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@all-intp-mbti
This may not matter to y'all but my sister finally took the mbti test and she turned out to be an ENFP - T and I'm so happy because I knew she had xxFP.
I'm an INTP - A.
Eyyy my sister is an ENFP and I’m an INTP! She and I are practically attached at the hip!…. Okay so maybe I just like to invade her personal space constantly….
I’m stuck in a state of knowing that I need to do something, not wanting to do it so I think about things that I do want to do, but then I feel guilty and stressed about not doing the thing that I really need to do, so I ultimately end up doing nothing at all.
0/10 would not recommend
Still relevant over a year later, except this time about dealing with my first apartment (moving in 4 days, woo!), taxes, school stuff…. Last time was just sending an email 😂 Yeah, I’ll never learn. Procrastinator at heart
“I didn’t know what to say and now it’s been so long any reply I make will be 1000x worse”
Oh man. This hits hard. I have an email I’ve been sitting on for a few weeks now and I feel terrible for even thinking of trying to reply to it now 😅
Why do I attract manipulative people, I have no friends for this reason. Met a guy online in a video game (off to a bad start already, and as a girl in a video game I’m used to guys being weirdos but he wasn’t) and we hit it off pretty good- he ended up getting my number out of me after being super persistent and borderline manipulative but I didn’t want to think the worst. Well now I’m starting to feel he may be that way, I told him I don’t like talking on the phone- yet he stills says I should call. He said “if you really want to talk to me call me.” Like uh ok who are you?? I’m not gonna be told what I really want to do. The words “if you really” just switch a red flag. He thinks I have a crush on him, he thinks I think he’s the most coolest smoothest guy around, news flash I’m an INTP I FIND ROMANCE DISTURBING AND CATS ARE FOREVER COOLER THAN ANY MAN IVE MET. I’m forever debating whether or not I should let this guy into my life or not, the what if’s are never ending. I’m so content with being alone, and when I meet people like this I just feel driven further into isolation. I hate not knowing what to do or who to trust, I don’t think I can trust him at this point. He uses his words strategically, not honestly. This is what worries me, I’ve been naive in the past but not today, I won’t be toyed with by another person. If I am analyzing this too much Idc is rather be cautious then get involved with someone who thinks they can control me.
As some who has dealt with some bullshit people and let people walk all over her when she was younger—are they worth it in the long run? If someone actually cared about you, they wouldn’t actively make you feel uncomfortable when you’ve directly told them that you don’t like speaking on the phone. It’s just a phone call now, but I agree that it’s a red flag for future issues. Now, if he wanted to help you to start being okay with being on the phone and you were willing, sure, that sounds nice, but that’s not what it sounds like.
In the end, go with your gut! Even with how cool and interesting some people are, they’re not always worth the hassle, not when they cause you any unnecessary stress and anxiety.
(A friend of mine just went through this issue with a really manipulative boyfriend and I thank the earth that she finally listened to me and some other friends about getting out of that situation.)
Ahhh thank you for the response it really helped! I ended up cutting him off, he continued to be insensitive and only nice if it were in his favor or he could use it to get something from me. I could see how manipulative and narcissistic he was but I hate conflict so I was being nice and not trying to upset him, then I woke up. Time to stop being pushed around by people, I’m done being an easy target. I learned something from this though and I want to let any other person out there who might see this- if you have even the slightest feeling the person you’re talking to is not trustworthy or is being manipulative, please do yourself a massive favor and get out of that quick.
I’m glad to have helped and even though I don’t know you, I’m so proud of you!! Learning your own self worth and cutting off people is a lesson I’ve found to be the hardest thing to have learned thus far in my short 21 years of life, but now that I’ve finally gotten to the point, I feel so much better about myself and the relationships that I keep. Especially as someone who is probably over-empathetic, I hated thinking that I’m inconveniencing someone or offending them, but like I said, no one is worth the anxiety and stress.
