Tell me a tale of yourself so that i may know thee

Jas | they/he | genderqueer guy | 21yo | sometimes nsfw but tagged #nsfw or #nsfwish | formerly a Snicketverse blog now mixed genderfuckery-mixed fandoms blog DNI: terfs, swerfs, transphobes, ‘gender critical’ people, ace/aro/nonbinary exclusionists, racists, far-right supporters, facists

[strange-as-it-may-seem]

Hi!

I’m J (they/he). I’m in my 20s.

I am a queer, trans, genderqueer man (?).

❗️I occasionally reblog n*sfw stuff (I do not consider this a n*sfw blong, I don’t really reblog full on p*rn, sometimes suggestive stuff etc. although I try to remember to always tag it as such - without the * obviously ), so I would really prefer if you didn’t follow if you are under 18.

just filter that and #nsfwish you should be ok if you don’t wanna see that stuff, this is not really n/sfw blog anyway❗️

My pronouns are they/them and he/him. If you are also genderqueer/nonbinary or neurodivergent like me you can use it/its pronouns for me. For reasons.

I’m in my early 20s. I am from Europe.

I’m anti exclusionary, anti purity culture, pro sex-workers, pro self diagnosis, pro decriminalisation of sex work, anti hate speech, anti censorship. I believe you don’t have to prove to anyone you are queer.

Kink belongs at pride, cops and corporations do not.

I believe in listening to folks about their lived experience.

Any nasty people like terfs, transmisoginists, racists, intersexists, exclusionists, nazis, people seeking to bring harm to other people, etc (list is longer but i won’t list every type of bigot here) aren’t welcome here. I don’t have a DNI, I block liberally

I excourage everyone to seek out and root out internalised prejudices towards oppressed groups. If you think you don’t have any - that’s probably not true.

