Liking men, not binaries

A blog for nonbinary, genderqueer, genderfluid, multigender, agender & otherwise not binary people who like men. Truscum, transmeds and exclusionists DNI.

[all-nblm]

Since these kinds of people keep finding my account: this blog is an explicitly pan-supportive space! Pansexuality is not inherently biphobic or transphobic, and if you believe that it is please kindly get the hell off my blog, thank you :)

[moonymlm]

youre a non binary person who loves men? youre so fucking cool and awesome

[glowing-gay]

demiboys who love men? amazing!

[nerdnblm]

fem nblm, masc nblm, and every other kind of nblm people are all always welcome on this blog and in the nblm community!

[zest-the-best-blog]

latine enby twins horizon & sunset 🧑🏽‍🤝‍🧑🏽💜

ze is trixic aka nblw, xe is toric aka nblm!

[a-quaint-little-bitch]

Boys blushing... Very cute.

[a-quaint-little-bitch]

Hear me out: Men.

[friendlyneighbourhoodpapergay]

If you're queer and love men, there isn't anything wrong with you.

Loving men is not a negative trait, so you are not a bad or worse person at all for loving men. Being in a loving relationship with a man or men can be just as beautiful and just as amazing as any other relationship.

[all-nblm]

I just wanna say, thanks for letting this blog exist. A lot of times I struggle with my identity because people treat loving men as a disease or something.

It’s nice to see so many posts of people who also love men. I feel less alone in knowing that...I’m not strange because I love a guy and happen to have a preference for guys.

So once again, thanks

You are very welcome, anon. 💚 Loving men is a wonderful thing, and I'm sorry you've been struggling with it - you deserve to feel good about yourself and your identity.

[a-well-known-clown]

GODDAMN IT FUCKING BOYS BEING PRETTY AND I

[all-nblm]

🍇

Thanks for asking!

🍇 - Does your attraction to men influence your gender? Does your gender influence your attraction?

I don't think my attraction influences my gender, it doesn't feel like it's any important factor - but my gender does definitely influence my attraction! Perhaps not in the experience of attraction itself, but definitely in the way that I conceptualize it. I don't consider myself gay or straight, which makes the experience of talking about and considering my attraction interesting for sure.

[legally-x]

I tried my hand at making a toric/NBLM flag redesign with more visually distinctive stripes. Like the original flag design(s), the purple and green stripes represent non-binary identities, while the light blue stripe represents attraction to men. I’ve included 4 versions of the flag: 3 with the interlocking male/non-binary symbols in different sizes, and one without the symbols entirely. I’m still not sure if I’m 100% satisfied with the colors, so any feedback is appreciated!

[all-nblm]

NBLM asks!

🍇 - Does your attraction to men influence your gender? Does your gender influence your attraction?

🔮 - If you want one or more partners, what would you like them to call you? (partner/girlfriend/boyfriend/etc.)

🌸 - Do you like the nblm flag? What do the colors remind you of?

🌺 - Do you wish there were more well known -romantic/-sexual orientation terms for non-binary people attracted to men, or do you prefer just the nblm label?

💎 - How long have you identified as nblm? Has your personal idea of what that means for yourself changed during that time?

💧 - What’s your favorite thing about being nblm?  

🍏 - Favorite nblm headcanons? (As many as you like!)

🍐 - Do you have a ”type”?      

🍀 - What is an underrated feature of men? (Can be physical or something they do)  

🌳 - Free space - tell me about a boy you like! (Can be a friend, crush, squish, partner, whatever :) )

[thenormalparanormal]

god i love loving boys and not knowing wtf romantic love is

[iimelancholiaheartii-deactivate]

feminine men: ❤️ 💗 💓 💕 💖 💞 💘 💛 💙 💜 💚 💝

masculine men: ❤️ 💗 💓 💕 💖 💞 💘 💛 💙 💜 💚 💝

androgynous men : ❤️ 💗 💓 💕 💖 💞 💘 💛 💙 💜 💚 💝

* this post is trans-inclusive*

[strange-as-it-may-seem]

statements “nonbinary people aren’t and shouldn’t be treated as woman-lite or men-lite” and “some nonbinary people are also men/women” are both true and should coexist

[harlequinhovers]

bro you just posted moomin!!

you're gonna attract the yearning nblm's!!