Also to anyone who needs to read this: cutting off people like this is not an easy thing to do. It may feel impossible now, you may feel like you’re stuck in a relationship/friendship, but when you’re ready, there’s a world of people out there to meet who will be well worth your time. Sometimes we just happen across really awful people and learn some hard life lessons that make you value the right people. Stay strong and you’ve got this!!
Me and my (currently) 68 tabs are laughing XD
When I’m doing copious amounts of research for a paper in which I’m turning in drafts every two weeks, therefore these tabs have quite literally been open for a month. My only regret is that I can’t remember what half of the articles even said. Maybe I should start writing annotated bibliographies to figure out what the hell is going on... but that also seems like a lot of effort that I don’t feel like giving out.
Shrug.
My entire life condensed into one sentence.
We are the smart ones and nice ones.
Wait a second, there’s something wrong here. Let me correct it.
Better.
the MBTI types as multiple people i know
INTJ:
-has the emotional intensity of a potato
-just lost in general
-communism jokes
-Actual Satan ™ (and proud of it)
-really intelligent and talented in academic fields or art
-probably has sex with the concept of math
ENFP:
-energy for days
-absolutely no chill
-if they call you they will talk for 12 hours straight (you cannot escape)
-falls in love with literally anything
-a fool
-atleast a bit gay
ENFJ:
-also zero chill
-secretly a nerd
-an active tinder user
-can go from 0 to 100 real fast
-perfect instagram feed
-probably bi
INFP:
-The Purest Person ™ on this planet
-just trying their best
-great aesthetic
-protect them at all cost
-smart but wont admit it
INFJ:
-enough feelings to share to five INTJs
-seriously, no one needs to feel that much, okay?
-also has zero chill but hides it and explodes on the inside
-laughs at funny birds
-people might think that they have their shit together but in reality they have no idea what they’re doing
INTP:
-nerd
-fueled by memes
-is actually watching youtube videos when claims to be studying
ISTP:
-nerd, but likes to snowboard
-fueled by bad tumblr memes
-never studies
ENTJ:
-thinks they’re always right
-gets offended when someone tries to ask about their feelings
-very independent
-a fridge full of alcohol
-questionable morals
ESFP:
-just wants everyone to have a great time
-creates drama for themself just for the fun of it
-a mess but still somehow manages to survive in life
-cares alot about their friends
Ehhh don’t call me out like that 😂
INTP the Chameleon
Unlike most people, INTPs do not come pre-programmed with acceptable social behaviour patterns. Rather, they learn to fit in through conscious observation and deliberate mimicry.
While other people talk, the INTP watches and wonders. They observe what a person did and figure out what they should do as a response. Widening their sight, nodding, and smiling, the INTP responded with a fake social skill.
Like actors on a stage set, INTPs are playing a role. They know that being true to themselves doesn’t fit too well with average people, they slowly accumulate a little acting knowledge to help them get by.
INTPs could be described as a human chameleon or a mirror. If a person is friendly, funny, boisterous, and waves their hands around a lot, the INTP will start gesticulating, speak in a louder voice, and smile and joke more to match the other’s behaviour. And when the person is finally gone, they will turn into their typical self which often is silent, aloof and nonchalant, and slowly cocoon themselves inside their room.
Most of the time this mimicry is unconscious and is basically the result of playing a role deeply enough that it becomes embedded. Chameleons don’t have to think about changing their skin colour to match leaves and branches–it just happens.
Not that INTPs are good actors. They only act because they have to, and only put forth as much effort as is required to get by. An INTP, for example, does not have a giant palette of varied emotional responses that seem totally genuine. Instead, they are controlling their bodies like a puppet-master controls a puppet, and the resulting clumsy imitation of reality is just not lifelike. But it’s enough to get by, as long as there isn’t too much pressure.
If the pressure increases or the situation warrants it, however, an INTP will switch back to their regular selves for as long as necessary, perhaps stunning their acquaintances with a display of cool, clear, cogitant reasoning.
(The secret life of INTP- Anna Moss)
Gosh, this couldn’t be more true. People think INTPs are socially inept, happy loners—while some of us may like being alone, some have incredibly high EQ, capable of blending in with the group.
