I’ve seen people on here rail separately against calling male characters babygirls and calling female characters little guys, and while I think they’ve correctly identified a problem (“girl” has sexual or demeaning or childish connotations while “guy” is an example of masculine-as-neutral-default) I don’t think the answer is to get more essentialist in our language use but rather to freak it up more. he’s just a little gal. she’s my sweet baby boy. she’s my boyfriend. he’s my special girlie. she’s my beautiful husband.
The craziest thing is seeing ppl be like but I have to buy stuff. To be a fan I have to buy it. Or else I'm not supporting the artist :( like oh my god no you dontttttttttttt all these motherfuckers will still be rich this isn't a guy selling his cd while busking be serious
