some possible questionsto ask yourself include: “Why am I jealous about this?”; “What exactly is making me feel jealous?”; “What or who am I afraid of losing?”; “Why do I feel so threatened?”

5. Work on changing any false beliefs that might be fueling your jealousy. Start this process by identifying the underlying belief, for example “If X leaves me, then I won’t have any friends”; “If Y doesn’t love me then no-one will ever want or love me”. Understand, that beliefs are often false – and that they can be changed through choice. If you change your belief, you change the way you feel.

6. Learn from your jealousy. Jealousy can help understand ourselves better – and teach us important lessons. For example, it’s natural to feel frightened when a relationship is new, and you don’t yet feel secure. This is normal and commonplace! Also, some people DO have a roving eye, and they may lack commitment in the longer term. Better you know that now, than later on.

7. Work on accepting and trusting yourself. That makes it easier to trust others, too, and lessens our tendency to feel jealous of others.

[adarkparasite-blog]

This is really helpful for writing jealousy too. If you know your character is jealous, why are they jealous? Make it go deeper. Take apart the jealousy, make them more angry or more scared depending on where their attentions lie. Go over these steps again, and try to apply them to your writing. It will really round out your character development wonderfully.

Jealousy isn't one emotion, it's a bunch mixed together.

[teamsharoncarter-archive]

listen

i know a lot of us are “arg no more m/f couples!”

but listen

we do need more m/f couples

just not the twig white cis emo boy with basic girl couples

what we NEED:

ones that aren’t toxic

the ones that ARE toxic be taken as toxic and not romanized and actually dealt with maturely and shows that those relationships are not healthy

overweight girl of color with most popular boy in school

trans girl with the football player

trans boy of color with girl football player

just break the basic white stick cis girl and the basic white stick cis boy normative!!!

[tweetthang96]

^THIS!!! Like, cool. I’ll take some more m/f couples, but they need to be diverse!!!!!!! I want trans guys and gals, I want people of color, I want healthy relationships!! People need to see themselves represented, and that includes all of those people who are in m/f relationships, but aren’t the “white cis guy and white cis girl” that are the current mold. Please and thank you.

[akiyty]

yup. i’m not bored with m/f, i’m bored with STOCK STANDARD m/f. shake it up and I am SO THERE

[leonerdchurchmoved]

also bisexuals and interracial relationships

[rettaroo]

And m/f couples that actually have chemistry with each other beyond “she’s really hot so i deserve to date her”

[flamefiends]

And let’s not forget to broaden our horizons and also consider polyamory!

[adarkparasite-blog]

How about some ace kids? Like asexual or aromantic hetero relationships? It'd be hella neat to have some more ace/aro representation.

I'm a slut for bi or ace m/f ships

[writing-prompt-s]

The past year of your life that you have experienced has been a dream and you have just woke up.

[adarkparasite-blog]

EVERYONE WHO REBLOGGED THIS JUST WROTE "OH THANK GOD" IM W H E E Z I N G

[silenthill]

You can only reblog this today.

[oliviacolomars-deactivated20231]

[ladedanixie]

lacroixamelie:

¿Quién es Sombra?

[creepyknees]

at last, sans babysits…i never see sans and flowey as friends (and they weren’t, at first), but there’s a lot of potential there. almost no one else is as aware of multiple timelines and how they can mess you up

[sansybones]

Oh I lovvvveee thisss!!!!

[crushthorax]

and the other one!  he’s seductively reading you his fanmail ;^)

[mercys-wife-deactivated20180515]

White people who aren’t artists: Oh my god they white washed sombra!

People of Latin heritage/Artists: 

[sixpenceee]

A compilation of dog halloween costumes too good for this earth. You can view my halloween tag here: http://sixpenceee.com/tagged/halloween/

[thenamelessmonk]

For the last one

[its-the-cinnamon-crow]

LITTLE RED RIDING HOOD AND GRANDMA OMG MY HEART

[dongsoverfaghdad]

Oooooooooow! I just died!!! 💕

[cdn-apex-predator]

quality tumblr content.

[kellpod]

I SCREAMED when I saw the spider. I didn’t realize it was a dog in a costume at first.

[shokundertale-art-blog]

youtube link 

I finally finished it <w< !! Gosh , I hope you will all like it ~~    => Audio from : http://crashboombanger.tumblr.com/ ( follows this person and go listen to all the audiot he made , he is really incredible !!) 

[kidouyuuto-deactivated20140411]

if i was a skeleton i would just say “that really rattles my bones” in response to literally everything

[artwheat]

i havent drawn this dweeb in 1000 years 

[dinomoder]

I reached 4.5k followers recently! I did a giveaway for my 4k mark but I feel like I should have done a bigger one, so here ya go. Inspired by @visor76​‘s generous LootBox giveaway they did a while back, so go give them a follow too, they are really cool!

♕ 1st Place: Overwatch Origins Edition Code (ANY CONSOLE) OR a $50 Battle.Net Giftcard ♔ 2nd Place: $20 Battle.Net Giftcard Code ⚜ 3rd Place: $10 Battle.Net Giftcard Code

☆ Winner will be drawn on November 3rd at 10 pm CST. ____ ☆ If you confront or bother the winner I will kick your ass. ____ ☆ Keep your Ask Box/Messaging OPEN so I can message you if you win. If I can’t contact you I will pick someone else. ____ ☆ No giveaway blogs. ____ ☆ You don’t have to be following this go around, though it’s greatly appreciated. You can read my ABOUT ME before following, and if I’m not your cup of tea, don’t worry about it!

☆ Likes and Reblogs both count. You can reblog as much as you want, just please be courteous and don’t spam your followers. Keep it reasonable and spread out over the course of the week if you plan to enter multiple times.

[thesylverlining]

The Most Important Undertale Realization Ever

you guys holy shit i just THOUGHT of something just now in the shower, and i let out this hellish cackle (I BEGIN TO HOLLER) so hard i almost fell over and died

ok in the pacifist ending, Papyrus is driving his sweet car, ok (good for you, sweet skeleton angel child, live ur dream)

I mean, barring the possibility that the car is stolen/acquired through illicit means (BUT THAT IS NOT A HEROIC THING TO DO!!! THE GREAT PAPYRUS WOULD *NEVER* DO SUCH A THING!!!!)

Papyrus would have had to apply for a drivers’ lisence

and take the exam

and get a TERRIBLE DRIVERS’ LISENCE PHOTO

YOU GUYS

he learned to use THE PRNDL

pap, would you like AAMMMMMMM, or FFFFMMMMMM?

[thesylverlining]

Guys

I couldn’t stop thinking about that drivers’ license photo… and then the Hey Arnold bus pass popped into my head, and.

NAME: PAPYRUS, THE GREAT

BORN: YES

#1 DRIVER

[likanth]

Tell the world that I’m

Falling from the skyyyyy~

[sansybones]

This is so rad