When I first meet people, I’m noticeably quiet, particularly because I’m listening to you and observing your body language to best reciprocate and make you feel comfortable enough talking to me.
MBTI personality types as ancient Greek gods and godessess
ESFJ Aphrodite (Ἀφροδίτη): Born out of the foam of Uranus’ (God of sky) castrated parts that his son, Titan Cronus, had thrown to the sea. Thus, she emerged from the Ocean in all her beauty and grace and all the water Nymphs and all the Winds came to bow before her. Goddess of love and beauty, of pleasure and of passion as she was, all the men desired her and all the women envied her graces. She married Hephaestus, she desired Ares and she loved Adonis. One could always glimpse her winged son, Eros, god of desire, flying above her as she would’ve often whispered to his ear the next mortal whose his heart was about to be shot by Eros’ arrows.
ENFJ Apollo (Ἀπόλλων): God of light, of sun, of music, of poetry, of truth, of knowledge and protector of the arts. He was everything and he knew it all. People worshiped him all over the known world and build him the most gracious and marvelous temples and oracles, where sunbeams would make the white marbles shine as bright as the sun. In return, Apollo through the voice of gifted diviners would reveal to them what would the future hold. He played his lyre and his daughters, the Muses, would come over from the valleys to accompany his sweet melodies. He loved and protected the young as he, himself, remained a young man forever. He was a healer, but if the mortals were to infuriated him, he would bring the greatest of the plagues on them.
ISFP Artemis (Ἄρτεμις): Twin sister of Apollo as they where both children of Zeus and Leto. Quieter and humbler by nature than her twin brother, she found her call in the deep forests, the mountains and the moon. She befriended all the living things of the wild and devoted herself to their protection. Always bearing a bow in the hand and a handful of arrows on her back, she would hunt in the forests, but she’d never become violent, always honoring her prey. Although she took an oath to remain a virgin, young Orion became her hunting companion and he managed to win her heart. Their love was never meant to blossom, as Artemis shot Orion with an arrow by accident and killed him.
ESTP Ares (Ἄρης): Son of Zeus and Hera as he was, he would grow to become a forceful and a fearful one. Gifted with great physical strength and an everlasting blood lust, he excelled in the battlefields and become a soldier model for the Spartans. He was Aphrodite’s secret lover and together they had many children like Eros, who followed his mother, and Deimos (god of terror) and Phobos (god of fear), who both followed Ares as his warfare companions. The other gods tended to avoid him and on the great Trojan war he was on the losing side, therefore triggering Zeus’ anger towards him. Later, the Romans acknowledged his military intelligence and worshiped him by the name of Mars.
ESTJ Athena (Ἀθηνᾶ): If someone contrived to impersonate the essence of the ancient Greek spirit, it would look like her. It does not surprise that she was goddess of wisdom, handicraft and warfare as well. All three basic elements of the city that she fought with Poseidon for, thus founded and gave it her name, Athens. Athena always wore a helmet, brandished a spear and kept her shield with Medusa’s head on it (that Perseus had gifted to her for helping him in murdering that marine beast) by her side. Legend has it that she was born fully armored from Zeus’ forehead. However, Athena would never initiate an unreasonable, blood spilling war against her enemies like Ares would do. Wise and strategic as her mind was, Athena favored those with strength and bravery, like Hercules and Perseus, with courage and valiance, like Bellerophon and Jason, as well as those with a sharp mind, like Odysseus, aiding them in multiple ways.
ENTJ Poseidon (Ποσειδῶν): He is known as the sea god, but in fact there was not an element that wouldn’t bow to his will. Poseidon was ruler of the seas, the rivers and all the running waters. He was commander of the earth, the soil, the storms and the mighty earthquakes. He was protector of the noble horses and, as many say, he was the true king of Atlantis. Although he lost supervision of Athens to Athena, the Athenians didn’t forget his volition to become their guardian and they worshiped him almost as much as her. They build him a magnificent temple on the windy top of Cape Sounion, where the waves of the great Aegean sea would crush the rocks beneath it. Poseidon would often help seafarers reach their destination safe and sound. Damn those who would dare sail without a sacrifice to his name for appeasing the tides. A tremendous storm created by a swing of his trident would crash their ship to an unknown land or, even worse, he would drag them all the way down to his wet kingdom.
