John(aka. The Aspy DL)

Just the blog of a DL Aspy finding his way in a world not meant for his kind. Looking to make friends among a community of similar minds and express myself more freely than society would normally allow. I have had a facination with diapers for quite some time - at least since puberty. While I used them almost exclusively for sexual pleasure in the past, they serve a much more vital role for me now. Much more importantly they serve as a safety net and a stress release valve, in addition to relieving pressure from my chronic executive dysfunction - one less worry and/or break in routine to worry about. I would also be kidding myself if I didn't mention the practical benefits - more time in my day to do things that make me happy and/or money(often both!), uninterrupted sleep, and a failsafe in case my IBS suddenly flares up, though it should be noted that since getting my stress levels under control my IBS has mostly just dissipated. As a child I was diagnosed with only ADHD in spite of overwhelming evidence that I was also on the spectrum. This evidence only grew as I grew older - while I was quite a fast learner(and still am) and read/spoke at a level well beyond most of my classmates, my handwriting remained akin to chicken scratch until 3rd-4th grade and my social skills and fine motor control would only catch up roundabouts high school(social understanding came from a psychology course). I also feel that while the learning environment was likely a good one for most people, it spent more time forcing me to conform to their standards and not enough actually letting me learn my way - an attribute which in my opinion was detrimental to my mental health during that time(though I didn't know it at the time). This changed as I entered adulthood. I had made friends with many other Aspies who had pointed out that what I had was almost certainly not just ADHD, which prompted me to research the topic myself and confirm what they say is definitely accurate. Armed with this I have strongarmed my life into an Aspy's paradise! In addition to maintaining a household which minimizes unwanted distractions and promotes creativity, so too I have chosen a career path which allows me to be me without too much masking. Whew that was a mouthful! In any case you'll find things I like here, from posts of me wearing diapers, posts about (AB)DL/omo stuff and about Autism, and the occasional writing prompt and art piece as I learn to more freely express my long repressed creative side 😁. Feel free to PM anytime and I will get back to you at some point. Notice: Anyone who PMs me and either proclaims to want to dominate me as a mommy/daddy and/or says as much in their bio will be blocked. Humans, Aspys, and other verifiably sapient animals, aliens, and AIs only please 😁.

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🤔 WHAT IF WE WERE COMPLETY WRONG ABOUT DIAPER TRAINING ?

Up until now, we have approached diaper training from a binary angle: either we struggle to get used to it, or we try to provoke a total dependence (mental or physical), I am sure that many of you dream of being incontinent to be dependent on diapers for example... Except that this vision is limited. In reality, the transition to wearing diapers permanently is not only a question of discipline or habit, but a profound transformation of sensory, cognitive and identity perceptions.

1 / Diaper training as sensory reprogramming :

Instead of forcing the body to "accept the diaper", we need to reprogram our sensory perception.

Examples : if someone changes shoes, they will initially feel discomfort before their brain integrates these new sensations as "normal" and well, it's exactly the same for diapers!

🏋️ Practical exercises :

☀️ During the day, focus on the positive sensations of the diaper (the softness, the weight, the support) 🌙 Before going to sleep, visualize yourself without a diaper and notice the emptiness it leaves. Your brain will begin to associate the absence of a diaper with a lack.

2 / Diaper training as social deconditioning.

We're conditioned from a young age to think that underwear is normal and diapers are weird. But in reality, it's just a social construct.

Imagine : If in society you had the complete choice between wearing diapers and underwear, and it's ok for diapers and a lot of people wear diapers, would you still have a block? NO! And you know what, that's what happens in reality... It's in your head that diapers aren't OK because for you there's a sexual dimension, so you make mountains out of it...

Solution : Instead of trying to hide, start changing your view of "normal."

🏋️Practical exercises :

🔍 Go out in a diaper under your clothes to a place where there are a lot of people, and see if your diaper is noticeable, and how people react... You'll realize that no one notices!

