For Those of Y’all who need this <3
You. Yes you, reading this post. I am proud of you. Yes, despite your flaws. There are still things to be proud of and live for. If you are hurting, talk to someone sweetie. Even your online pals. Just sharing and spilling your beautiful feelings is a healthy way to cope. It doesn’t matter whether or not you are fat or skinny, have a mental illness or just don’t fit in with the world. None of us were made to fit in. We were all made to stand out and be ourselves. Live our own lives, and explore our passions and desires. To be ourselves and never doubt that we are anything below perfect. This may seem like a fever dream to many reading this, but I learned that in just a few simple words, you can change someone’s mind. You can inspire people. You can change the world. And if you want to change the world, you have to be the good change. Not the bad change. Yes, there will always be people that pull you down, and make you feel like you are drowning in a sea of hopelessness. But there is still hope. For you. For me. For everyone struggling with mental health or other issues. No matter what, it will always be important how YOU see YOURSELF at the end of the day. Not how others peering in from the outside see you. Set boundaries, explore your hobbies, defy the odds and prove the haters wrong. Like you are supposed to do. Harming yourself (in any way) is like ripping a petal off of a flower. And once you rip all of the petals off, what is left? Nothing but the stem. And a stem can only stand for so long before it gets squashed. The world makes it hard, but you have the power to change your mood and to change your point of view. You have the power to be stronger, to be your authentic self. Think about it: Why are you here? To thrive. To be YOU. This is only the beginning, sweetheart. You can live and be happy. Because you, whoever you are, wherever you came from, and whatever you are. You are a beautiful and unique individual who doesn’t fit into the stereotypical manners of society, and that is completely OKAY. We are humans, not robots, darling. I want you to grab some paper, a pencil a pen. Or open the Notes App on your phone. Or even Google Docs. Or even this app and reply to this post with it. By writing down things you dislike and like about yourself. Whatever those may be. And name REASONS why you like and dislike those things. Look back at the dislikes, and think: Is this me being pessimistic and doubting my abilities, or is this an actual flaw of mine that I can improve? And have that growth mindset. Because no matter what, no one deserves to feel like they can’t speak up. To feel trapped. To feel like they can’t get better. Because you can get better. And change and recovery is possible, even in this messed up world. ❤️
I am making it my goal to inspire as many people as possible. To help as many people as possible. To care for as many people as possible. To show people that there is still light in the world. I am offering a safe spot for those dealing with horrible feelings of pain and harshness. A community here on Tumblr, hopefully YouTube and if you join I will start up a Discord Server to help the struggling beauties in this world. Please know that you are loved, you are appreciated. You are valid. Your identity, hobbies, pronouns, height, weight, origin. Those make you YOU. And there is nothing to be ashamed of, darling. Because we are all different.
But that is what makes us all special. 💜
(Message me here on Tumblr, or on my Discord Acc that_one_aakaria)
I love you all ❤️