ENTP Zeus (Ζεύς): The father of the Gods wasn’t an easy one. As every king that walked the earth, the sea or the skies before and after him, he was whimsical, temperamental and stubborn as a bull. In fact, there were times that he would take the form of a real bull or an eagle, a swan, a bear, a serpent, a flame or even a shower of gold, always to seduce a new love interest of his own. Europa, Cassiopeia, Leda, Alcmene and Ganymede are just a handful of all the women and men he desired and approached while transformed into a creature of beauty, with the sole intention of sleeping with them. It’s no wonder that his wife, Hera, was always mad at him, thus she was the only one that ever managed to scare him a little bit. However, he was Father of everyone and everything. Mortals should not forget that without Zeus, the world would still be at the hands of his tyrannical father, Titan Cronus, whom Zeus with the help of his brothers and sisters managed to overthrow. Thus, he became the true ruler of the skies, bearer of the thunder and enforcer of law and order as well. Among mortals, he was yet another mighty symbol of civilization and justice.
INTJ Hera (Ἥρα): She wasn’t the wife next door. She was the queen of Gods and protector of all the women. Someone could even see her as one of the very first symbols of feminine power in ancient cultures. Her rightful rage towards her unfaithful husband, Zeus, was the fuel of her many vengeful actions against him and his lovers. Although she refused Zeus’ first marriage proposal, after marrying him, she became goddess of marriage and patron of the household and childbirth. Hera could be your worst enemy (even Zeus was sometimes afraid of her), but also your most valuable ally. But, most of all, she was true to herself and to her worshipers. After all, she was the queen-mother of the world.
INTP Hades (ᾍδης) or Plouton (Πλούτων): After the Gods defeated the Titans at the beginning of time, the males ones (Zeus, Poseidon and Hades at that time) gathered together to drew lots of ruler-ship over the world. Although Hades was the eldest between them, Zeus received the sky, Poseidon the earth and the sea, but Hades’ fate was to become king of the underworld. He took Persephone, Demeter’s daughter, for his wife and made her queen at his side. A giant three-headed dog guarded the doors to the underworld, thus making entrance to anyone alive almost impossible. Hades didn’t care for the affairs of the world of the living, or even for the matters of the rest of the gods. Although he wasn’t evil, mortals avoided to refer to him by his name in case they drew his attention. They mostly called him Plouton, which meant “rich”, as all the precious minerals came from the underground, thus the boundary of Hades’ kingdom.
ISFJ Demeter (Δημήτηρ): A rather motherly figure and a well-respected goddess. Demeter loved the earth and everything that came from the soil. She protected farmers and brought to them a good harvest year after year. The humblest seed took root whenever blessed by her. Nothing was more precious to her than her own daughter, Persephone. When Hades abducted Persephone with the intention to marry her, Demeter fell in deep sorrow and not a single thing would grow anymore. Everyone was desperate, and an era of great famine was upon the humans.
INFP Persephone (Περσεφόνη) or Kore (Κόρη): It is said that before her abduction by Hades, Persephone was called Kore, which means maiden or daughter. She was, in fact, the beloved daughter of Demeter, that one day while she was peacefully gathering flowers, Hades came and abducted her, as he was deeply in love with the girl. Demeter was so angry and sad after that incident, that forbade the earth to produce and she begun to wander around looking for Persephone. Zeus heard the cries of the hungry mortals and persuaded Hades to release her. Hades tricked Persephone to eat the seeds of a pomegranate before leaving the underworld, but she ignored that if someone tasted underworld food, they were obliged to come back. Demeter agreed that Persephone would spent half a year on earth and half below it. As a result, the time that Persephone returned to Hades as queen of the underworld, Demeter’s sorrow of her daughter’s absence would make winter on earth. As soon as Persephone come back to earth, she would bring the spring with her. Thus, people worshiped her as a goddess of the springtime and the flowers.