⁉️Remember that you are wearing diapers, and this is a necessity for your well-being. Just like anyone else, choose your clothes... (there are girls who wear strings and others who prefer gym boxers because they don't like the feeling of the strings, and others who wear diapers either because of their period or to feel comfortable, and they like only wear diapers)

🍼 Conclusion :

The most important aspect of diaper training isn't the discipline or the BDSM aspect (which, I grant you, is delightful), but rather the inner integration... In fact, once diapers become a matter of course rather than a challenge, then the process is complete...

Diaper training is a self-revelation.

[adl-reborn]

And as for the scientific reason WHY you should wear diapers, I present this.

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[thememedaddy]

[adl-reborn]

Correct.

Now is a perfect time to remind the world that ABDLs are typically the victims of such abuses, not the perpetrators.

[miraculouspaon]

GBBO: “A s’more is basically just an Italian merengue sandwiched between two ganache-covered digestives”

Americans:

[flange5]

in case anyone in wondering, this is Paul Hollywood's idea of a s'more

[theequeerstrian]

You know what, their absolute inability to grasp Mexican foods makes more sense every day

[ennairea]

[starlightshadowsworld]

Nodding my head in support of the Americans despite having no clue what a s’more is.

[mankillercalledbunny]

Okay, American immigrant to the UK here to explain all the mistakes from Paul Hollywood happening here: there is one fundamentally American ingredient required to make a s'more correctly but which is basically not available anywhere at all in the UK, and that is graham crackers. A plain digestive biscuit close-ish, but still a very different beast.

From Wikipedia: A graham cracker is a sweet flavored cracker made with graham flour.

The next ingredient (which is also extremely traditionally American but slightly more variable) is typically Hershey's chocolate, but you could probably swap this out in the UK with any plain chocolate bar.

Last ingredient is big marshmallows, the kind you do the chubby bunny challenge with, like the size of your thumb and twice as thick.

A proper s'more, the most traditional possible variety, involves to graham cracker squares, two slab segments of Hershey's chocolate, and one to two marshmallows depending on your preference for filling and gooeyness. You put a slab of chocolate on one of the graham cracker squares. Your marshmallows should be toasted, usually over a campfire but if you're doing them at home over a gas stove burner is fine, but the fire part is critical. You can toast them to whatever degree you like, some people like them nice and golden brown but still kind of firm in the middle, me personally? I want that bitch to CATCH ON FIRE, I want it gooey and sticky as hell in the middle, crispy and burnt on the outside. Slap that motherfucker on your graham cracker and chocolate square, top with the other one so your marshmallow and chocolate are sandwiched together by graham cracker on the outside. You do this with your freshly toasted marshmallow because ideally it will be hot enough to start to melt the chocolate so it sticks to the marshmallow and the graham cracker and, combined with the gooey marshmallow, it keeps the whole thing together, and for that reason some people will let them sit for a hot second to let the melting process happen (especially if like me you have chocolate on BOTH graham cracker squares, not just one, because you're a sugar fiend), but if you are a young child you do not have that degree of patience and you eat that shit immediately, unmelted chocolate and all. Consume your summer camp delight like a tiny club sandwich, get gooey sticky marshmallow and chocolate all over your hands, and enjoy.

Important note: this is a kids treat. It is a traditional summer camping trip dessert. It should be something any ten year old with adult supervision and access to the ingredients can make (and make a mess of). They're called s'mores because kids always "want s'more". If you are using a blowtorch, chocolate biscuits, and merengue, you are so far beyond the bounds of s'more-hood that you have thoroughly lost the plot. If you offered Paul Hollywood's concoction to an American child and called it a s'more, they'd tell you flat out that not only is it not a s'more, it looks dumb and you didn't do it right because it's not gooey.

[roach-works]

the point is the mess. the point is getting to make a food, at age seven, whose two basic food groups are 'sugar' and 'fire'. the other point is that this food item is so crumbly, chaotic, sticky, on fire, and prone to being dropped (outside, in the dark, while you are surrounded by other children who are also sticky and on fire) that your supervisors cannot accurately monitor how many smores you personally have consumed. the point is also that you may get away with a smore that is five blocks of chocolate and two marshmallows if you move fast and let nothing stop you.

if you haven't accidentally yet unrepentantly eaten a chunk of twigs or dirt or a bug that got enmeshed in the creative process around smore number 3st, you are too old to have any legitimate input into what makes a smore.

