Beautifully Brutal Intentions

Rolequeer heavy bottom based out of the District. Into novelty, raw & unchecked will, and fingers on the back of my neck.  Following people who smash expected & modeled behaviors. Trying to reblog the same when I can. I'm agnostic about the perceived genders represented in what I reblog; it gets posted for what I read into the power dynamic, not who is in it. Some of these pictures are of me; they're the ones tagged #arrogantslut. FetLife: ArrogantSlut

[afraidtowant]

So hey I know I haven’t posted in a while and it’s in the sidebar, but arrogantslut on FL.  Come say hi please.  You’ve all been great.

[singlesenseaudio]

Them: why are you so irritable today?

My inside voice: because the place where I could connect to kink communities in ways I otherwise couldn’t, where my attention deficient brain could easily find record and share content, find validation for an aspect of myself that is usually hidden, make actual friends, feel like I’m almost on the periphery of a community instead of solidly being on the outside, and where I enjoy nipples of all presentations is ruining everything.

My outside voice: I’m not irritable. Shut up.

[royb8771]

You are not alone in your feelings

[wide-awaaaaake]

Alternatives to Tumblr if Yahoo goes any further

Soup.io - well-known alternative to Tumblr. Reblogging, post types, themes, collab blogs, dashboard, artsy, great community already there. Soup can auto-import everything you’ve posted on Tumblr.

TypePad - Includes reblogging. Dashboard and post types similar to Tumblr.

Jux - Artful posts, beautiful blogging experience

[bollymusings]

Reblogging cause one day it just may be neccessary.

[arubbishmedic]

It became necessary

[wipr0n]

At the feet of the King

[orangesavannah]

Stitches [Goretober 07]

[nothin-gness-deactivated2024102]

[companyofthecourtesan]

Saturday night.

[afraidtowant]

Thinking about you, @shehulkinseattle.  Miss you & looking forward to exhausting each other again some time.

[dommedesu]

my first domme thought edging was where you had sex whilst balancing precariously on the side of furniture

Please tell me this is fake 

The mental image of two people rutting away whilst fearing for their lives as they’re about to fall off a table and hit their head against something has me dying of laughter

[afraidtowant]

**deepest snort**

[bellaberghoef]

[ifcrueltyhadaname]

“Boys don’t get ‘wet’.”

“Do they not?”

[thesharpedgeoflonging]

[marquiseoftease]

Have a laugh, it’s hump day !

[workinonit69-deactivated2019102]

Lol, thanks for that!

[coffeeorcusswords]

Perfect.😁

[handslave-deactivated20190120]

Ha ha, thats nice!

[atinycosmo]

Of your eyes, begonia skies like a sleepyhead

they/he

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[murhaaya]

Dripping dildo 2

[murhaaya]

Dripping dildo 3

[queeranarchism]

BDE

I can’t really imagine body-positive activists saying that ‘anyone can have skinny energy’ or ‘anyone can have clear skin energy’ and thinking that’s progressive, so how are the same people so comfortable with their ‘lol anyone can have big dick energy’ and think that doesn’t reproduce existing notions about which genitals are good and which are shameful?

Like, I get that it’s all a joke and that a big part of the joke is that ‘big dick energy’ is not related to anyone’s actual genitals and that it challenges toxic masculinity, but it still ascribed positive values to the concept of a big dick and negative values to the concept of a small dick.

Vox put it this way pretty accurately:

Reducing men’s worth to their bodies is not harmful in the same way that it is harmful to do the same to women: one of the ways that the patriarchy systemically oppresses women is by reducing them to their bodies. Joking about big dick energy does not reinforce systemic sexism. What it does do is reinforce a system of masculinity that eventually leads to toxic masculinity.  The dick part of BDE is just a metaphor, but that metaphor is not value-neutral.

When I remember previous activist failures (remember the horrible ‘Trump with a micropenis’ statue?), this is just another reminder that a lot of activists are happy to mock men’s bodies without considering how that reinforces toxic masculinity and will throw the self-worth of fat men, trans men, intersex men, etc. under the bus the moment there is a chance to joke about a big or a tiny penis.

So, ya know, I’d be very happy to see this thing disappear again ASAP and I’ll side-eye anyone who uses it while describing themselves as ‘body-positive’.

[ev0nne]

“Shall I compare thee to a cheese’s cake?

Thou art less crusty, and more decadent…”

#compareyourselftoacheesecake2016

[softandhardfan]

[bzork]

Hypnotic triggers aren’t about changing the actual, they’re about making things possible. They should be subtle displays of power as well as powerful displays of subtlety.

Making a guy come on demand is boring: either he’s already there (in which case, why the trigger? — why not use his body’s inbuilt processes of incentivization and control instead?) or he isn’t, and who likes ejaculating cold?

Making a guy hard is better: an erection is pure potential, as every boy knows.  But again: if you need hypnosis to thicken him with a word, you’re doing it wrong.

One can hypnotically induce sensation: warmth, taste, scent, pleasure.  An improvement, yet much too showy.  Hypnosis at its best subverts not mere sentience but sapience.  Pavlovian responses are less interesting than those which depend on collusion with the higher faculties.

Wake him with a text message that reads ‘Diluvium’.  He’ll ponder it for a while, interrogate his senses, look for obvious effects.  He’ll eventually have to give up and go about his morning routine, because you’ve not changed the way he feels.  Rather, you’ve altered his capacity for feeling — as he will discover when his body shows him its newfound erogenous relationship with falling water.

[the-show-last-wednesday]

[paradisoestremo-deactivated2019]