ENFP Dionysus (Διόνυσος, Diónysos) or Bacchus (Βάκχος): This one knew how to enjoy life to the fullest. As the god of wine, theater and ecstatic dance, Dionysus was an emblem of freedom and basically… fun. With vines in his hair, a thyrsus in his hands (a wand of ivy vines and leaves) and a smile on his face, Dionysus would stroll the valleys with his many followers, dancing ecstatically, driving them to divine mania. Mortals would call him “the god who comes”. His companion included goat-legged satyrs and maenads. The last ones were women who, after coming to ecstatic frenzy through dancing and drinking, would please Dionysus through blood-offerings, which in some cases meant that maeneds would kill men with bare hands. Dionysus is said to be a god who dies and rises back from the dead. His many, divine powers still remain a mystery to many of us, mortals.
ISTP Hephaestus (Ἥφαιστος): His form and character does not remind of a god. He was a shy one and would rather spend his time crafting weapons on his hot anvil. However, Hephaestus was the god of fire and served as a blacksmith of gods and heroes. His many creations include Hermes’ winged helmet and sandals, Aphrodite’s girdle, Achilles’ armor, Heracles’ bronze clappers, Helios’ (god of the Sun) chariot, Eros’ bow and arrows and all the thrones of the Gods in Olympus. The legend has it that he was Hera’s son, one that she made by herself out of jealously of Zeus giving birth to Athena out of his head. However, Hera ejected him from mount Olympus, because he was lame on one leg. Hephaestus took revenge against Hera by crafting her a magical golden throne, which, when she sat on, it didn’t allow her to stand up, thus making both her legs useless.
ESFP Hermes (Ἑρμῆς): Also known as the “divine trickster”, the messenger of the gods and the guide to the underworld. Hermes was a pleasant god who protected travelers, merchants, shepherds, athletes and thieves, as he was all of those things himself. His appearance is quite known. A young man with the top of his head full of playful curls, wearing winged sandals, winged petasus (traveller’s hat) and holding the kerykeion (a short staff entwined by two serpents and surmounted by wings). Always being on the move, Hermes loved playing tricks on other gods and mortals.
ISTJ Hestia (Ἑστία): Hestia was one of the six children of Kronos and Rhea (among Zeus, Hera, Hades, Poseidon and Demeter) and therefore one of the oldest Gods. She was goddess of the home and domesticity as her name suggests (Ἑστία means “hearth”) as well as protector of households. Mortals used to gift her the first offering of every sacrifice in the household. During the founding of a colony, flame from Hestia’s public hearth in colonizers’ mother city would be carried to the newly founded one. Hestia rejected both the marriage proposals of Poseidon and Apollo, and took an oath of virginity (like Artemis). She cared little for the conflicts of gods and mortals and tended to her domestic matters. Hestia was the simplest and humblest between gods and even offered her place in Olympus to Dionysus, making him the 12th Olympian god in her place, thus showing her divine magnanimity.
INFJ Asclepius (Ἀσκληπιός): He was originally the son of Apollo and a mortal woman. His father offered him, when still an infant, to centaur Chiron to mentor him. Chiron taught him the art of medicine, but an ancient legend says that a snake returned a favor of Asclepius back to him by licking his ears clean and passing him secret knowledge of healing. In order to honor the snake, Asclepius made a rod wreathed with a snake his divine symbol. This very rod is still nowadays associated with healing and medicine. Asclepius mastery of healing reached the level of bringing people back from the dead. This act infuriated Hades and forced Zeus to kill Asclepius and turn him into a constellation known as Ophiuchus (“the Serpent Holder”), which many claim it to be the 13th sign of the zodiac circle.
I mean option A) isn’t that far off from the truth….
About Those Types Misconceptions
INFP: They’re fierce - INFPs often remain silent and are very observant of other people and what makes them who they are, but this apparent softness hides a very passionate drive to do what is right, and if ever a situation or a person does not align with their principles, you will definitely know about it - do not underestimate them.
