As she should

Sapphic |26| she/her. Fat Black Femme Old Kpop stan that loves anime and BL's 

[fyexo]

(INFO) D.O’s self-composed title track “Rose”, an upbeat acoustic folk song, will be released in both Korean and English.

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[sefuns]

D.O. — ’Empathy’ Mood Sampler Ver.1

[botanical-artistry]

Cottage-Core includes everyone, pt 2.

Photographer: Lynnea Fortes

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[mysharona1987]

“I am apolitical.”

Nah, I mean, you very much *are* political. You just don’t realize it.

[spideyyeet]

[sashosasho]

US Open 2020: Naomi Osaka’s important way to the Title

[rainbowkarolina]

Captain Marvel (2019) dir. Anna Boden & Ryan Fleck

[bilesandthesourwolf]

omg why did they leave this out of the movie?!?!

[rinahale]

Because men would have burst their ball sacks on the spot seeing this!

[bloomingyouths]

Portrait of Suho 🐰 ⌞ a very soft bunny!

[girldecoded]

(Uncommon) Lesbian Positivity Post

🌸 Lesbians who don’t fit in femme or butch boxes are beautiful.

🌸 Lesbians who don’t like the words qu**r or d*ke aren’t weird or “looking to be offended.”

🌸 Lesbians who use he/him or they/them pronouns are just as valid as she/her lesbians.

🌸 Lesbians who are closeted are wonderful and aren’t pretending.

🌸 Lesbians who have to deal with homophobic family are so strong and will make it through this.

🌸 Lesbians who hate the color pink because of society pushing it onto females are so valid.

🌸 Lesbians who deal with comp het aren’t fake lesbians.

🌸 Lesbians who are struggling to come to terms with the term “lesbian” because of its reputation are amazing. It takes time. It’s not a dirty word. Just give it time. It will get easier to use and you’ll eventually come to love the word.

🌸 Nonbinary lesbians aren’t any less lesbian because they aren’t cis.

🌸 Lesbians with disabilities, physical and/or mental, aren’t any less desirable.

🌸 Lesbians who have trouble attending pride events because of lack of disability access deserve more recognition.

🌸 Lesbians with anxiety are so sweet. We see you. You’re not invisible. You’re out there and so appreciated.

🌸 Lesbians who can’t afford pride stuff are so valid. I know how hard it is to be seen and find love. There’s an app called wish you can use for it. It’s very cheap. Like 1-5$ for pride stuff.

🌸 Lesbians of color are so beautiful. White, flannel wearing, straight haired girls shouldn’t be the defining face of lesbianism. Often times that’s what comes to mind to straight people and those are the characters put in lgbt shows. There should be more representation for you beautiful girls.

🌸 Lesbians who separated from religion partially or wholly due to their identity are so strong. It’s so hard to say goodbye to religion, especially if you still believe in a god/gods.

🌸 Lesbians who fall in love fast are so lovely.

🌸 Lesbians in general: ❤️🧡💛💚💙💜

[fashionweeksfaves]

Alberta Ferretti Spring 2021

[berrycobbler]

shut up dark academia bitches when megan thee stallion said “im a freak bitch handcuffs leashes switch my wig make him feel like he cheating” that was more smart and meaningful than anything oscar wilde wrote in his entire life

[go-insane-its-magnus-bane]

Donald Trump testing positive for COVID 19

[sleepythug]

*chef kiss*

[itxylopez]

[adoremelody]

Alright it’s been a long time coming, but I’m Coming Out. I have to admit it was a process to realize I was a lesbian. It felt more like putting the last piece of the puzzle into the bigger picture. Satisfying, but sorta anticlimactic. (That’s how I picture completing a puzzle is anyway)

I don’t even want to say this because I have irl friends who may still follow me on this blog. However, I have to say this because I need to get this out. I won’t go into explicit details so don’t worry.

Usually I’m slow to gaining confidence. However, I’ve never felt so sure about something. It just clicked perfectly and I felt like I could finally breathe.

I had been trying to prove that I wasn’t a lesbian to people who literally didn’t care if I was because I didn’t want to be anymore different than I already was. I was a dark skin black girl who grew up in a predominantly white & Asian community standing at 5’9... and I’m fat. I stuck out like a sore thumb and I wanted so badly not to. Despite being told over and over by my suspicious mom that she’ll love and accept me no matter who I love, I still felt I had to reject that being a possibility.

In high school, where I desperately wanted to lay low, I ignored my sexuality. I had a group of friends and we shared niche interests and we never had talks about relationships or dating.

By the time I got to university I started exploring who I was as a person, what I liked what I didn’t like etc typical college stuff. Again I never really questioned my sexuality until my friend circle started dating. I started taking Gender study classes to learn about the LGBTQ+ community and also myself by the time I was 20. I was so unsure and had such low self esteem and confidence that I didn’t even attempted to date until I was 21. News Flash: it was a shit show.

I went through so many labels. Asexual, ace-romantic bisexual, and ace pansexual. I even read the “Am I a Lesbian” master doc several times over the years before I admitted to myself I am in fact a lesbian. Literally a month ago. At 25 years old.

I have a lot of time to think due to the pandemic and I don’t want to spend whatever time I have left on this earth lying about who I am. I’m out of the school now and I just feel more confident. I am who I am and some people may not like it, but I refuse to make myself smaller again.

I might be a little late, but I’m happy I got to this point.

TL;DR: older? lesbian finally comes out because she was insecure asl she’s good now.

[anxietyproblem]