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Would you date an eighteen year old. I wanna know if I have a chance 🥰

Fuck no. I’m in my thirties. You’re eighteen. To me, you’re a goddamn kid.

And while we’re here… some of you need to stop romanticising grown men chasing eighteen-year-olds.

I don’t care that it’s “legal.” If you’re a man in your thirties whose dating pool starts the day someone turns eighteen, I think that’s creepy as hell.

Have some standards. Have some self-control. Have enough respect for young women to let them actually become women before you start inserting yourself into their lives.

If I had an eighteen-year-old daughter and some motherfucker my age showed up trying to date her, we’d be having a VERY serious conversation. And trust me, he wouldn’t leave that conversation wondering where I stood.

And if you’re eighteen, stop putting older men on a pedestal. The right man for you isn’t the one who’s excited that you’ve just become legal. That’s not something I’d ever admire.

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paper-wounds

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The wounds we are dealt with still spring a day, a month, a year, ten years later. The scars will still open, and we will never truly forget, but we can heal, not completely, but enough to say, "its been great recently"

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𝔱𝔥𝔢 𝔰𝔪𝔢𝔩𝔩 𝔬𝔣 𝔠𝔬𝔣𝔣𝔢𝔢 𝔦𝔫 𝔰𝔲𝔪𝔪𝔢𝔯

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Prophesy time? 1/8 parts Tynwyn Anatole Yves

"A flame that shall melt the snow when stoked with the order. The child of light that has came from a linage of dark that shall combat that which seeks to harvest from the destitution of its cruel wake. The blinding star that shall bring fourth the warmth of autumnal glades to liberate those under a feigning king. They shall be given the title the Nialingourd. The name weighing heavy on the heads of those who wish harm"

Tynwyn is the Non-binary, Demi-romantic Asexual MC of my main novel series, The Coniferous Archives. They are an academia based character, often expressing there love of writing, art, and education while dealing with the unwavering urge to call out the Patriarchal Monarchy issue of a neighboring kingdom that is actively harming and oppressing those that either don't agree or are different enough from said monarchy, including Queers, Woman, or those of other races or species. They follow a philosophy of Altruism, wanting to help and protect everyone, simply to see others happy. This has lead to them negating their own needs just to help others, who they knew would not do the same.

Due to this, they are a very anxious and depressed character, and throughout the series, is seen to experience suicidal ideation, that prevents them from doing things their peers tend to engage in.

alexiconoflove

"I don’t even know what I’m writing, I have no idea, I don’t know anything, and I’m not reading over it, and I’m not correcting my style, and I’m writing just for the sake of writing, just for the sake of writing more to you… My precious, my darling, my dearest!"~Fyodor Mikhailovich Dostoevsky

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Prophesy time? 1/8 parts Tynwyn Anatole Yves

"A flame that shall melt the snow when stoked with the order. The child of light that has came from a linage of dark that shall combat that which seeks to harvest from the destitution of its cruel wake. The blinding star that shall bring fourth the warmth of autumnal glades to liberate those under a feigning king. They shall be given the title the Nialingourd. The name weighing heavy on the heads of those who wish harm"

Tynwyn is the Non-binary, Demi-romantic Asexual MC of my main novel series, The Coniferous Archives. They are an academia based character, often expressing there love of writing, art, and education while dealing with the unwavering urge to call out the Patriarchal Monarchy issue of a neighboring kingdom that is actively harming and oppressing those that either don't agree or are different enough from said monarchy, including Queers, Woman, or those of other races or species. They follow a philosophy of Altruism, wanting to help and protect everyone, simply to see others happy. This has lead to them negating their own needs just to help others, who they knew would not do the same.

Due to this, they are a very anxious and depressed character, and throughout the series, is seen to experience suicidal ideation, that prevents them from doing things their peers tend to engage in.

Friendly warning.

DON'T ask minors for pictures if you barley know them. I can understand asking a minor, that js a close friend or family member for picture, but not someone you JUST met. It makes you come of as a groomer.

This should be common sense

#common sense #use your brain

sweetd3lights

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I should write a poem about this soon.

Helping the hurt (reach out)

You can't save someone from an pain they must endure themselves. The most you can do is be there for them, let them know that they are not alone, that you love them, That there pain is not something to hide, and that everything they are feeling is valid. To love someone is to sit with them in there darkest moment, and provide a shoulder for them the sob against, even if its figrative.

As someone who has lost a friend to depression, it is important that everyone knows just how loved they are. I would rather have a tear stained suit and a best friend, than a perfect one and a funeral.

It is important to remember you cannot save someone if you don't first save yourself. but what you can do is sit, and hurt together. The weight of pain is lighter with someone to hold it with.

if you have a close friend who is hurting, please, show them they are loved. Invite them to hang out, or call them late at night. Small acts can save a life.

As always, my dm's are open if you need someone to talk to. I know how it feels to hurt, you are never alone.