ENFP: They’re very analytical - Yes ENFPs can seem a little crazy and like they’re constantly fooling around, but it is to be remembered that this type is extremely perceptive of their environment and of ideas, that they dissect carefully and draw conclusions from. They have true depth, and labelling them as shallow would be a big mistake.
INFJ: They’re quite independent - It may sound strange but INFJs are quite independent. They strive to help people to be better individuals and to make the world a nicer place, but they follow their own rules and will not hesitate long to react if you go against them. Harmony is their priority, but don’t you cross them. The difference with INFP is that INFPs will simply see this other person who does not conform to their vision as not really worth their time, INFJs on the other hand trying to change this person’s mind-set for a kinder approach, etc.
ENFJ: They struggle - ENFJs are probably the most disorganised of all J-types, and they take on sometimes way more than they can carry. Even if these guys try to help people as much they can, sometimes it isn’t enough and that can go against them. The bubbly stereotype does not apply to all ENFJs unfortunately, since they can get depressed easily, and thereby stop their advising functions.
INTP: They really care - INTPs can sometimes seem off and uninterested, but this most-likely comes from a system of self-defence to prevent them from harm, as they may have been previously neglected for their ideas or conceptions of the world, and have been misunderstood. If an INTP likes and cares for you, there is nothing they would not do, and their aloofness is not to be taken as pride or smugness (although sometimes they like to be ;) and they genuinely care.
ENTP: They’re just feeling half the time - ENTPs are absolutely mind-blowing master concealers. Their emotions get triggered by the littlest things, and they spend a lot of their time, if not almost all of it, concealing what they perceive as weaknesses under fair amounts of witty comebacks and confidence. These people are actually great empaths, but their chosen priority being logic, they often toss those feelings away for later, and often avoid them until it’s too late.
INTJ: They have feelings - Similar to ENTP, except INTJs truly master their emotions, and manage to chanel them instead of shutting them away. INTJs have a good deal of feelings, except they don’t necessarily feel the need to talk about them, and prefer rational advice when considering their emotional needs, which is seldom given. INTJs openly reject the myth that they lack feelings, and may feel even more misunderstood when they have the impression that they are expressing them, as sometimes they do, but in ways most people don’t perceive because they are seemingly so small, which can be hurtful.
ENTJ: They’re understanding - I’ve said this already, I’m always quite awed by ENTJs, but once you get to know them, they are truly open people. More than once have I heard them give relationship advice, and try to help people understand concepts with detailed explanations and diagrams, they strive for a more efficient and knowledgeable world, which can be seen through a sometimes devoted attitude.
ISFP: They’re not always kind to themselves - ISFPs may appear as charismatic, different, inspired and like they like themselves quite a bit (and that is absolutely great) but sometimes, when their creativity lets them down for example, they have the impression that they are now devoid of their identity, and may feel lost, and even over-criticize themselves. They need to be understood and comforted in their unicity and worth, almost as if they possessed Fe but not quite.
ISTP: They can feel quite lonely - ISTPs love peace and quiet and alone time, but sometimes loneliness can become quite painful. Composing only 2% of the overall population, ISTPs often feel like few if any people actually understand them, and that it may be easier just to crawl back onto themselves and create a shell to self-sustain instead of socialising and creating bonds with people.
ESFP: They’re nostalgic - Living in the moment is often a way for ESFPs to have peace of mind, as their brains are involved elsewhere. Their need for company and action is their way of escaping their responsibilities, that remind them once again that they’re adults or growing into adults now, and that means, for them, that fun is almost over and that they’re going to turn into “boring people”, or be coerced into becoming “normal people”, which their Fi has difficulty dealing with.
ESTP: They value your opinion greatly - ESTPs have strong views on many subjects and they are also very passionate individuals, but boy do they need to be validated. It’s not a bad thing, of course, it’s simply a little surprising (although it shouldn’t be) that someone under appearances so outgoing and frank and sometimes even careless may need approval that what they are doing is good, and that they are accepted.