[kedreeva]

There's 2 other points that I think are important.

The first is that you don't pull the marshmallow off the roasting stick and somehow put it on the chocolate. Your staging area will look something like this, with the graham crackers and chocolate already set out (though not usually on the fire like this, for us it was always someone's lap or a picnic table or something)

And when your marshmallow has reached appropriate roasting perfection, you use the graham crackers to slide it off the stick.

and ideally, as a CHILD you are using a literal stick. Like you walked around and spent time looking for The Perfect Stick off the ground while the adults set up the fire. It has to be thin enough the marshmallow will fit, sturdy enough that it won't bow, long enough that you won't burn yourself roasting your marshmallow. And preferably doesn't have a lot of bark that's sloughing off, OR so much bar sloughing off you can peel it all back and get to the clean stick under it. If you're smart, you might stick the tip into the fire first to "wash" it/burn off anything that was still lingering, but. well, most kids don't.

When you bite in, the marshmallow and chocolate SHOULD ooze out all over you. If you don't kinda look like this eating it, you've probably done it wrong:

[figmentera]

The description of the marshmallows as being either brown on the outside but still firm on the inside or fully melted but burned on the outside is missing the true art: fully molten in the middle, without the black burns. Not to say OP is wrong for preferring the burn! But there is a technique for perfection and it goes like this:

You find a spot, not above all the logs where everyone sticks their marshmallows by default, but at the heart of the fire. Ideally between a couple logs already glowing gold. Something like here:

Below the leaping flame. Near the logs. There's probably only one or two spots good enough for this on any given fire, but that's okay because everyone else is up above. They will get their marshmallows faster. They will be either firm or burned or both. That's not your goal.

Rotate the marshmallow slowly. Ideally come in at an angle so the part closest to the flame is the side, not the tip. The spot closest to the fire is the spot that turns a crispy golden brown, and you want that everywhere, on the tip and around the circle.

You keep going, slowly turning, for several minutes. Several people will rotate in and out of the higher sections, getting their fast delight. Eventually, your marshmallow will start sagging badly, risking falling. Maybe it does fall and got start over. But eventually it will be golden brown all over, and so liquid it no longer clings to the stick. It is ready, finally.

You say "who hasn't gotten one yet?" And deposit it onto their waiting graham crackers and chocolate. You've made an excellent marshmallow. It isn't for you. Get another while you're over by the bags and go back to the heart of the fire.

That's your evening. One, slow, perfect marshmallow at a time, given to whomever still wants s'more. You're making art for children to stuff into their mouths cheerfully. You're watching the movement of the fire and the heat of the logs, like you would if you were maintaining it — maybe you would be, maybe you were the one who built it — but right now that's not the goal. Let someone else put more logs on, while you take only the one stick and find the best spot for it to live.

You will, eventually, finish a marshmallow and find that nobody moves to accept it. Maybe they're all eating right now, or maybe they've gone through so many they're hesitating. Eat your masterpiece then. Enjoy it, the hardest and most perfect result from a fun and beautiful moment. Go back in for another, until you've run out of marshmallows and the fire is too low or until even you are done with s'mores, until you have made enough.

"We don't want a gooey mess" pfft even the artistry studied at the feet of my father is inherently a gooey mess. That's the whole point!

[jssangel]

Every word of every addition to this post is both 100% true and Pulitzer Prize winning writing.

[thememedaddy]

[thememedaddy]

[thememedaddy]

[adl-reborn]

And here’s some cold hard reality for ya. The population of humans has DOUBLED since that metric was created but, for some reason, our PARENTS were much too focused on owning a fake mansion out in the suburbs. It turns out it takes LONGER to build a mansion than it does to build a HOUSE….and while building an apartment block may be unsightly, you can house hundreds if not thousands in such as dwelling.

