A Day To Be Me

A Day to be Me is a self-inspired podcast that dedicated it’s content to improve the mental health of everyone! We focus on self-help and self-improvement. We are on social media as A Day to be Me.

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Wu Wei (The Practice of Non-Doing)

Wu Wei is a simple method to practice once you understand it. It took a whole week for my buddy Alex to get me to understand the concept of Wu Wei. Wu Wei is the practice of non-doing. Once I understood what this meant, I started letting things come to me naturally and now I'm almost out of my unpleasant living situation and about to get a real taste of freedom. I've developed a healthy respect for cleaning and showering. I've developed control over my constant inappropriate jokes. Everything is going well. I started brushing my teeth and washing my face daily. I started teaching my housemates how to be more independent.

"If nothing is done, nothing is left undone." -Alex

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Stop Forcing (and Start Going With The Flow)

Stop Forcing (and Start Going With The Flow)

My buddy Alex and I have been talking for weeks over the exact same thing, stop forcing, he always told me… but what does stop forcing mean? Does it mean giving up? Instead of forcing myself to clean my room, make it messy and untidy? Only yesterday when I was at my lowest, did it finally click! First off, we have our tasks that no matter what we have to do anyway. Then we have our personality.…

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When Life Gets You Down

When Life Gets You Down

I have a girlfriend who has a boyfriend, welcome polyamory! I also have a male fiancé, but never mind that, this post isn’t about me. We went over to her boyfriend’s house (I went cause my best friend lives there too) and he treated her like crap. She’d been begging staff for two weeks to go see him and he couldn’t get his ungrateful butt off his chair and come outside to see her. I went in to…

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Whoa- You did that?

Whoa- You did that?

No Progression – I’ll Show You READ HERE I had a groundbreaking thought in my previous blog post: No Progression – I’ll Show You (you can go back to this article by clicking the button above.) In this article I was sick. I didn’t know what I was sick with until recently when I was going over my charts. The Drs. at the time told me I didn’t have covid, just a horrible nasty cold. I just went back…

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A Quick Apology...

A Quick Apology…

Dear fans and readers, this is going to be a quick apology for not being more active on the site or podcast. We’ve experienced a loss in the group (a family member of one of us passed away) and we’ve decided we’re gonna be taking a break out of respect. I am still going to be blogging, and our website will continue to display our older podcasts, so we won’t be completely standstill. I pray for…

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Relaxation

I tested out a product on Amazon called incense. It’s amazing for people who use scents to relax. I’ve tried everything in the book, from essential oils to aromatherapy and nothing compares. It comes with a holder to hold your incese while it burns. The cool thing about these, the ember is quick to sie if it touches anything, meaning fire friendly and safe. Do not use them around cats or dogs, it…

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Disorders? Don't Hide It...

Disorders? Don’t Hide It…

I’m gonna give you a list of my disorders and their strong set 🙂 Dissociative Identity Disorder Advantages of accepting the disorder: I don’t have to hide anymore. I don’t have to feel like my life is messed up with the voices and the alters and the dissociation. People who are there for me have learned to accept it, and people who judge me for it, were never for my well being in the first…

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Don't Feel Left Out... Going On Valentines Day.

Don’t Feel Left Out… Going On Valentines Day.

Some things that we all have to keep in mind are, there are people who have significant others for this holiday and there are people who don’t (even people who chose not to have a significant other). We cannot judge anyone that comes across our path, so this is for all of you out there. We’re gonna start with the polyamorous, then the couples, then the singles, and lastly the people who got…

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Keep Trying... Sometimes That's All It Takes.

Keep Trying… Sometimes That’s All It Takes.

This morning was just as incredible as last night. I mean it. I did things this morning that would take me weeks to get accomplished before. I’m definitely on a warpath. When you feel like giving up, keep trying. Because even just getting up in the morning gtakes effort. My trick is, force myself to do what I don’t want to do now and get it over with. If you push what you don’t wanna do for…

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No Progression... I'll Show You.

No Progression… I’ll Show You.

All day long my QDDP’s words swam circles in my head, You’re not progressing, there’s ben no progression. I owned those words. You’re not progressing, theres no progression. After writing my last post, I bathed-freshly shaven (I used to hate shaving), I cleaned my room-took the trash out of my room, finished the dishes for my staff (telling her “you need a break.”), started my laundry, moved my…

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Give It YOUR 100%

Give It YOUR 100%

So, some advice I took yesterday when I was at my lowest is summarized as give it YOUR 100% I was watching some TikToks about David Goggins as Alex and I were talking. I was at my lowest. You see, I’d been sleeping from 11pm all the way till 4pm the next day, repeated every day. It wasn’t getting better. When I got told I’d been making no progress by my higher up who keeps track of all my goals,…

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Monthly Updates: January 2022

Monthly Updates: January 2022

Changed website color theme to New Years (we do a new color theme every month)Changed colors of text that weren’t showing up very well on HomepageAdded new pagesSupporting websitesYoutube podcastsCreated three new blogsA Day to Be Me BlogCallie’s BlogUpdates Blog *Team Meeting By Tomorrow Night (New Updates Will Be Coming Soon)*

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Welcome :)

Hello, my name is Callie Kekua Weaver and this is my portion of the blog. We’re changing things up around here and I’m super excited to show you what we’ve done! You’ll be able to access our updates blog page coming soon. This being my portion of the blog, you’ll get to learn all about your website IT guy, website blogger, co-host podcaster, and much more. I’m that guy/gal! I’ll take you into a…

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Why Fight...?

Why Fight…?

All my life I’ve been a fighter. If it wasn’t about fighting my parents, it was about fighting authority, if it wasn’t about fighting authority, it was fighting the system as a whole. I’ve never woken up without something to fight for and about. But in the past hour, I’ve been thinking to myself… why fight? Why continue to fight when it’s getting me nowhere? If it’s not a life and death…

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Beautiful Death (TRIGGER WARNING-GRAPHIC)

“It is a curious thing, the death of a loved one. We all know that our time in this world is limited, and that eventually all of us will end up underneath some sheet, never to wake up. And yet it is always a surprise when it happens to someone we know. It is like walking up the stairs to your bedroom in the dark, and thinking there is one more stair than there is. Your foot falls down, through…

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Who's Gonna Sail The Ship?

Who’s Gonna Sail The Ship?

So there comes a point in our life where we’re gonna have to take control. We’re gonna have to figure things out on our own and survive in life. I was reading a blog post from someone else on the WordPress Feed and I came across the quote, “who’s gonna sail the ship?” This brought up a very wise point. When life pulls out disasters in your life, who’s gonna take the wheel and control the ship?…

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This Goes Out To My Mom

This Goes Out To My Mom

I know my mom reads my blog, so this goes out to her. Dear Mom, Mom, I am very sorry. I have made some very poor choices and I regret the things I have said to you. You’re my mom. For the people who have read my blog, the things I have said are simply not true. I accused her of abuse, when in reality she was just trying to look out for me. She’s very hard to read and I would get surprised when…

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