ISFJ: They’re strong - ISFJs may constantly be trying to please everybody and adhere to everything, but deep down, they know who they are. They know what they like, what they dislike, what they are willing to tolerate, and what they are not. They are capable of enduring so much without ever complaining, and are truly inspiring people, who can talk about anything they set their mind to.
ESFJ: They’re insecure - Organisation and procedure are the ways in which ESFJs try to live by, but it can also truly hide a very anxious nature. Planning is what ESFJs do to prevent lack of resources and preparing ahead to survive is a way in which ESFJs feel that they are under control. Their bubbly nature shows their need to be loved and feel like they have worth. Don’t rely too much on them, although they really want to carry your load with, or even for, you.
ISTJ: They feel misunderstood - Nobody is as organised, structured and rigorous as ISTJs, and the world’ s messiness can be quite overwhelming to them sometimes. That feeling that they’re the only ones holding it all together and getting everything done for everyone can make them feel like they’re being used or that people don’t appreciate them for their true worth, for what they are deep down.
ESTJ: They doubt a lot - ESTJs may appear very confident and they may be your bosses most of the time because they’re great administrators with a plan based on sound facts, but the truth is ESTJs are almost constantly questioning if they’re doing the right thing, and the fear of failure is very much present.
INTP is as done as INTJ they just take it with nihilism
I’ve actually learned recently that I’m a nihilist and now I don’t know what to actually do with myself 😂 not that it matters, right?
I’m stuck in a state of knowing that I need to do something, not wanting to do it so I think about things that I do want to do, but then I feel guilty and stressed about not doing the thing that I really need to do, so I ultimately end up doing nothing at all.
0/10 would not recommend
huge if true
Pretty much spot on!
Why do I attract manipulative people, I have no friends for this reason. Met a guy online in a video game (off to a bad start already, and as a girl in a video game I’m used to guys being weirdos but he wasn’t) and we hit it off pretty good- he ended up getting my number out of me after being super persistent and borderline manipulative but I didn’t want to think the worst. Well now I’m starting to feel he may be that way, I told him I don’t like talking on the phone- yet he stills says I should call. He said “if you really want to talk to me call me.” Like uh ok who are you?? I’m not gonna be told what I really want to do. The words “if you really” just switch a red flag. He thinks I have a crush on him, he thinks I think he’s the most coolest smoothest guy around, news flash I’m an INTP I FIND ROMANCE DISTURBING AND CATS ARE FOREVER COOLER THAN ANY MAN IVE MET. I’m forever debating whether or not I should let this guy into my life or not, the what if’s are never ending. I’m so content with being alone, and when I meet people like this I just feel driven further into isolation. I hate not knowing what to do or who to trust, I don’t think I can trust him at this point. He uses his words strategically, not honestly. This is what worries me, I’ve been naive in the past but not today, I won’t be toyed with by another person. If I am analyzing this too much Idc is rather be cautious then get involved with someone who thinks they can control me.
As some who has dealt with some bullshit people and let people walk all over her when she was younger—are they worth it in the long run? If someone actually cared about you, they wouldn’t actively make you feel uncomfortable when you’ve directly told them that you don’t like speaking on the phone. It’s just a phone call now, but I agree that it’s a red flag for future issues. Now, if he wanted to help you to start being okay with being on the phone and you were willing, sure, that sounds nice, but that’s not what it sounds like.
In the end, go with your gut! Even with how cool and interesting some people are, they’re not always worth the hassle, not when they cause you any unnecessary stress and anxiety.
(A friend of mine just went through this issue with a really manipulative boyfriend and I thank the earth that she finally listened to me and some other friends about getting out of that situation.)
The amazing thing about having another introverted friend is that you both can sit together in the same room quietly and do your own thing without disturbing each other.
Meanwhile, my friend (INTP) cooks, has phone conversations, plays games, sings, plays the piano, and types very loudly on her mechanical keyboard while she Skypes with me (also INTP), whereas I am dead silent and have learned to ignore her noises. All while not even talking to each other 😂