I am not here to engage in discourse or take side in internet conflicts, I am tired and I am just hanging out here.

~~~~ For some weird reason my asks don’t really work, I think (aka I get mails with them but can’t access them on mobile on which I only use Tumblr so don’t be surprised if I don’t answer an ask). ~~~~

[kurhanchyk]

[kurhanchyk]

are you okay i noticed you reblogging "a raven with a damaged wing. it can still fly with ease" again

[hrtsdsre]

lil beach day

[pmamtraveller]

"Everything Appears as it is: Infinite" by Alex Dodge

[epicsause-official]

i recently found out what the * * * that sometimes separates parts of a text is called and youre never gonna fucking believe it

[pagingmrhermann]

[heathens-and-kings]

I’m gonna be blunt: you bring little worth to a friendship if you’re apathetic toward the good in your friends’ lives. If you shrug when they come to you with little things that they’re happy about, they will eventually stop coming to you with anything and you’ll wonder why that relationship feels stale. Practice genuine excitement with the people in your life. If you see a friend try to downplay how excited they are about something just be like “yoooo! This is a cool thing! You’re a lovely person and you deserve lovely things! I love you!“ 

I think it’s easy to be someone people complain to, but it’s just as if not more important to be someone they know they’re allowed to be excited and proud and happy around.

[theegosystem-deactivated2024012]

Alt text added

Important ^^^

[meburgers]

making sonas

[orcarriagesthatwork]

I think about this cake every day

[tizzymcwizzy]

sorry for exposing your tags but this is hilarious

[microsuedemouse]

OP, I hope you don’t mind me making an addition:

When I turned 17, we ordered a cake at the grocery store for my party, as we’d done many times before. If you wanted something written on the cake you’d write it into a section of the order form. We requested, very simply, “Happy Birthday Courtney”. When we went to pick it up the day of the party, this is what we got.

The bakery employees had absolutely no explanation for this. The order form, attached to the box, very clearly did not contain any of those extra names. Whomever had done the writing was no longer in, so there was no one to ask how this had happened. The fact that the name ‘Juan’ is misspelled bewilders me to this day. (I’ve never seen ‘Miley’ without the E, either, but it’s believable that someone might spell it that way.) Did this cake slip in from an alternate universe where I’m one quarter of a set of Hispanic quadruplets? Dyslexic Hispanic quadruplets, maybe?

This cake became the focal point of my party. At least two of my friends regularly called me ‘Courtney Mily Jaun Pablo’ for years to come. My siblings and I still reference it sometimes, eleven years later. It is probably the funniest thing ever to occur at any birthday celebration of my life, and may well remain so for the rest of my days.

I love a botched cake.

[helenarth]

one time me and some pals spotted one of those big cookie cakes in a store. it was done up with red icing and little X's for kisses and in the middle it said

No One Like You

now, it took us a while to realise it meant "(there is) no one like you". at first, we all parsed it as a botched "no one like(s) you"

for ages after when we'd wind each other up we'd declare "NO ONE LIKE YOU ☹️👎"

[itseasytoremember]

I just feel like it's important to post the Sacred Texts

[shofarsogood]

[ekjohnston]

The Cake Wrecks blog is one that I miss.

[orphanedsource]

the place I work at remodeled these split gendered restrooms into “inclusive restrooms” and never told us what they meant while construction was ongoing. I need you to know every atom of potential criticism or whining that could’ve happened disappeared when people found out this meant we got 10 fully separate private bathrooms with sinks inside. I’ve not heard a single person crack a joke about the inclusive signage. this is the world TERFs are trying to steal from you

[revcleo]

This is called a "superloo" and terfs are actively trying to steal this from you, in the UK they changed bathroom regulations to mean new buildings have to prioritise gendered toilets rather than build superloos.

This also upset a lot of architects and designers who like the superloos. They're also typically more like small rooms rather than having doors you can look under.

[penrosesun]

I have a friend who was strongly against inclusive bathrooms because he felt that “bathroom stalls are already really exposed due to how they’re constructed, so no wonder women don’t want men in the same bathrooms as them” and when I pointed out that we could just… build better bathrooms… with less exposed stalls, he got really quiet and then said “honestly that sounds so much better, but there must be some problem with building them like that, because otherwise wouldn’t we already be doing it?” BESTIE we are. WE ARE. Old-style bathrooms are cheaply made, poorly designed, and all around bad. Haven’t you noticed that men’s restrooms rooms get weirdly sticky? Haven’t you noticed that women’s restrooms end up with giant lines? This is because these rooms are architecturally awful. And we can do better now, because we know more! And we are!!! People are actively designing better bathrooms that address known problems, and guess what: those bathrooms are “inclusive” in the same way that curb-cuts are inclusive. It doesn’t matter if the ramp was built for a wheelchair or a stroller; it doesn’t matter if the bathrooms were designed specifically for gender inclusivity or just because fall-apart-if-you-sneeze-on-them metal stall dividers with giant ass peek gaps suck. We can in fact improve our built environment to better meet our needs. Stop cutting off your nose to spite your face; stop settling for less just because someone else might also enjoy it.

[english-mace]

Seattle's SEA-TAC airport has an all gender restroom that's a row of about a dozen fully enclosed separated little rooms that lock, with a shared bank of sinks and it's great. Love it. Lot of very strange encounters at the sinks, feels odd the first few times! But people laugh it off almost instantly. Because it's not actually a big deal to share a sink.

[crazy-pages]

I traveled to Sweden once and the restrooms at the airport were like this and it was mind blowingly better than anything I'd seen before in the US.

[sissa-arrows]

In France if you suffer from hair loss as a teenage girl and cannot afford a real hair wig the school will try and force you to go to class bald. The school will make you buy a chemotherapy turban, you will buy two different so that the school can choose which one they prefer and you will prove that they are chemotherapy turban and not hijab but once you wear it they will change their mind and say it looks too much like a hijab and insist on you going bald or buying a real hair wig that you cannot afford.

If your doctor makes multiple documents confirming that you suffer from alopecia because of stress and the medicine you have to take for your epilepsy and that wearing a bonnet or something is recommended for your mental health as you’re not ready to go out bald in high school as a teenage girl, instead of admitting they are wrong the school will accuse the doctor of lying and report him to the Ordre des Médecins (equivalent of the General Medical council). Your doctor will find himself asking you for a document stating that you are not Muslim in order to defend himself and prove that no he wasn’t colluding with you so you could wear a substitute for hijab.

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In France if you are a North African nurse at a public hospital and wear a fabric surgical cap they will try to make you remove it because apparently it’s a hidden hijab. They will accuse you of going against secularism and when you’ll argue that they are discriminating you by assuming you’re Muslim for a surgical cap on your head they will change their angle and claim that you should wear nothing on your hair because you wear the same surgical cap in multiple bedroom which is unhygienic apparently (which is a bullshit argument cause you wear the same scrub/uniform in different bedrooms as well). They will go as far as claiming that disposable scrub caps (you know the thin papery ones?) are not okay to wear in a hospital even if you change it regularly. And then they will fire you for a lack of hygiene because you wear a surgical cap.

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All of that will be done in the name of secularism and women’s right despite having nothing do with either quite the opposite.

The teenage girl’s story is also not just about racism and Islamophobia it’s also about ableism as the girl is convinced that the real reason the school is trying to push her out is because she had an epilepsy crisis in class and nobody knew what to do and the school nurse was absent. It could have ended badly had her best friend not known what to do to help. Apparently it was bad enough to cancel class for the rest of the day and the teacher was shocked to the point of ending on sick leave.

[marzipanandminutiae]

oh and don't forget that many parts of France mandate by law how much skin women must show in swimsuits, which they claim is about not getting street dirt in public pools but which is disproportionately enforced on Muslim or even just Middle Eastern/North African women

(and of course is also some forced nudity misogynistic bullshit in general, to boot)

[dozydawn]

[lew-basnight]

Look I know this is a scientific publication but you don’t understand— we need to include milk and cookies in the photo. We have to. Otherwise the science suffers

[letmeinimafairy]

This elm tree definitely wasn't expecting this👀 a river pebble (flint?) with a storm in it, so I had to paint it. A version of the shield to be hanged on a wall at Storm's End 😄

Available as a pendant

[sooosooosoup]

Some rocks loving rocks

[digitalmyyth]

studying that rock

[miikpal]

keep on living

[positivelyqueer]

[ID: digitally illustrated comic person lying down in green field with red wildflowers. Text reads “it might seem like it’s not worth the trouble -but eventually you’ll find peace. /end ID]

[maxmorkson]

Thumbs up, baby!

I know we all adore the classic hot daddy Rocktiz design, but I know in my heart of hearts that human!Rocky would be built like Danny DeVito. I compromised and gave him Ortiz's swoop of hair, but know that he is balding (and worried that Adrian may not be attracted to him anymore when he finally goes home (Adrian still adores him with every fiber of their being)).

Here's my main piece of propaganda:

C'mon, Grace hugging Rocky! The size difference! The smile!!!

You know they'd wear matching suits, come on.

(Also he turned out hotter than anticipated but what can I say, I'm weak for a thick guy.)