@alaysi - Tumblr Blog

the way the term pickme is weaponized against women who criticize misogynistic compulsive beauty standards is genuinely evil . you think I’m anti makeup and shaving because I want to get approval from a MAN ? You think most men love when women stop partaking in coercive patriarchal rituals??????

#it’s almost as if it is the women policing each other and not the men

jennywtheglock

then vs. now: Emily at The BAU 2.10 -> 19x10

#😛😛😛😛#criminal minds #paget brewster

radiant-spirit-guardians

remember how for a brief period back in the 2010s the message was that clothes/voice tone/mannerisms don't define you or hint at your sexuality at all and straight men could wear glitter eyeshadow and still be straight men and that it wasn't right to say "you look like a lesbian" to women who didn't wear makeup and preferred practical clothes? or did I hallucinate it all? because now there's this added layer of gender bullshit we have to contend with on top of it. calling others slurs and saying they're zesty & fruity was done by both homophobes and spicy straights who felt the need to reclaim those slurs, but now you just get called an egg if you fail to perform certain gender roles. girl brain boy brain crap. they're as obsessed with gender roles and stereotypes as their parents and grandparents.

"oh my god I didn't know this person was straight they dress/act/speak sooo gay" i'm going to kill you i'm gonna do it "or maybe their egg is about to crack" i swear to fucking god the only thing cracking here will be your skull

sandmandaddy69

wutheringdyke

Cher photographed by Larsåke Thuresson in Stockholm, 1966.

#cher

oldpaintings

Knight at the Crossroads, 1882 by Victor Mikhailovich Vasnetsov (Russian, 1848–1926)

#victor vasnetsov #paintings #nice

ymutate

Hiroo Isono (1945–2013) was a Japanese painter and illustrator

#hiroo isono #nice #paintings #minner om nabobarna #serien lizm

drops-of-universe

i be like “never again” and guess what i did? agained

spicyraeman

“hes a woman to me” IS HE? or are you equating women with submissive character traits you've arbitrarily put on a random man

aoelustious

“he’s a woman to me” “ummm isn’t that kind of misogynistic? are you equating womanhood with submission—”

BARK BARK BARK BARK BARK BARK BARK sorry i couldn’t hear you over the sound of me putting a fictional man in a slutty apron and calling him mommy. sorry. i was too busy hand-feeding him strawberries and then writing 12k of emotional devastation and domestic porn. sorry i gendered him like a little fucked up doll in a victorian nursery.

YES. HE’S A WOMAN TO ME. HE’S A HOUSEWIFE. HE’S A HIGH-FEM BRAT. HE’S A PRETTY LITTLE THING WHO GETS RAWED IN THE MOONLIGHT AND MAKES SOFT WHIMPERS AND BAKES BREAD TO COPE. AND I DO NOT CARE IF IT MAKES SENSE.

HE IS MADE OF TROPES. HE IS MADE OF VIBES. HE IS MADE OF GLITTER AND TEARS AND POST-WAR PTSD. HE IS WHATEVER THE FUCK I WANT. HE IS NOT A MAN. HE IS NOT A WOMAN. HE IS A TRAGEDY IN LACE.

you’re talking about “misogyny” like i didn’t just write a fic where he gets folded in half by a feral beast of a love interest and then cries because he’s “too used to not being touched gently.” BABE. THERE IS NO DIGNITY HERE. ONLY CATHARSIS.

your academic thinkpiece cannot survive the heat of my horny little monkey brain. you want to talk about gender roles?? I WANT TO PUT HIM IN A COLLAR. I WANT TO GIVE HIM A GENDERCRISIS VIA DICK. I WANT TO MAKE HIM THE MAID AND THE MUSE AND THE MADONNA.

and also? sometimes i call him a manwhore for getting railed twice in one chapter and still being emotionally unavailable. because HE DESERVES IT. because I SAID SO. because it’s FUNNY and UNHINGED and that’s the POINT.

you are not fixing the world. i am not breaking it. we are both feral rats arguing over a Barbie doll in a trench coat. take your discourse and go. i’ve got work to do. i’m about to make him lactate out of spite.

ex-riddlecats

this is already an absolutely tone-deaf and borderline transmisogynistic response but i think it gets even more jawdropping when your blog makes it really obvious youre talking about alexander hamilton

#thid is so funny #I wish he were alive now and could see this😞

apoemaday

Not Anyone Who Says

by Mary Oliver

Not anyone who says, “I’m going to be careful and smart in matters of love,” who says, “I’m going to choose slowly,” but only those lovers who didn’t choose at all but were, as it were, chosen by something invisible and powerful and uncontrollable and beautiful and possibly even unsuitable — only those know what I’m talking about in this talking about love.

#mary oliver #words

redhairandpronouns

yall are so fucking weird about gnc people. a woman wears a suit and she's "conforming to the patriarchy". a man wears a skirt and he's Secretly A Trans Egg. have you considered It's Fabric