This problem is not going to fix itself, at least not entirely. Who’s ready to get their hands dirty?

[bravetigercub]

You will never take my whimsy!!!

[socialjusticeinamerica]

[69-fastbird]

Kaitlan Collins isn’t afraid to press this baby raping piece of shit with her questions. She’s one of the few. She’s a bad ass. I have a lot of respect for her

[adl-reborn]

Like it or not, tough questions are the essence of good journalism. The problem I see is that most of these “journalists” don’t apply anywhere near the same rigour to attacking Democrats.

Another thing about good journalism - it is COMPLETELY UNBIASED.

[saywhat-politics]

The same Republicans who were hysterical when asked to wear masks to prevent the spread of COVID19 have no problem wearing masks to spread their White Nationalist Christian hatred.

[floridacub89]

And there was a video of them waving a Confederate flag. The same flag that I see at Trump rallies

[adl-reborn]

Ugg…and to think THESE are the idiots I have to put up with to deal with the existentially problematic Democrats…

**sigh** one problem at a time…have to save the Republic first before I can reform it 🙄

[vadersprincesss]

“You’re so childish.” Yeah well there’s a reason kids are happy and you’re not.

[babiest-bird]

shoutout to regressors who do things that aren't 'expected' for their age range !!

big kids and middle/teen regressors who use pacis or go padded or use kid-safe cutlery and dishes... little kids who like scary media or 'higher level' educational content or super loud angry music... big kids who wanna be coddled or listen to lullabies and watch shows like bluey... little kids who swear or wanna be independent and get their own food and drink... and everyone else !!!

i see u :3 ur valid and awesome forever!!!

[porterdavis]

How it’s done

[adl-reborn]

And yet somehow I suspect they will still be flooding into our system. I’d love to see the liberals explain THAT one.

[porterdavis]

[adl-reborn]

I’m getting rather sick of other countries making demands of the USA. How long until Trump imposes tarrifs on them to reverse this decision?

[diapersandmuscle]

Good morning, San Diego!!! Ready to hit the gym with me?

[adl-reborn]

Say, does anyone know what diaper this is?

[theconstitutionisgayculture]

We need a Crusade Pope. Not a Muslim Pope.

[theconstitutionisgayculture]

If the Catholic Church is going to survive this century it needs to purge every clergy member who thinks Islam and Christianity are brother faiths. The God of Muhammad (piss upon him) is a rapist, pedophiliac "God" of perpetual war and violent atrocity. The teachings of the Koran are directly opposed to the teachings of Christ. Islam is a death cult invented by a pedophile bandit. It's a rabid dog let loose within the walls of civilization--a civilization built by Christians and founded on Christian morals. Any clergy member, from the lowest priest right on up to the Pope, has a moral and religious duty to protect and defend Christians and Christianity against Islam. Anyone preaching appeasement or pluralism or syncretism or brotherhood with Islam is actively selling out the Christian faith, the Christian faithful, and the Christian God.

We used to burn people at the stake for lesser crimes.

[sunder-the-gold]

C.S. Lewis: “I have written into my final Narnian story a warning about deliberately equating and confusing Aslan and Tash.”

The Papacy: “It is with great enthusiasm that we announce that God and Allah are the same.”

[judarud]

[theconstitutionisgayculture]

We're already in a Holy War, genius. One that's been going since Islam was invented by a pedophile bandit 1400 years ago. Islam's goal is to convert or kill the entire world. That's why it was invented. That's its only reason for existing. That's why they attack us and blow themselves up and swarm across our borders and set up Sharia enclaves. Ignoring this is cultural and civilizational suicide.

But yeah, go on believing that this is about the Pope "speaking nicely", or whatever. I'm sure that will be great comfort when your daughters are being gang raped by the bearded savages next door because the police are scared to say mean things about the brown people.

[adl-reborn]

God and Allah may technically have the same role, but it’s pretty clear that Allah describes Lucifer’s fever dream, NOT God’s plan!

[oddoul]

welp...

[adl-reborn]